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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

Sedna is mentioned in the first part of this chapter so i thought i would share the Goddess card reflection of her I have. If you read it I would be curious to hear how it was received or impacted your thoughts in relation to this chapter and yourself.

AnnCrystal I love this! Sedna was one of the first I read about when I began researching my own Ancestral World.

My ancestors are from Arizona, grandma of my mom's mother.

But I consider the whole of the Americas as my Ancestral World.

This was fascinating for me. Not the tragic of the story, because is felt equal in the extraordinary elements to the tales I read from other “outside“ cultures. From Greece, Nordic, Egypt, Asian, etc.

Epic 👏🏼🤩👍🏼💝💝. (edited) 1w

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My responses are leaving high school, endings of friendships, home the way i lived in it and going to college, then leaving college and going to work- then end of childhood and beginning of adulting…. and of course life after divorce - This cycle does play out in numerous ways through life experiences.

TheBookHippie I worked in locked units-I left it when my daughter was 3 -I just couldn‘t risk myself -I loved it so, but I switched to locked Alzheimer‘s units -at the time this was normal.. I did this for a long time but had to quit when pregnant with my son, when I switched over to education and reading literacy advocacy. All things that were bittersweet. 1w

GingerAntics The only thing this brought to mind to me was genuine childhood. When I hit puberty, a lot of my hopes were dashed… so it wasn‘t necessarily a happier/better beginning, but I think it‘s getting there for me. 1w

nanuska_153 I changed my speciality a couple times, I get the feeling that I need to learn something new from time to time and I switch.Currently trying to change from being the door that everyone knocks when they have a Property Law question to start from 0 in Criminal Law. It's always scary because I like to be considered an expert and it's tough to go through the stress of not knowing how to do your job,but if I feel I can't grow anymore I have to leave. 1w

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

This chapter was interesting- It seemed to have a significant overlap with parts work as well as shadow work. The part that gives up, the part that gets distracted, the part that perseveres… I can relate to all of it. The concept of shadow work is in accepting the parts of ourselves we are uncomfortable with. Through a somatic lens it‘s recognizing the body and brain want us to be safe. My ADHD brain is better suited to some tasks!

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Chrissyreadit I know there are times i‘ve had to be stern with myself, use timers and trackers as well as ask for help and grace. This activity is a great example! I love it- but reading, then writing questions all require my focus more than most tasks- and Sometimes it feels overwhelming- and i‘m easily distracted. But once i start i‘m all in!!! 2w

TheBookHippie No. And people get so upset that this is true of me 🫠😝😅🫣 … 2w

Cuilin Ugh ADHD here too. I go between hating this about myself and then other times completely just accepting it and going with the flow. (And if that is not an indicator of being ADHD, I don‘t know what is lol) but I‘m tired of carrying the shame and guilt. 2w

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kspenmoll Please do not,try not to feel shame, guilt. It‘s such a struggle,I know.My mom had our family very organized- school, homework, rotating work chart-I learned to be open about my ADD but it is easy at work as I work with spec ed students-also, much of my family is similar.The ability to hyper focus is a gift- losing things or leaving them behind is not! but the Tile app is my best friend for finding keys, wallet, even my kindle !!!! 2w

TheBookHippie @kspenmoll my daughter struggles too. 1w

TheBookHippie @Cuilin I think so many creative people have ADHD. It just makes you you … 1w

TheBookHippie @kspenmoll what is the tile app 1w

kspenmoll @TheBookHippie Tile has new name https://www.life360.com/tile-trackers/products/combo-packs 1w

kspenmoll @TheBookHippie I “lose” my phone all over the resource room, etc at work. I just hit the tile button attachment on my key chain. I have one stuck to my kindle, in my wallet, etc. they come in all sizes. Best Buy carries them I think as well as mail order. Not cheap but you can get replacement batteries for some. (edited) 1w

TheBookHippie @kspenmoll thanks!!! 1w

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

Sorry- I am definitely a week or so behind.
I do believe names are important- and are why people have nicknames, change their name, use a married name or keep their name from birth. I personally love hearing how people came by their names too. I think names may speak about who we are- there are people who shorten their name and people who use completed names- go by formal address or first names. It all helps us start the conversation.

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Chrissyreadit It is also telling when people purposely use the wrong name or title. 2w

TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit it‘s abusive when they refuse to use your name. 2w

TheBookHippie So what schedule should we use? It‘s chapter 5 for this current week yes? 2w

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Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie yes i will work on questions for next week for chapter 5 2w

TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit perfect! 2w

TheBookHippie Names have power. Especially for women. And the Ms Miss Mrs thing is a tool of the patriarchy. 2w

BookwormAHN @TheBookHippie I so agree. Also is it just me or is it weird when you get switched from a Miss to Ma'am by the people working at Walmart? 2w

dabbe I am soooooo behind! 😩 2w

ravenlee One of the things about my husband‘s family (him included) that has baffled me for 20 years is that they‘re weird about names. Hub‘s sister is rarely called by her name, just her first initial (which is mine, too, and confused me at first). The cat my MIL had when I met hubby, the cat who loved him and despised me, was never called by her name (Ivy), but was any number of insulting nicknames, including “GrayFat.” 👇🏻 2w

ravenlee Everything and everybody has some weird pseudonym, and it has taken me years to sort out who they‘re talking about. I still don‘t get some of them. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 2w

kspenmoll I am behind reading. What chapter are we on? Apologies everyone! Been in a reading slump. Oops just saw this week is ch.4 Despite not having read this ch. I do believe names have power. I was named for my paternal grandmother & I feel a kinship with her & her life story despite the fact she was dead before I was born. There are so many instances of names & the power they hold. (edited) 2w

TheBookHippie @BookwormAHN it‘s an insult! 2w

nanuska_153 I'm really behind with my reading for work reasons, but I do think names hold power and identity, that's why in concentration camps they switched their names for numbers. It's so alien to me also that some women change their surnames when married, it's not a thing in Spain so when I moved to Ireland it really shocked me.I read it is inherited from a time when women didn't have capacity so they went from being under the guardianship of the father⬇️ 1w

nanuska_153 to the husband. My surname is Armenian, my grandparents escaped during the genocide, so I can't imagine giving it up and erasing them and that part of me from history. It's part of who I am and where I came from, why would I change it for my husband's history? 1w

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This sounds like what it feels like to have ADHD… but for everything. I wonder if that means ADHD people are never having deep spirituality or something. lol
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Bookwomble ADHD can come in the flavour of intense focus that's hard to disengage from, so perhaps us ADHDers can enter altered states of consciousness more easily in certain circumstances 🤔 3w

Cuilin @GingerAntics @Bookwomble I can certainly get into zen “flow” as an ADHDer. I just can‘t predict or schedule when it will happen. 3w

Bookwomble @Cuilin Yep! 😏 3w

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Deblovestoread As a mother who raised an ADHD son I can verify that if the activity was something he liked he could would be all in if the timing was right. Put a fishing pole in his hands it was the most zen thing I ever saw. 3w

GingerAntics @Bookwomble @Cuilin @Deblovestoread I had forgotten the flow state we can slip into so well… good point. 3w

Bookwomble @GingerAntics 😊🫂 3w

dabbe @Bookwomble I see this emoji a lot, but I can't make out what it is with my old eyes. What is this? 🫂 3w

Bookwomble @dabbe Two people hugging in a non-sexual, consensual and supportive fashion 😊 3w

dabbe @Bookwomble I LOVE it! What's it called so I can find it? I've tried looking under “heart“, but it doesn't come up. 3w

