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Wave | Sonali Deraniyagala
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One of The New York Times Book Review's 10 Best Books of the YearOn the morning of December 26, 2004, on the southern coast of Sri Lanka, Sonali Deraniyagala lost her parents, her husband, and her two young sons in the tsunami she miraculously survived. In this brave and searingly frank memoir, she describes those first horrifying moments and her long journey since. She has written an engrossing, unsentimental, beautifully poised account: as she struggles through the first months following the tragedy, furiously clenched against a reality that she cannot face and cannot deny; and then, over the ensuing years, as she emerges reluctantly, slowly allowing her memory to take her back through the rich and joyous life shes mourning, from her familys home in London, to the birth of her children, to the year she met her English husband at Cambridge, to her childhood in Colombo; all the while learning the difficult balance between the almost unbearable reminders of her loss and the need to keep her family, somehow, still alive within her.From the Hardcover edition.
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JenniferEgnor
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On the of morning of December 26th, at 7:58a in Sri Lanka, Sonali‘s life changed forever. This is a memoir of the tragic, horrific events of that day—and her grief journey from the moment she realized her family did not survive the tsunami wave that morning. Grief knows no bounds and too often we push it away instead of facing it. It doesn‘t go away; you just make room for it. The author discusses the moment she saw the wave, her moments⬇️

JenniferEgnor in the water, and every emotion she felt after. Fear, anger, guilt, love, despair. She tells her story here in a way that only she can. Gripping and powerful. I especially loved how she brought up her food memories with her family near the end of the book. Food has such a unique way of binding our memories together with those we have loved. (edited) 4mo
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vivastory
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1) I read Golden's Road of Bones during a snowstorm at the beginning of the year & as it is set in Siberia it was the perfect read.
2) After a brief Google search, I am adding the tagged memoir about the '04 Sri Lankan tsunami which sounds both informative & heartbreaking.
3) No preference!
@ozma.of.oz #sundayfunday

BookmarkTavern Your pick for 2 sounds like a difficult but important read. Thank you for posting! 1y
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Kitta
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This book moved me so much and I cried for her. Sonali writes on her grief after her parents, husband, and two sons pass away in the tsunami that wrecked Sri Lankan shores. It‘s powerful and beautifully written. Definitely recommended.

#alphabetgame #letterW @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

Alfoster Oh my! Can‘t bring myself to read this as we lost my husband‘s brother in that tsunami when he was building a house on the beach. Because he was a surfer he ignored the warnings to leave.🥲 2y
Kitta @Alfoster oh my gosh how devastating. I‘m so sorry. It‘s a tough read for sure. Another book I liked for W was 2y
Kitta @Alfoster but it‘s also about grief and death. Similarly moving as I work in oncology. 2y
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Alfoster Wow, well good for you; that‘s gotta be tough but also heartening! I applaud you!👊 2y
Kitta @Alfoster I‘m just a scientist, so I don‘t feel I deserve anything, it‘s the doctors who do the tough work with patients! I just pipette things all day haha 2y
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Thank you for playing 🙌🏻📚 2y
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Eggs
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In 2004, at a beach resort on the coast of Sri Lanka, Sonali Deraniyagala and her family—parents, husband, sons—were swept away by a tsunami. Only Sonali survived to tell their tale. This is her account of the nearly incomprehensible event and its aftermath. 😥 A great book 📚

#tsunami #conflictedworlds @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks

Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Sounds good!!! 3y
Eggs It is! There‘s a movie too @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks 🥰 3y
Tera66 I don't know if I could take this one, 😔 sounds soo sad. 3y
Eggs @tera66 yes but the human spirit prevails😥 3y
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Booksbymybed
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Read in one sitting, heartbreakingly beautiful

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literarymermaid
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Beautifully written but a heart-wrenching story. This was my #readharder2020 for a book about a natural disaster. I can't imagine.