Bookwomble @dabbe Search emojis for "hug" ?? 3w

dabbe @Bookwomble Yay! Thank you! 🫂 3w

Chrissyreadit One of my favorite books on ADHD is ADHD 2.0 I know that there were so many things i could not understand about myself until the past few years and that book has been a great tool. Also Breathework. On a more personal thought- The co morbidity of ADHD and CPTSD would be someone who is always alert but unable to sink in for fear of losing alertness of environment. I think when we feel safe and interested magic can happen. 3w

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit I wasn‘t aware of the comorbidity between ADHD and CPTSD… but that makes SO much sense to me. I‘ll have to go look this up. 3w

Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics It‘s not that there is common comorbidity- it‘s the when there is co morbidity- yes look up!!! I could have a huge convo about ADHD- that i considere a superpower- until i became sick AND developed PTSD- everything became challenging…. 3w

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit oh, I‘ve had PTSD since my childhood. I just never thought of them together. 3w

Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics - that‘s why i was thinking you are not experiencing just ADHD- you have neurodivergence and trauma. It‘s a lot to look at- but most of all your body and brain is in a survival loop- and trauma can keep you emotionally responding in a way that made sense when you were actively living in trauma…. just stuff to explore- and i think you will find it good to explore and find strategies that make sense for you ❤️ 3w

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit girl, you are speaking my language… though I may still be actively living in trauma. We‘ll see how much of a home health nurse I am come Tuesday. Sigh 3w

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I think about how we all have our own perspectives and often struggle to see a big picture or accept other perspectives as valid. I would love to be able to feel grounded more often with clearer understanding of situations.

AmyG Same, probably, for all of us. Just takes more work, more awareness and being present. And listening fully to others. (edited) 3w

TheBookHippie I think we all struggle to think it‘s valid -so I switched to this is valid for them. Unless hateful- I don‘t generally care… I think it‘s very important to not dismiss lived experience- especially from someone marginalised. 3w

TheBookHippie I generally feel grounded. Especially in chaos -so I‘m doing fairly better than most in this current regime. Also being in social justice a long time helps. Peace within with chaos outside is the way to live. 3w

Cuilin I really embrace other people‘s opinions, I think having children who are very much of their generation has led me to explore and grow. I love learning I love hearing what other people have to say. For example, I am not a Taylor Swift fan, but I‘ve enjoyed watching people break down the new album and the lyrics both those who hated it and those who love it I find it fascinating. (edited) 3w

ravenlee I like the idea that the fiery skull shows what is behind the persona. It burns away the façade and allows us to see who someone truly is. I‘d like to think sometimes it‘s for the better, but generally not. 3w

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Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal With People Who Try to Control You

Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

We often have “a feeling” but do not know how to respond. Have you ever questioned your intuition? I know that my intuition is often right but sometimes i ignore it because it is “inconvenient “.

AmyG I have been working on listening to my intuition more. How many times, in hindsight, have I realized I should have been listening to myself. But sometimes intuition is a fleeting thought proven correct all along. For me, it‘s trying to be aware of those. 3w

TheBookHippie Anytime I have not trusted my intuition or put it aside to avoid conflict- I have paid dearly. I don‘t do that anymore. Using No. As a complete sentence has helped me immensely. 3w

Cuilin @TheBookHippie Yes no is a complete sentence. Definitely works. I also like to use the pause. I literally say nothing but just keep looking, slightly quizzical. It makes people very uncomfortable, and they start filling in the gap themselves. Yeah, always go with your intuition. 3w

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TheBookHippie @Cuilin oh I‘m going to use that. Thank you. ♥️ 3w

Kerrbearlib @TheBookHippie same! 3w

Kerrbearlib I didn‘t used to listen to my intuition because I was taught not to trust it. I‘ve since realized society brainwashes people, especially women, to not trust our intuition. I think this quote from Controlling People sums it up perfectly: “many people have learned to distrust their own intuition and everyone else's, too. It was not so long ago that those who listened to their intuition were called witches and warlocks.” I trust my intuition now.

ravenlee I feel like this could have a whole separate discussion about menopause/pre-menopause. As a “woman of a certain age,” there‘s a lot of question as to whether any of this is physical or mental/emotional. 3w

Chrissyreadit @Kerrbearlib Yes!!! 3w

Chrissyreadit @ravenlee We can‘t win either- because everything is our fault. I was gaslit for almost a decade and it was perimenopause and menopause- combined with EDS it‘s all excruciating- 3w

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This is something that lives in my thoughts all the time… We are being fear mongered about immigrants.. vaccines… books…and because our brains are hard wired to seek safety it is easy for some people to give in to the fear mongering. In the end Baba Yaga was the provider of safety….

AmyG With all the fear mongering in our news, I have had moments of “fearful doubt”? I recently got vaccines and for a hot minute I felt fear. But I was able to tell myself, listen to myself, that this is science and nothing to fear. 3w

AmyG I also want to add….if someone I don‘t fully trust is trying to help me…well, that makes it more difficult to accept the help. 3w

TheBookHippie I was raised to question everything never take anything at face value. Especially the news, especially those in power. 3w

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TheBookHippie So fear of reaction to a vaccine or drug -yes -but only because I do have multiple medication allergies. It‘s a leap of faith for new things that they‘ll do more good than harm. Otherwise not that I can think of. 3w

Cuilin As an immigrant myself living in America, yeah I‘ve been full of fear a lot lately. It‘s definitely affecting my health. A few years ago, I was in a coffee shop and somebody said something to me about not being American and then ended it with, but you‘re the right type of immigrant so you‘re OK. Like WTF? They really thought that last line made things better. 3w

ravenlee There‘s so much fear of the unknown, fear of the different. It‘s particularly bad now, but it‘s not a recent phenomenon. People in general are afraid of what they do not understand. Sometimes that fear is protective, but it almost cuts off our realm of experience if we never push past it. 3w

Chrissyreadit @AmyG I do think as women it is much harder to trust the medical profession. 3w

Chrissyreadit @TheBookHippie knowing what we know of history it‘s a wonder we can trust anything at all…. 3w

Chrissyreadit @Cuilin I did not realize you are an immigrant! That definitely gives you a different perspective about so much of what is happening now. And Rascim is ugly- and Rascists are currently emboldened…. 3w

Chrissyreadit @Cuilin What are some ways you are caring for yourself? 3w

Chrissyreadit @ravenlee Yes- but also i feel like fear is being groomed and weaponized- and courage is not part of the equation. Especially for fox news watchers. 3w

Cuilin @Chrissyreadit Thanks for asking. I‘ve had some health issues which has kept me home quite a bit for the last two years and I‘m sure all of that is exacerbating my fear. I‘m doing better, getting daily exercise, eating right, etc 3w

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I have always felt a bit of connection to Baba Yaga. When my daughter was little she would ask me which disney princess i was and i always told her i was Baba Yaga. I believed deeply in the wisdom of the crone and fear mongering of witches….

TheBookHippie In my personal post I wrote of how I grew up with this story. I have always loved her. 3w

Cuilin All I knew honestly was from children‘s books like Tomie DePaola. I enjoyed these stories though. 3w

lil1inblue I've got to play catch-up! I don't want to say I got stuck on Chapter 2, but I needed to take it in small bits because it got heavy. I'm hoping to get to Chapter 3 this weekend! I do remember hearing about Baba Yaga from my 4th grade teacher, Mrs. Abrams (she was THE BEST), but I don't remember a lot of details. 3w

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GingerAntics I had never heard of her before this… at least not by the name. 3w

dabbe I'm with @lil1inblue. Chapter 2 was a LOT to digest. Never heard of Baba Yaga either ... can't wait to read about her! 🧡 3w

ravenlee I didn‘t grow up with Baba Yaga exactly, but I encountered the stories sometime in my adolescence. Now I‘m starting to think about elements of the BY/Vasilisa stories in books I‘ve read. For instance, Ilona Andrews incorporates Vasilisa into the Kate Daniels world (specifically the Roman novella Sanctuary), Patricia Briggs‘ Mercy Thompson series features a Baba Yaga who is involved in MLM sales… 3w

ravenlee …and I‘m starting to wonder if the heroine of Katherine Arden‘s Small Spaces is a Vasilisa. Well, I had an amazing literature mentor who leaned heavily into Jung/Campbell/Frye archetypes and I‘ve been conditioned to find archetypes in literature! 😆 3w

Chrissyreadit @lil1inblue @dabbe take your time- Chapters are a lot. There is always time to jump in where you are ❤️ 3w

Chrissyreadit @ravenlee I love that!! And i bet those archetypes appear in places we have not yet realized too! 3w

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Darklunarose I really enjoyed this book a few years back. And she isn‘t wrong about love. 1mo

IriDas I‘m afraid I don‘t agree. If everything tells you to leave, you should look into that feeling. Because if you truly love, you won‘t get that feeling unless there‘s a very serious problem. 1mo

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Chrissyreadit @IriDas I think this is complicated and nuanced- and depends on the perspective of the quote for sure. You are right that too many times women stay in dangerous relationships with a misconception of love. Maybe the first step is defining healthy love, then feeling safe when it is healthy. 1mo

kspenmoll @IriDas I truly appreciate your point of view and it certainly is valid. My perspective is different because of my 34 year-old marriage-early in our marriage my husband suffered a series of devastating losses: after 22 yrs.,he lost the job he was passionate about due to a buy out, his younger brother died suddenly, leaving behind an infant & 5 yr.old, his mother died of cancer. He succumbed to a deep depression. I was left to take care of ⬇️ (edited) 1mo

kspenmoll @IriDas ⬆️ our 4 yr. old, manage the household, manage my ongoing recovery from a previous car accident, look for a job. I did indeed feel like “running” as fast as I could! But I chose to stay if he would get treatment.I was lucky to have the support of family & friends. He found the tight treatment, embraced it & worked his way back to the land of the living.In the process he was diagnosed with Autism like our son. I went to work & grad ⬇️ (edited) 1mo

kspenmoll @IriDas school & he was home with our son. I know many women do not run from abusive situations- I have a sister & close friend who eventually left theirs.thank you for your response to this post; it certainly caused me to reflect more deeply on what I posted.💕💕 (edited) 1mo

IriDas @kspenmoll Thanks for sharing your story. It helped understand your perspective and why that quote resonated with you. So glad to hear that your husband was willing to seek help. It truly makes me happy to hear. I realize that I too should have probably phrased my last sentence better. I wish we lived in a society where people didn‘t use quotes like this one to shame people into staying in bad situations and that more stories ended like yours. 💕 1mo

Chrissyreadit @kspenmoll Thank you for sharing your story. The power of your resilience and love was beautiful. 1mo

Chrissyreadit What did you go to grad school for? 1mo

kspenmoll @Chrissyreadit My Masters is in Special Education! 1mo

kspenmoll @Chrissyreadit ❤️❤️❤️ 1mo

Chrissyreadit @🙌🙌💛🙌🙌 1mo

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Just wanted to share this with the group, because it‘s a very interesting look… from both sides

https://youtu.be/lrYx7HaUlMY?si=mWVM55-bxGE4Nv09

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Chrissyreadit I have watched her before. I love this talk tbh. Thank you for sharing! 1mo

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit she is great. She‘s given others, too. I‘ve watched one other, but somewhere I read she‘d done several, so I must find them all. 1mo

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From ch. 3. Loved this chapter with its stories & lore. #wildwoman

Vasilisa the Beautiful: A Russian Folktale

TheBookHippie My Bubbe told me Vasilisa stories . A beautiful picture book you may enjoy and is probably at your library

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kspenmoll @TheBookHippie Thank you! I will look for it! 1mo

AnnCrystal Wow! 💝💝💝. 1mo

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I have been wondering why this subgenre is so popular. As someone who has been stalked and assaulted I have a hard time finding the romance in any of this- it lends more to horror for me (although i did think Hooked told a good story and was shocked i liked it) But when reading chapter 2 in the book I wonder if this is a different way to understand the dark man in our psyches. Or is this representing our Shadows and our own dark sides? I have

Chrissyreadit so many thoughts and hopes for discussion on this topic- What do these books heal in us? or What messages do you get from genres with more violence and/or taboo themes? How do you respond to taboo? Could that be a dark man in your life? 1mo

GingerAntics Yeah, I‘ve wondered that myself. I used to enjoy those books as a teen, until I was stalked, abused, etc. Now they just don‘t sit right with me. I‘ve always seen it as the predator trying to convince us that their harm is actually good/romantic. I find it troubling that more and more of this is written by women. 1mo

TheBookHippie @Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics interestingly I‘ve found unhealed women read these and healed women abhor them. Only reason I say this is it‘s how I feel and then I got into a discussion with some women and they said they read it for comfort because it was comforting. When they got to healing and therapy they no longer could read it. Interesting. I honestly don‘t know over all- that‘s a tiny group here at a women shelter book club. I personally ⬇️ 1mo

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TheBookHippie Don‘t read this type of book. I don‘t read certain subjects because I do not believe it‘s ethical and is sometimes theater trauma or voyeur trauma. No thanks. There are things I lived I care not to read about. It‘s not what I use reading for. I however have no issue with people who need it or want it. Personal choice is not my business. 🙃 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie that‘s a really valid point. If some people want to read it, like it, more power to them I guess. I still find it heartbreaking that falling for the predator is this massive trope. I mean, even Beauty and the Beast falls into this. We‘re selling it to little kids as normal. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I adored dark fairytales as a child and they were comforting because no happy ending and it was real. Like my life. Disney fairytales made me angry because I felt it was lying. It is probably why I adore Alice in Wonderland more than the others. I still love Dark FairyTales but now it‘s just nostalgia -look what saved me. 1mo

lil1inblue @TheBookHippie I tend to agree with you. I don't find an overall value in this type of book, and it does feel voyeuristic. Not gonna judge others for reading it, but it's not for me. 🎯 1mo

BookwormAHN I don't know, I read Anne Rice's Beauty novels as a teenager and they really freaked me out. Having said that Haunting Adeline is on my tbr. I think it just depends on the story and my mood 🤷🏼‍♀️ 1mo

ravenlee I wonder if some of the appeal of reading this is that, at any point, you can put it down. It‘s a small power, but sometimes that‘s all you‘ve got. Maybe the glimpse into the male motivation validates something for some readers (largely the ones who think rape is about sex rather than power - I had someone explain rape fantasy to me as “making a man so wild he can‘t overcome his desire for me” 🤢). 1mo

GingerAntics @ravenlee 🤮 gross! I don‘t mind a mutual chasing fantasy, where a couple who have developed a relationship and trust have this shared fantasy of chasing and catching and whatever… because it‘s mutual and it‘s a good time for all. I just don‘t understand rape fantasies, though. Just, gross. It seriously sounds like something a man made up and convinced some women they actually had. 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie I like original fairytales too. They are more about teaching kids about life and reality than this Disney crap. I loved Disney movies as a kid, but mostly for the music. If it‘s a musical, I‘ll watch just about anything. lol 1mo

TheBookHippie @ravenlee controlling the narrative is big. Rape is about power and control. So they are controlling at what they can take in is plausible. Uncontrollable desire is a myth. Insecure women fall for it everyday … 1mo

AmyG I am always fascinated by people who do things I‘d never dream of doing. What compels them. It‘s all about understanding why. @ravenlee Yes…understanding the motivation. But I don‘t read these either or don‘t intentionally read them or even like them. (edited) 1mo

AnnCrystal This is an incredible thread to read through.