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Wife
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This is a #LMPBC book from last round. I was riveted by the author‘s recollection of being swept away by a violent tsunami, and just as riveted by her feelings and thoughts immediately afterward. The grief she experienced over the loss of her family was intense and I think she was brave to give an honest and unflattering report of her behaviors. Tough read for sure. 3/5🖤s I‘ll get this in the mail soon Nichole @Princess-Kingofkings

Princess-Kingofkings @Wife No worries ~ I'm glad I read it. Who knows how I would respond in that situation? But, I'm still practicing daily surrender to God to renew my heart which controls my responses. 4y
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Princess-Kingofkings
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@Wife I adore this card. I learned about Queen Liliuokalani last year as our homeschool group prepared to learn about Hawaii. No worries about my book. Someday the #MittenLittens will meet.

Wife 🌹 4y
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TheBookHippie
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#LMPBC #GROUPV @Wife @Sward7 @Princess-Kingofkings LADIES THE NEXT TWO books are off to @Sward7 they are being mailed from my friends bookstore with her orders as I can not venture out. So I imagine 5-7 days. Mail is real slow here right now. Enjoy !!! Hope you are all well!!!

Wife Thanks for letting us know. 🌹 4y
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Princess-Kingofkings
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First book for #LMPBC read & headed to @TheBookHippie Group V @Wife @Sward7 Thanks @suvata 📬

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Princess-Kingofkings
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My first book read for #LMPBC Round 008 Group V ~ unthinkable, sad, irritating, silly...life can be stranger than fiction. @suvata @Wife @TheBookHippie @Sward7

Crazeedi Hello my dear friend, I hope you are well, hugs 💚 4y
Princess-Kingofkings @Crazeedi my Silence and Solitude retreat has been cancelled for April so I'm going to have to create my own time of nenewal 4y
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Princess-Kingofkings
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It's here...my choice for #LMPBC Round 008 Group V @Wife @TheBookHippie @Sward7 I'm super excited to try something new with Litsy friends.

Sward7 I‘m excited to read that one. 4y
Wife Looking forward to starting our round!🌹 4y
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LauraBeth
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This may be the saddest book I‘ve ever read, and I‘ve read a lot of sad books. And yet - this book is also very beautiful. 💔

BarbaraBB This book sounds so sad. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. 4y
TrishB Too real life sad for me I think! 4y
CoffeeK8 This book was heartbreaking! 4y
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UwannaPublishme Bitsy! ❤️❤️❤️ 4y
LeahBergen Hello, sweet Bitsy! 😘 4y
Suet624 Oh my. Of course I now need to read this. How devastating that must have been. 4y
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EmilieGR
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Unrelentingly serious

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Pedrocamacho
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This book is less a story about the South Asian tsunami and more a story about the author reclaiming her memory and her peace after her family is swept away.

Hooked_on_books I found this book extraordinary. I can‘t even imagine. 5y
Pedrocamacho @Hooked_on_books Completely agree. Her story is so wrenching. 5y
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Sarahreadstoomuch
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This broke my heart. Emotional memoir of when the author‘s entire life was ripped from her in the 2004 tsunami that claimed the lives of her two children, her husband, and her parents. The audio was breathtaking, as the narrator seemed on verge of tears the whole time too. #LitsyAtoZ:D #readmyowndamnbooks

Tamra Just borrowed - thanks for posting. 5y
Sarahreadstoomuch You‘re welcome @Tamra ! 5y
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calciumkels
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Although this took me forever to finish (starting school, new puppy, new house, etc), I feel accomplished that I finally finished a book that I read for pleasure. The beginning of this biography started fast, loud, and made me anxious. I was glad when it started to iron itself out. Extremely heartbreaking retell.