Personally I can't read stories or watch movies with this kind of romance...well, too much gore or sex just gets annoying anyway...but painting this kind of sinister romance seems dangerous.

I like a good beauty and the beast story, there's a message there. There's more to a person besides their “good“ or “bad“ looks.

But respect and trust in a relationship should be things that are highlighted. 👇 1mo

AnnCrystal I haven't read these titles, but I have had the opportunity to buy each of these books. Thankfully I researched beforehand or read the book's “warning.“

I have accidentally read books like these. If too terrible, they usually get donated, unfinished. Otherwise I skip along.

I feel that stories like these might make a young girl believe that this kind of disrespect is ok, natural, acceptable.

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AnnCrystal In a world with so many predators and bullies, we need stories that teach our young girls what respect means.

I believe there are many of us who are looking warriors, and so many mistake cruelty for strength... (edited) 1mo

ElizaMarie So, I am behind on the #WildWomenReading, so I am going to answer this (but not using the current reading to guide my discussion). I have been stalked/beaten/tortured/sexually assaulted AND I have read these types of books (only Lights Out on this list). I don't know why I do. I don't know if its a feeling of control. Like I can read about these things, and be fully “safe“. I watch documentaries about DV, watch Law & Order SVU, podcast truecrime ⬇ 1mo

ElizaMarie And yet, when I feel unsafe or triggered. I can use my coping skills, or totally avoid/DNF/quit the subject. I don't know if it's a test of my boundaries and my feelings of safety, or what it is. I am currently reading this one and am very much struggling with it. He is a stalker/user/rapist. I am more than likely going to DNF it. Some of these dark “romances“ are about stalking and/or coercion, but they try to pretend the woman finds it ⬇ (edited) 1mo

ElizaMarie desirable. Which helps me not think of it as “rape“ even though the parallels are there. 1mo

ElizaMarie @ravenlee I answered this, then went back and read everyone's comments - I think that's what it does for me. I can put it down. I can choose, where in the past, that choice was taken from me. 1mo

ElizaMarie @AnnCrystal I agree with the concern of having young girls feel this type of male attention is “normal“ or should be “sought“. I, too, worry about what we teach children (both boys and girls) about consent, respect, kindness, and general human-ness.

I don't know how old. You are, but have you seen stories about how we as a society talked about women's bodies in the 90s? That was my teenage years and deeply ingrained into my psyche. 1mo

AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie 💝🫂💝 the 90s were my childhood years.

That's true, we need to teach the boys too. We need to encourage these important teachings into our children daily lives.

For one of the books I accidentally read recently, I went researching about it after and saw a review from a young woman. She said it had been the very first book she ever read and believed that the abuse in the book was just how romance was, normal. 1mo

AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie that review has really remain with me. The same reviewer stated that she has now read other books, and has come to realize her mistake. But her words spoke volume.

You're right. I believe so much more work needs to be done to educate our children on what a healthy relationship truly is...

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ElizaMarie @AnnCrystal wow that review is so powerfully heartbreaking. I can see why it stuck. (Thanks for sharing that with me) 1mo

AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie 🥲👌🏼💝🫂💝. 1mo

Chrissyreadit @ElizaMarie @AnnCrystal One thing i find interesting is that sex in the books i grew up reading was always focused on male pleasure or denegrating women… or that women are left… or get pregnant and left- We really did not have any sex positive stuff- Then i remember Delta of Venus…. written by Anais Nin and very rough for women…. 1mo

AnnCrystal @Chrissyreadit 📚🥺📚 Terrible truth. I will search about Anais Nin 😉👍🏼📚💝.

Most of the books that seem easiest to run across are usually the ones showcasing abuse and bullying as romance. It enrages me that it seems so difficult to find romance stories that depict good, well structured relationships.

Truthfully, I'm not much of a romance reader, I prefer love stories to that are woven into the background of the main story events. 1mo

AnnCrystal @ElizaMarie I checked my notes. The book I was referring to was:

Twisted love by Ana Huang, the review had been on Goodreads.

Just wanted to make a reference note.

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The sentence before this refers to the way families of origin impact emotional health, then recognizes the way culture impacts mental health. The discussion around this is the source of many books. In this case the dark man is the entity that threatens our cultural health. What are ways we can create and strengthen our emotional energy when culture is ruled by a predator?

GingerAntics I think we‘ve got “culture ruled by a predator” nailed. I think the biggest problem facing us today is that too few people see this as a problem. 1mo

TheBookHippie Art, Music, Poetry, create create create. Facilitate joy. That‘s the response. Form community. That‘s a culture response. (edited) 1mo

ElizaMarie Again, I am behind. I will try to read today (been a rough week). This quote reminded me of the “diluting water“ video. Where your generational trauma gets passed on, and then you get “water“ to dilute it and make it less of a trauma to pass on yourself. My “water“ is --- friendship (groups of strong people like y'all), finding little wins, taking time for me. 1mo

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Do you recognize parts of yourself that can feel toxic but are actually also healthy and necessary?

GingerAntics My anger and my drive. Both can be toxic if I don‘t find a proper outlet for them, but when I do find a proper outlet, amazing things can happen. 1mo

TheBookHippie My sheer will. Tenacity. I am not swayed. Immovable. No tact. And with @GingerAntics anger …my RAGE is misinterpreted constantly. Interestingly enough my love and loyalty are seen as threats. Allll could be toxic or viewed incorrectly. Everyday I wake up I chose -do I use all of this for good. 😶 1mo

AmyG Absolutely. I tend to give people alot of “rope to hang themselves with”. Once I reach my limit with someone because of how they treat me or others….I am done. No more chances. I am quite rigid in that respect. 1mo

ElizaMarie My compartmentalizm. I work as a psychiatric/mental health nurse. I engage with a challenging population and am not well-treated by most of my patients. I am able to remove myself from the nasty insults getting slung at me, do what needs to be done in the moment, and maintain my peace (which can be difficult). It turns into a problem when I do this way too much and build too strong walls. (But thats what therapy is for 🤍) 1mo

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This chapter was intense! Was there a quote or thought you want to discuss? Please post and share!
Have you ever considered what archetypes you embody? Both the light and shadow side?

GingerAntics Which chapter was this? I feel like I‘m lost. Sorry. My brain has not been working properly lately. I‘m hoping it fully engages again next week. 1mo

Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics it‘s chapter 2 1mo

GingerAntics OH I‘VE READ THAT CHAPTER!!! I feel so accomplished. Thank you! 1mo

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Deblovestoread I really feel this quote. I feel like I have compartmentalized each section of my life based on that times trauma. My child self is one being raised by an angry mother whose words and hands struck out, my teenage rebel self who made horrible choices and so on. They each informed the next but also each lives in their little pocket if that makes sense. 1mo

Deblovestoread So this quote really resonated with me “….or those with injured instincts still, like flowers, turn in the direction of whatever sun is offered.” 1mo

TheBookHippie Mostly the creative and freedom things struck me. 🙃 1mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

I can‘t remember who I was talking about this with a few weeks ago… but I did find both this book and this app with a complete deck in it. Maybe this is our next discussion on archetypes. lol
@Chrissyreadit @CaroPi, @Cuilin, @TheBookHippie, @Deblovestoread, @zezeki, @BookwormAHN, @PathfinderNicole, @ravenlee, @dabbe, @ElizaMarie, @ImperfectCJ, @nanuska_153, @nosufoxes, @lillinblue

dabbe Ooh, interesting. I know absolutely NOTHING about tarot cards. mean 🤔 1mo

Chrissyreadit i love this!!! please feel free to add discussion posts! (I‘m delayed with chapter 2 also. ) 1mo

Chrissyreadit I love Tarot!!!btw 1mo

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lil1inblue Oooh, I'm intrigued! 😍 1mo

BookwormAHN Sounds interesting 😺 1mo

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit I still need to figure out how to get my hands on this puppy! lol 1mo

GingerAntics @lil1inblue @BookwormAHN doesn‘t it? I‘ve always been interested in the mythology and psychology behind tarot. Somehow, this popped up and sounded like just the thing I was looking for! I love when that happens. 1mo

kspenmoll It‘s sounds fascinating. I want to get Maria Popova‘s based an tarot cards

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GingerAntics @kspenmoll Oh, those cards would be pretty! 1mo

GingerAntics @kspenmoll I have my eye on the banned books tarot deck and maybe a few others. There are also “Celtic oracle cards” that use the ogham alphabet that I would love to explore. 1mo

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Hey #WildWomen - I haven‘t gotten into the discussions because my new copy (bigger print!) was stinky and needed airing out. I thought I‘d catch up this weekend, but I landed in the ER today for a few hours (tried to get a tattoo, now I have 3.5 octopus tentacles and that‘s it 😆 because I had a vagal seizure partway through) so my plans have…changed. I‘ll catch up when I‘m able! I‘m home, resting and recharging, and headed for okay.

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Chrissyreadit I hope you continue to feel better!!! 1mo

Ruthiella Yikes! Wishing you a speedy recovery. ❤️‍🩹 1mo

TheBookHippie Oh dear … hope you continue to recover!!! 🐙 1mo

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thebacklistbook Had a vasovagal episode when I had my ears pierced, I know how much they suck! pamper yourself for a while. 1mo

BookwormAHN Wild night, I hope get some rest and feel better 💗 1mo

nanuska_153 Oh no! Hope you recover soon! ❤️ The octopus was such a cute idea though! Would you be able to complete it or you'll just leave it at 3.5 tentacles? It makes a very mysterious tattoo right now! 1mo

julesG Hope you feel better soon! 1mo

Bookwomble ❤️‍🩹 1mo

Librarybelle Hope you feel better soon 1mo

AmyG Feel better! 1mo

Amiable Ugh! Hope you‘re feeling better now! 1mo

Kenyazero Yikes, what a day! Glad you‘re resting. Sorry the day didn‘t go as planned 😨 1mo

Cuilin Oh my gosh, take care. I hope you get to complete your tattoo at some point. 🐙 1mo

Eggbeater I'm so sorry. It is just the cutest tattoo, too. Get some rest. I hope you can try again. 1mo

dabbe W😮WZA! Hope you're feeling better soon! 💛💜🧡 1mo

Kitta So cute! 🐙 will you get him finished at some point? I hope you feel better 1mo

lil1inblue Hope you recover swiftly! FWIW, the tattoo is adorable. The octopus is a fascinating creature. I hope you can complete it at some point! 💓 1mo

GingerAntics HOLY CRAP!!! Apparently you went a little too wild for your brain tonight. Hang in there lady!!! We will be here when you‘re ready to discuss. Take your time. Lots of hugs and relaxing!!! 1mo

Bookperson96 Cute little fella. Speedy recovery to you! 🙂 1mo

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I've been having a lot of trouble with the way this book is written (so. many. words.) so I picked up the abridged audiobook on Libby, with Estes telling some of the stories and explaining some of the concepts, and I found it much more accessible. I think sometimes storytelling and writing are two very different things. Figured I'd mention the audiobook in case others are having trouble with the book as I was. #womenwhorunwiththewolves

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Women who Run with the Wolves: Contacting the Power of the Wild Woman | Clarissa Pinkola Est's

I alluded to this in a previous post, but the most lasting traditions in my family center around bedtime routines. We've tried a lot of things, but this one has stuck the longest. Since my younger kid was 2 or 3, we've been doing a bedtime routine we call "gratefuls, sorries, and intends" in which we go around and each list one thing from the day for which we're grateful, one thing for which we're sorry, and one thing we intend for the next day.⬇️

ImperfectCJ Over the past year, we've also been reading one entry from The Daily Stoic. When we have overnight guests, they join in. When the college kid comes home for breaks, they join back in. If someone's out of town, we'll often schedule calls for bedtime so we can keep the routine. I was interviewed about it for a local radio segment about how families were weathering the pandemic. We don't have many other traditions, but I'm grateful we have this one.

The Daily Stoic: 366 Meditations on Wisdom, Perseverance, and the Art of Living

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lil1inblue This is an absolutely beautiful tradition. I so adore and admire it! What wonderful memories it must make. 💓🥰💓 2mo

ImperfectCJ @lil1inblue My spouse and I were reflecting on the fact that, because we started doing the routine when he was so young, our son (now 16) likely has no concrete memories of bedtime without this routine. It's a humbling reminder of how parents shape their children's experience of life. I'm grateful we have this one intentional tradition in addition to the many sometimes not as awesome unintentional habits and routines our kids are accustomed to. (edited) 2mo

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ElizaMarie I love this!!! 2mo

kspenmoll What a beautiful tradition! We used to say highlights & lowlights of the day before bed. My son remembers; maybe yours will at some point. 2mo

mavey @ImperfectCJ such beautiful tradition! 2mo

ImperfectCJ @kspenmoll I like highlights/lowlights! We did "likes and dislikes" during dinner for a while, but that one fell by the wayside, while gratefuls and sorries has endured. I wonder what will happen when our son goes off to college, if my spouse and I will keep the bedtime routine (I hope so; I like that touching base each evening). 2mo

dabbe L💜VE everything about this! And I hope you and your spouse keep it up, too. 🧡💜🩶 2mo

AnnCrystal A beautiful tradition 💝💝💝. 2mo

Cuilin Such a beautiful tradition. 2mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

I wonder how accurate this claim is, because I am almost 40, I‘ve hand many nightmares, night terrors, and nocturnal panic attacks (thanks Wil Wheaton for that term) in my life, but I have never had a dream like she describes. Maybe it‘s just me. She would have me believe it is, but I‘m curious about evidence for this.
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lil1inblue I'm 45 and have had all the nightmares and terrors you describe. I've had some healing lucid-like dreams about specific people. But also never what she described in the book. But my terrors and nightmares started when I was 7 and are very much trauma related, so I wonder if that has something to do with it. 2mo

GingerAntics @lil1inblue yeah, I‘ve had a recurring weird dream for as long as I can remember, and it‘s trauma related. So I have no clue what this lady is talking about. I‘m sitting here thinking, what are you supporting sources? Thanks. lol 2mo

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ElizaMarie @lil1inblue I am curious also about how Trauma interferes. I have also had a variety of nightmares/terrors, mostly r/t to the trauma I had experienced. 2mo

lil1inblue @GingerAntics @ElizaMarie First and foremost - sending virtual hugs! 🫂 Secondly, now I'm waiting here hoping someone who has had this dream will fill us in! 🤣🫠 2mo

kspenmoll Can you tell me page # this quote is from? Thx! 2mo

GingerAntics @ElizaMarie @lil1inblue it‘s feeling pretty universal NOT to have this dream at the moment. I definitely think we need more information about trauma response in this process. 2mo

Bookwomble The claim of universality is a red flag for me. Not even the actual universal experiences of birth and death are the same for everybody, much less dream experiences. She negates her claim by saying it would be "remarkable if..", not "impossible that...". I wouldn't vex yourself overly much about a crass generalisation. And, I'm bookending @lil1inblue 's virtual hug, if you wish to accept it ?❤️ 2mo