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Amiable
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A memoir by a woman who lost her husband, two sons and parents in the tsunami that struck the coast of Sri Lanka on Dec. 26, 2004. It's difficult to review because the story is so incredibly tragic. However, the writing was a bit ... I guess detached? Perhaps the author needed that emotional distance to be able to write about her staggering losses. But for me, the account seemed to be missing ... something. 3 stars, but still recommended

CouronneDhiver Oh gosh - that‘s quite a story 5y
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Well-ReadNeck
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#MonthOfMemoirs

The author survived the Sri Lanka Tsunami Of 2004 to learn her husband, two boys and both parents were killed by the storm. This memoir recounts her grief and how she came out on the other side.

https://wellreadneck.wordpress.com/2018/08/19/wave-sonali-deraniyagala/

VeganCleopatra I found this one to be rather good, albeit depressing. 6y
MicheleinPhilly I‘ve had this one for years but haven‘t been able to bring myself to read it yet. I just know I‘m going to be 😭. 6y
batsy @MicheleinPhilly I want to read it but can't bring myself to for the same reason 💔 6y
Aylandra Adding this to my reading list immediately. 6y
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Kerrbearlib
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It‘s a good day to read, everyone! Current book: Wave by Sonali Deraniyagala, my book about grief for the #BoldlyRead2018 challenge. It‘s the memoir of a woman who lost her entire family in the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami. A heartbreaking & touching read.

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Mindyrecycles
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Heartrending, beautifully written memoir of the 2004 Indian Ocean tsunami. #tragic #readingresolutions @Jess7

Jabberwocky I keep seeing posts about this floating around (pun not intended) and I‘m looking forward to reading it, eventually. 😅 6y
CoffeeK8 This book was amazing 6y
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Nute
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Day 8 - Heart-wrenching: There are several books that I have decided never to read again, not because they were poorly written but because the stories were sad, mournful, raw, heartbreaking & they took me to an emotional place that I seldom like to visit. This book did that. It was a painful story. The descriptions of the depth of sorrow were so real & aching that you feel yourself sinking under unrelenting waves of despair.⤵️ #ReadingResolutions

Nute It‘s a true story about the loss of everything, but it‘s also a telling of surviving and persevering. It sheds light on hope and remaining present. Recommended! 6y
CoffeeK8 I totally agree about this book, it‘s amazing but I‘d never want to read it again. There should be a word for this type of book 6y
Buddys_Momma I‘ve been wanting to read this—I know it will devastate me 💔 6y
Nute @CoffeeK8 You have me thinking.🤔 6y
Nute @Buddys_Momma Yes, be prepared.Sometimes I find that a book is too intense and I am not in the right frame of mind, but usually those are the stories that are about to deliver a lesson of growth or an insight of deep reflection. 6y
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rach_simone
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Wow. Sonali Deraniyagala has been through the unthinkable and still has grace and perspective. Her pain comes through so clearly and so does her intelligence and wisdom.

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TheWordJar
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Wave was one of my favorite books last year. The author survived the 2004 Sri Lanka tsunami but lost her entire family--parents, husband, and two children. This memoir chronicles her journey through her grief. Not an easy read by any means, but one that has stuck with me. (And it's on sale now!)

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Eggs
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The morning of December 26, 2004, the tsunami in Sri Lanka took Sonali's mom, dad, husband and two young boys while she miraculously survived. This is her struggle, her saga: poised and beautiful, frank and heartbreaking. 5/5 ⭐️

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knp4597
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If anyone did enjoy this and is interested, I recommend the film "The Impossible" featuring Naomi Watts and Ewan McGregor. They portray another couple who, along with their kids, are also caught in the same tsunami - this time in Thailand. Interestingly, the family on whom the film was based was present during the whole shooting process and apparently many of the extras in the film are actual survivors of the tsunami. (2/2)

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knp4597
Wave | Sonali Deraniyagala
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Would not have chosen to read this for myself had it not been this month's selection for my local library's book club. I've never felt the urge to rubberneck at crash scenes which is kind of how I feel when reading memoirs of survivors of some sort of traumatic event. One exception was "Five Days at Memorial" perhaps because I'm a healthcare provider as well as a southerner and the subject matter deeply resonated with me. (1/2)

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TheKidUpstairs
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A quick Google search for the tagged book (on my Neverending TBR) brought up a number of other #bookishwaves for #booksacrossoceans

@pri_bibliophile @mellisarock

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ReadingEnvy
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Sonali loses her entire family in the 12/26/04 tsunami and writes a book about it. Obviously devastating and heart wrenching, and shows how grief stretches into the future. I'm sure it was therapeutic to write but sharing it with the world must have taken super human strength.

Tamra This has been on my radar, but I've been reluctant. 😐 7y
PrincessLibrarian I listened to the audio-- heartbreaking. 7y
Marmie7 💔 7y
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TheWordJar This was a heart wrenching read, but I'm so glad I read it. 💔 One of my top books last year. 7y
MicheleinPhilly I picked this up at a used bookstore a few years ago but haven't been able to bring myself to read it. 7y
ReadingEnvy @TheWordJar I don't know how she wrote it. 7y
ReadingEnvy @MicheleinPhilly @Tamra it isn't easy reading, but also it is somehow quick. 7y
ReadingEnvy @PrincessLibrarian wow did she read it? 7y
PrincessLibrarian @ReadingEnvy No, but it was still really tough to listen to. 7y
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SaraBeagle
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I don't know if it's Overdrive or my public library that has put together this list of "Beach Reads", but these two, while both very good books, are some of the last I would want to read while on the beach. ?

Susannah Yikes! Someone's got an odd sense of humor ... or appropriateness. 😧 7y
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AKinderman
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Powerful and sad yet empowering

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AKinderman
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Starting this tonight... I should prepare myself for tears, shouldn't I?

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Marmie7
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This book💔

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BooksAtNight
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I got tired of death and destruction in my steampunk novel, so I decided to read a nonfiction book. Picked up this one and knew from the first chapter that the raw grief and anger pouring out of the pages was going to destroy me.

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ReadingEnvy
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Drinking tea from my secret Santa in a cup from my secret Santa and trying to work my way through a pile of books I'm speed dating. #hotdrinkandabook #seasonsreadings2016
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(what is book speed dating? It's a way to cull your stacks or tbr in an intentional way. I had made a goal to do six piles in 2016 and I'm scrambling to make that goal! Read more on my blog http://readingenvy.blogspot.com/2011/06/speed-dating-books.html)

Lacythebookworm Love it! Great idea! 💡❤️ 7y
Marchpane Awesome concept! I will have to try it on my TBR. 7y
DogMomIrene Love your post/idea/process. Just clipped it to Evernote so I can thin my TBR in 2017. I too have too many books on my GR shelf. Sometimes I look and think "I placed that book on my TBR in high school. I graduated in 1989. So...I'm probably not going to get to a few of these..." ? 7y
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CocoReads Great idea! 7y
ReadingEnvy @ocdIrene I try to keep better track of why I add books to read now, because I have books on my tbr at this point that are six years old and who knows why! 7y
ReadingEnvy @Lacythebookworm @Marchpane @CocoReads If you try it, let me know! I started out doing it with my tbr but have shifted to do it to the unread books filling my house 7y
CocoReads @ReadingEnvy I think I will try it after the 1st. I read because it brings me pleasure but lately all the unread books have been stressing me out. 7y
ReadingEnvy @CocoReads for me the tipping point is realizing I have no more space on the shelves hehe 7y
DogMomIrene @ReadingEnvy Me too! When I first joined, I wasn't fully using Goodreads features, but when I realized that I could keep private notes with details about how I heard about a book...me happy. I can't figure out how to access that feature in the app, though, so any books I add when I'm out have fuzzy details. 7y
Irenadawn Jenny ~ what was your feelings on Sweetbitter ? It is on my TBR LIST ? Also , on Goodreads, do you have any suggestions on cleaning up shelves at the end of the year ? My shelves are a mess ! I think I need simple shelve titles and I need to regroup books but how does App accommodate this without staring over ? If you don't know do you know who might? 7y
ReadingEnvy @Irenadawn sweetbitter is good if a bit idealized. Goodreads shelves take a lot of management and I always do the work on a computer, not sure how it works in the app for serious overhaul. 7y
Irenadawn Thank you Jenny ! MERRY CHRISTMAS!! 🎄🎄🎄🎁🎁🎁🎁🎈❤🎈❤ 7y
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MicheleinPhilly
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Lots of #onewordtitles on my shelves. All of these are unread so any reviews/suggestions you may have would be most welcome! Please disregard the chewed up rug - that was a gift from our former foster pup. ☺️ #photoadaynov16