GingerAntics @kspenmoll well, on my phone it‘s at the bottom of 183 into 184. On my iPad it will be different! I can check that later today, and later than that my hard copy at home. It might be easier to tell you it‘s near the end of chapter 2, the second sentence after the heading “The Dark Man in Women‘s Dreams.” 2mo

kspenmoll @GingerAntics That is enough- thanks for info. I know where you mean! 2mo

Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics @lil1inblue @ElizaMarie @kspenmoll @Bookwomble I am not an expert in Jungian psychology- but there are aspects of this to clarify through a somatic lens for anyone who is interested: 1. Dreams themselves are semi archetypal- our brain uses information through a lens it feels connected to to process information. It does not make sense some of the time- and we do not always remember our dreams. I read the section just now but not the 2mo

Chrissyreadit chapter so my information is through a somatic developmental lens. She is talking about how women process their sense of safety within themselves. A comprable dream is any one where you felt helpless. the goal of internal work is that the psyche develops the tools, support and information it needs to feel safe and confident. In the Estes lens she suggests that all women experience a dream where they feel helpless or thwarted or harmed- and by age 2mo

Chrissyreadit 25 is roughly the developmental stage from dependence to independence (late adolescence to adulthood). Psychological developmental theory is that we all go through stages of development- Jungian theory has an emphasis on dream work to process it. The reality is we all dream- but we do not all understand or interpret dreams the same way. I would not consider it quite so literally- it is an archetype- rather recognizing that dreams in which you 2mo

Chrissyreadit felt powerless were meant to help you identify and find your strength and use your fear to find safety. Trauma will completely impact dreams. The brain wants us to find paths of safety from literal danger compared to existential danger. I look forward to hearing all of your continued thoughts- i hope this makes sense- and feel free to add your perspective. 2mo

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit the psychological development theory makes sense to me… I guess I‘ve never been into too much of Young. I just couldn‘t get through his writings. I guess I was just put off by her description. I think yours was much better. If that‘s the case, I‘ve been having this dream since I was in preschool, so maybe I‘m still off. 2mo

GingerAntics @Bookwomble It certainly felt like an over generalisation, even over simplification. If this is really her dissertation, I have no clue how she managed to get her PhD. 2mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads I am a psychologist who never heard of this and never had the dream 2mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads @GingerAntics LOL Exactly!! 2mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads is Jungian theory used much these days? I feel like it‘s rather dated in that sense. Maybe I‘m wrong, though. 2mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads @GingerAntics It IS a personality THEORY which has its points but it is not a form of psychotherapy that is used. These days therapists use “evidenced-based” treatment and that is certainly not. 1mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads I did not like this book when came out many , many years ago. A couple of my friends were reading it. It seemed made up to appeal to a certain audience because it was supposed to speak about women, and as you said, there is too much generalization. It did not resonate with me. Like I said, I have never heard of that term or such a dream and I go way back in the day. (edited) 1mo

lil1inblue @chrissyreadit Ok, now it's making more sense. I was interpreting the word "initiatory" in a different (and incorrect in this context) way. So I've been having my version of this dream since I was 7. ?‍? 1mo

Chrissyreadit @DrSabrinaMoldenReads @GingerAntics Evidence based practice recognizes that sleep cycles and dreams are vital parts of mental health. The way humans make meaning and feel safe differs by culture- but still important to recognize in all evidence based therapy as a practice. Another example is the book

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lil1inblue @GingerAntics I remember reading a little Jung in college, but it was for lit classes. 🤣 1mo

Chrissyreadit Her use of jungian psychology and archetypes is what was known and understood- but i personally do not believe in discounting foundations in understanding. Today we use Parts Theory- and those parts have archetypal meaning/identity. We use the stories we tell ourselves to support the decisions we make and are living in real time where false narratives are being accepted as true. I have not read enough of this book to offer an opinion on this work 1mo

Chrissyreadit But the lens she is offering is meaningful because stories and the way we make sense of them are not only meaningful but still used today. Specifically consider how the Bible is used with both literal and figurative meanings and at times weaponized. 1mo

TheBookHippie I think a point to mention here is something the departed Leslie Jordon would say about church”If it wasn‘t for me I just left it under the pew, because someone else must need to hear it. I just took what I needed for me.” In books like this that‘s true too. Use what speaks to you. Leave the rest for someone who needs it. Is she generalising -perhaps but there‘s some really good things in here that have helped countless people. That‘s wonderful. 1mo

Chrissyreadit @lil1inblue I would say in this lens it indicates you had to become independent or face taking care of yourself through a need for safety and what are the ways you found safety….. 1mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads @Chrissyreadit I agreed that it is a personality THEORY that has its good points. But it is a theory. Not proven by research. I get worried about people just relying on such when they have serious problems such as suicidal thoughts which do necessitate evidenced-based treatment . I‘ll bow out here though B/C I have a different perspective based on my experience of providing treatment over many years. I do love personality theories though. (edited) 1mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads @TheBookHippie How do you know it‘s helped “countless people”? 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads I‘m REALLY struggling with this book. I‘m just not getting into it and I‘m not get the same feeling as other people, it feels like. I think it‘s horrible, repetitive writing and total BS. It‘s about women‘s empowerment, but somehow there is always a man to the rescue in the end and she‘s really stretching that to be “women‘s inner strength.” Yeah, I don‘t think anyone ever thought that before you, lady. 1mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads @Chrissyreadit I have been a clinical psychologist for over 40 years and do not do dream interpretation and do not know anyone who does. It was not part of my graduate school training. I know folks love this book and like I said I will bow out. I am glad that you find it helpful. For reasons, it‘s not for a person like me. (edited) 1mo

GingerAntics @lil1inblue lit class? Hm. I read a tiny bit in psychology, but he was very verbose and it was mostly like “hey, this is the history of the science so we‘re just touching upon it. 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie that 1mo

DrSabrinaMoldenReads @GingerAntics Generally agree with you! 🥰 1mo

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit like narrative therapy. That makes sense. I always thought that was about personal narratives, but I suppose personal narratives are informed by cultural stories. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads many women I‘ve mentored and my sister in law, many teachers I work with. 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads the author does make these sweeping claims and I‘m like, show your work! Although, if you go to any review section of this book on any website, there seem to be two camps “oh this is so groundbreaking, how revolutionary” and “this is drivel.” 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads to add over 30 years since this book has been out still women mention it as helping them when speaking to me after I give a talk or speech about surviving multiple traumas and rape. Not every book is for every person and not every practice is either. Doesn‘t mean it‘s not valid. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics update copy probably helps the last third of my book has “proofs” I think it‘s this is one woman‘s theory of how to heal. Is there anything for me, or someone I know. I just leave it at that. Somethings in here have truly helped people and for that I am grateful. I‘m rereading it after decades and some of it I agree with some I think well that‘s not for me and I turn the page 🤣🙃😅. 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie a lot of people do feel this has really touched them and done something for them. I get that. I‘m just not entirely sure I‘m one of those people. I feel like I‘m betraying the home team or something in saying that. I‘m just not buying into her interpretations, because I know those are not the initial intent by any means and she‘s acting like these have always been the true, hidden meaning. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics oh I get that. I don‘t always agree either. But you know I don‘t think anything is an end all be all. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads not heal, helped. I too know what heals. 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads I can honestly say I wouldn‘t want a younger me reading this. I would have been so worried “oh, I didn‘t have this dream, what‘s wrong with me.” Maybe it needs an update. Maybe a whole new revamp. I‘m just not sure. I agree, this isn‘t going to help people in any statistical way. Maybe because the people who find this helpful aren‘t usually in study cohorts? I don‘t know. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads it‘s been my life. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics definitely a grain of salt fits here. If it truly helped people who am I to say anything. I did read it when it came out and didn‘t think much either way. I‘m rereading it seeing what people say helped them. It‘s very interesting to me. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I agree “All and only I know the secret “ two things I have issues with. Clearly 🫠 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie okay, that does make me feel better. Totally agree on the “only I have a secret” and “all.” That just sounds like a cult leader to me. 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads that‘s what I was thinking. People are reading this and oh it‘s changed my life. I‘ve healed myself. What have you, and in reality they need help and never seek it out. Again, this was written in a much different time, so perhaps when this was written that was the norm. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads I believe in a combination of things. Initially books saved my life. Especially as a child it was my only option. So I don‘t discount it in others. Not all therapies work for all people. I agree it is important to find what works for you. I don‘t believe in talk therapy, I do believe in ASMR -for myself. Talk therapy works for some. It‘s all nuance. Anytime anyone says this is the only way- there‘s a problem. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics EXACTLY and all religious trauma survival people say NO ! 🙃 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie I will 100% agree with this. I‘ve had to many bad experiences with talk therapy to trust it now. Don‘t even get me started on the non-diagnosis of “codependent.” Just another way the cult of AA has infiltrated the rest of our lives. I am so interested in narrative therapy, honestly. I‘ve been writing original works since I was 7, so I feel like it‘s right up my alley and would make more sense for me. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics when this was written nothing was talked about at all around here, especially for women -I think that is what is missing in this equation ... it was a whole new thought. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I agree. 💯💯💯💯 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads there‘s many new studies on why it does not work for some people. It does however save many lives including many young people I have worked with. For that I‘m grateful. I just don‘t think it should ever be said it‘s all or the only thing that works. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads @GingerAntics at the end of the day books do save peoples lives. It‘s an important tool. This is this persons narrative. I liken it to if I wrote my narrative. It would help some, anger some and lots of arguing would happen. 🙃 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie and we would all cackle at the arguing! It could be great entertainment!!! Shall we call a publisher? 🤣😂🤣 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads it‘s not a personal attack. I know you take it that way, but it has harmed people. We‘d have just as many stories of the harm. Like anything else that‘s just life. It‘s why it‘s important to find a good therapist, a good therapy and hope it all works. How very fortunate your clients found you. Not everyone has been so fortunate. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics well it is written and almost finished. 👀👀👀 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads I tried to read that book. I couldn‘t stand it. It was more of this “I have all answers.” 🙄 And it was just AA cult drivel. It‘s not in the DSM. It never has been. Can my experiences please be taken seriously and not written off? I greatly respect your profession. I think it is vital and underused still today. I just don‘t think one type of therapy is the answer for everyone. Some people do amazing with talk therapy. 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads some people don‘t. That is why there are many other types of therapy. Different people need different things, because every brain is different. I thought that was the point of the profession. It‘s why it‘s always been an interest of mine, and why I almost joined the profession (and often wish I had lately). 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY!!! I can‘t wait to read it!!! 1mo

GingerAntics @DrSabrinaMoldenReads then I don‘t know what the argument is/hurt feelings are about. We‘re agreeing, then. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads it helps some people not all people was my point. 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics I‘ll put you top of the list. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads mine just retired AT 80. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads enjoy your grandkids. Mine is coming tonight as well. 1mo

TheBookHippie @DrSabrinaMoldenReads my therapist didn‘t take new patients on these last 15 years. I just had tea with her every few months. Remarkable woman who felt the same as you. 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY THANK YOU!!! I feel so honoured! 1mo

GingerAntics @TheBookHippie okay, those sound like the best therapy appointments ever!!! 1mo

TheBookHippie @GingerAntics they were. 1mo

lil1inblue @GingerAntics It does sound weird, but yes, I read a small amount of Jung for a lit class. I don't remember specifics, but what we read was mostly about archetypes. Then we moved on to how they show up in literature, etc. It was interesting from that perspective. 1mo

lil1inblue @Chrissyreadit Oooh. That's something to think about. 🎯 Thank you! 💓🫂💓 1mo

GingerAntics @lil1inblue that makes sense. I could see it be very valuable from that perspective. That actually sounds like a really fun lit class. I‘m not going to lie. 1mo

Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics @thebookhippie @lil1inblue just responding with a few thoughts in this thread- this is a book that is written through the lens of Jungian theory- it is not meant to be taken a therapy or applied as therapy. There is foundational value in all of the early theorists- the greatest difference is the why we perceive our live experience the way we do. The reality is that life is hard and culture as well as trauma all play a role- but this 1mo

Chrissyreadit book is a way to understand how stories and narratives share common functions and how we hear and experience stories is impacted by our lives. Just take it for an analysis on commonalities in human conditions and one way to interpret/use and empower ourselves with stories. 1mo

Chrissyreadit @GingerAntics @TheBookHippie I also am not a fan of talk therapy. I believe that Somatic work is vital to our body and brain connection- and that if behavior change is needed understanding behavioral strategies that work for you (especially with ADHD) I am a fan of EMDR, and using narrative tools in therapy as well. I could go on for hours because this is my field but in the end my goal with this book is to potentially provide one more resource to 1mo

Chrissyreadit support empowerment for anyone it resonates with. 1mo

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit THE VOICE OF REASON, LADIES!!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 Thank you! The whole conversation went sideways or backwards or into a whole other dimension there for a bit. 1mo

Chrissyreadit 😘😘😘😘 1mo

GingerAntics @Chrissyreadit 🧡🧡🧡😘😘😘 1mo

ravenlee @lil1inblue I read some Jung in my English classes in undergrad, too. It was an upper-level writing course, and we read selections from Jung, Loren Eiseley, and Maslow. Great class, but the professor was my favorite (and advisor, and now friend). 1mo

lil1inblue @ravenlee I found it fascinating. And it was with one of my favorite professors, too, so that made it even better! 😍 1mo

GingerAntics @ravenlee awesome classes by your favourite prof are always the best!!! 1mo

GingerAntics @lil1inblue @ravenlee now I‘m wondering what sprinkling some Jung/psychology into my antihero class would have done… I swear that would have made the class even more awesome!!! 1mo

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Some places that healing, inspiration, miracles & more happen for me: my porch, my hummingbird friends, sunrises,our magnolia,the “Robert tree”,my garden,the river in my neighborhood that I walk by, the ocean. After all I am an Aquarian- Water, water, everywhere.🌊. #75Soft