CareBear Wave 💔 7y
cathysaid Lit is engaging and entertaining, with several of those gut-check moments. 7y
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susanw
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I have never read a book so sad. 💔💔 Yet filled with so much love. 💗 Kiss your families people and appreciate what you have! #nonfictionnovember

MicheleinPhilly I found a copy of this for $1 at a used bookstore. But every time I consider reading it I think, "No, I'm not emotionally prepared for this." 7y
Cinfhen It was a sad sad read 😢😢😢 7y
akfreeborn I was changed by this book! Incredible. 7y
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BekahB This book broke my heart. I had to read it in small pieces. It's devastating, beautiful, and powerful. 7y
Lacythebookworm I still think about this one. 💔 7y
ReadingEnvy I have this on my pile. 7y
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KatieMM
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I am listening to this book and every time I turn it on it rips my guts out (another reason I am reading amazing, happy ending romance). It is so beautiful, her depictions of motherhood to little boys is spot on and perfect but in the context of her story also crushingly sad. I cry every time I listen yet I keep going because it is so powerful.

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TheWordJar
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"My surroundings were as deformed as I was." Describing herself as deformed caught me off guard at first, but it's really brilliant. She had survived the tsunami physically unscathed (relatively), but losing her entire family--husband, children, and parents--left everything else about her deformed. This book is making my whole heart ache. ???

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rocknsane
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I read it once before I became a mom and I read it once after becoming a mom. It was still heartbreaking but in a much stronger, piercing way.

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BekahB
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Wave by Sonali Deraniyagala is an incredibly powerful memoir about the loss of her family (her husband, sons, and parents) during the 2004 tsunami in Sri Lanka. Deraniyagala says so much in this short book as we read about her tremendous grief and memories of her family. It took a while for me to read this book because the devastation is so heavy, but it was worth it. It's definitely one of the most #MemorableMemoirs I've ever read. #Booktober

LeahBergen I have this one and need to move it up the pile. 😬 8y
shanebeth I have heard good things about this one! 8y
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Kitta
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Wave is a heartbreaking account of the 2004 tsunami which struck Sri Lanka, killing the author's husband and sons. It's an amazingly written book with such clarity and beautiful phrasing, which makes her grief and devastation leap out of the page and grab you by the heart. I was completely broken reading this.

This is definitely a #memorablememoir, perfect for #booktober. The image is 'Under the Wave off Kanagawa' by Hokusai 🌊 @RealLifeReading

RanaElizabeth I loved this book! 8y
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ReadingEnvy
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August was a huge #bookhaul month because of a book sale and birthday money. #augustofpages For more details you can see my blog http://readingenvy.blogspot.com/2016/08/new-books-in-august-2016.html

LeahBergen Nice!!! 😍 8y
LauraBeth Good stuff 😀 8y
cariashley Gah, Wave is so devastating. 8y
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Howseldomtheydo
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"I am in the unthinkable situation that people cannot bear to contemplate." #augustphotochallenge

akfreeborn Best book I've ever read on grief. 8y
Lacythebookworm So painful, but beautiful. The cover is perfect. 8y
marixa Great cover 8y
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TheSpinecrackersBookClub Such a fitting cover for the theme today. 8y
mrldg This is an amazing memoir, an absorbing story. Loved it 8y
tysephine I read this a couple years ago and it is so amazing. 8y
mrldg One of the best books I've read in ages. Couldn't put it down,felt it was an honor to read such an intimate moving story. 8y
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TheNextBook
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Lost things under "heart breaking events in life that most people never fully recover from." Sonali was in Sri Lanka in 2004 when the tsunami. This is the story of not only the wave, but living after losing so much. Painful to read but poignant and honest.

ShatterMeFangirl This has been on my tbr list for like A YEAR and I'm really excited to read it 8y
TheNextBook @ShatterMeFangirl It's good! The reality of her situation is so just unsettling and unbelievable. I don't if anyone can ever move on from it. 8y
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