Chrissyreadit BEAUTIFUL 😍💛 2mo

TheBookHippie So pretty! 2mo

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lil1inblue Gorgeous! 😍🤩😍 2mo

dabbe L💙VERLY! May I ask what the “Robert tree“? is? 💙🩵💙 2mo

Chrissyreadit Gorgeous! The pictures all feel healing! 1mo

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I don‘t think I would call this “dead and dismembered aspect”of myself back because she lives in me.The summer after I turned 30,I was in a car accident that took me 5+ years to recover from-I still go to PT now. At that time I was single & living in Boston,so I needed to go back to my parents in CT for surgery.I gave up my job,my apartment, my social life.Surgery was successful in rescuing a damaged nerve,but was I left in severe chronic pain.⬇️

kspenmoll ⬆️ I was reduced to infancy. my mom massaged my drop foot nightly while we chatted. My dad spent his afternoons off watching a soap opera, General Hospital,( he was an MD so we laughed alot),when I recovered enough he held my arm while I took baby steps in our driveway.My mom and sister took me to the local pool helped me into my bathing suit so I could walk in the pool. Gifts from this experience: I met a woman who owned a needlepoint store.⬇️ 2mo

kspenmoll ⬆️ she needed someone to spot her so she could go to lunch or take a break. I started working there in exchange for needlepoint canvases & yarn maybe twice a week for a couple of hours.My love for needlepoint started then.Another gift came much later when I could stand long enough to work in my dad‘s office.I had such fun with the staff & saw my dad in his professional capacity which was so special.While in the pool, a met a woman who also had⬇️ (edited) 2mo

kspenmoll ⬆️Back surgery. We became lifelong friends, and I met my husband through her. Another gift: I was able to fly in a plane, lying down on 3 seats to visit my closest brother in Alaska. He my sister-in-law and my niece Lily, who was 6, drove all over Alaska with me lying down in the back of their Subaru. Lily & I remain close today because of those 6 weeks together. During all this time, I was able to reflect, create, laugh, love, & ⬇️ 2mo

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kspenmoll ⬆️ & most importantly, live a slowed down life, in synch & in touch with my inner self. I “lost” a decade of my life, but that time was truly a gain, not a loss for me. if you read through this long, long epistle, thank you. #wildwomen (edited) 2mo

AmyG Wow that is some story. 🙌🏻 2mo

kspenmoll @AmyG Thank you you for listening my friend.💕💕 2mo

AmyG I am happy you are here to write it. 😘 2mo

Chrissyreadit Thank you so much for sharing your story!!! I am amazed by all the gifts you acknowledge-this literally brought me to tears. 💛 2mo

Bookwormjillk That‘s quite the story! 2mo

Amiable I am in awe of the fact that you can look back and appreciate that this terrible accident gave you positive things instead of only taking things away from you. That maturity and insight is a gift in itself. ❤️ 2mo

Ruthiella ❤️❤️❤️ 2mo

LeahBergen What an incredible story! 😭❤️ 2mo

AnnCrystal 💝💝💝 Beautiful and incredible. Thank You for sharing this remarkable story of recovery. Love how you highlighted your gifts, and this is a wonderful teaching story on how we all need to value the light among dark times. I am so glad that you are here with us 💝💝💝. 2mo

lil1inblue What an incredible story. Thank you for sharing it with us. I so admire your perspective. 💓💓💓 2mo

ElizaMarie Your story is truly something! Thank you so much for sharing it. 2mo

dabbe I am completely humbled by this. What a touchstone you are! Thank you for sharing such a heartbreaking and heartwarming story at the same time! And thank you for reminding me that in the darkest trenches, good things can still happen. And I L💙VE that you call them gifts. I'm just wowed. Thank you, my friend, and I'm so glad you're here! 🧡💜🩶 2mo

nanuska_153 Oh wow what an amazing story, thank you for sharing it with us! ❤️❤️It must have been such difficult years, but what a great perspective you have to look at them like that. It shows so much strength! I love that you are still close to your niece, I adore my nephews, they make me love my sisters even more for bringing them into this world 🥰 1mo

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Amor Eterno - Brings me to tears every time I hear it. I personally enjoy Vicente singing it the most (because I like him the most), but of course, it's Juan Gabriel's song and Rocio Durcal brought a feminine beauty to it.

Links:
Chete: https://youtu.be/giRA5xFG294?si=Jz5FnN-PJOdFv3_0
Gabriel: https://youtu.be/RgKqxLAhRKE?si=8cm0zINc1WvEac-7
Rocio (with translation) : https://youtu.be/JRCQGw9y3O8?si=HPAo8RXPek6nOHC_

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I was in a severely abusive relationship, which almost killed me (literally). Not only was this physically abusive, but it was also emotional (the lasting effects have lingered). I used to dance, my whole life, since childhood, (tap, jazz, flocorico, ballet, cheer) I danced, used to dance in our relationship, around the house, wiggle here, wiggle there, sing, play... He frequently told me I was too ugly, fat, and unworthy of enjoying my body ⬇️

ElizaMarie I slowly stopped at the point of quitting. Now, I am hesitant to dance. My husband is amazing, loving, and healing. He is playful, and I am safe. My head sometimes forgets this.

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TheBookHippie 💜💜💜💜 I hope you dance. I have to tell my brain it‘s okay, you‘re safe now. Sending you light my friend. 💜💜💜💜 2mo

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lil1inblue I'm so glad you're safe now and have a supportive partner! I hope you're able to dance again. You deserve to enjoy being in your body. 💓🫂 💓 2mo

BarkingMadRead I just want to hug you! 2mo

DaveGreen7777 I am so sorry you were put through this from your abusive ex-partner but so happy for you that you were able to get away from him and find true happiness! 2mo

nanuska_153 Sorry you went through this, it's so difficult to live with it even when you are finally free. Hope you find again the music within you and the joy to dance even if you start when you are alone ❤️ 2mo

dabbe I am so saddened that you experienced this at the hands of someone who was supposed to love you. No one has any right to steal any of our joys. Your husband is a major mensch, and I'm so glad you have him in your life. Even if you just start out dancing in your head, I hope those hips start swaying. You are beautiful inside and out, and the universe would love to see you dance again. 🧡💜💛 2mo

ElizaMarie @TheBookHippie - My brain 🧠 doesn't always want to listen to me, but sometimes, I can get it to follow my heart :) ♥️ 2mo

ElizaMarie @Eggbeater @Ruthiella @Lil1inblue @BarkingMadRead - Thank you so much for your kind words. Yall are so sweet! 2mo

ElizaMarie @DaveGreen7777 Thank you so much for your kind words. I am in a wholly better place, and am so thankful for it. I am happy, just need to find the little joys and incorporate them into my everyday. 2mo

ElizaMarie @nanuska_153 Memory is rough, I am at times reminded of the past, which sometimes prevents me from living my now. I am working on it (with therapy, self-care/reflection, all those things. 2mo

TheBookHippie @ElizaMarie SAME. It‘s a daily battle sometimes. Pockets of joy and routine work for me but mostly writing works. Also Mr BookHippie leaves me hand written notes, it helps a bunch. I think sometimes seeing it written out helps your brain. Sending you so much love. 2mo

ElizaMarie @dabbe Thank you for your kindness. I am working on enjoying music more and, in turn, moving my body more. It's a process, but I am slowly gaining some joy back. 2mo

kspenmoll I am so sad for you but so happy you kept on dancing & letting yourself express joy. So glad you are in a better place! 2mo

dabbe @ElizaMarie Just do this, and laugh! 🕺🕺🕺 😍😂😍 2mo

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My “La Loba's“ place would be a hammock on the beach. I love the sun, so during the day, I read out by the hammock, lightly swaying in the breeze (add a stand/table for drinks and snacks). At night, sleeping outside under the stars, hearing the waves. PERFECTION!

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#LaLobaWithin

TheBookHippie Oh this looks so peaceful. 2mo

ElizaMarie @TheBookHippie My hamoock outside is not as serene, but it is still very lovely. I do enjoy sunbathing there, and reading.. Hammocks are just the best! 2mo

lil1inblue Oh, this sounds so serene! 😍 Love hammock time! ❤ 2mo

dabbe L🩵VERLY. 🩵💙🩵 2mo

ElizaMarie @Lil1InBlue @Dabbe - Yes! It looks like such a peaceful place. Which is all too important. 2mo

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Traditions ground me: didn't realize how much I rely on them
1. Dia de Los Muertos - we celebrated growing up, and my husband and I celebrate in our home
2. Tamales during winter
3. Reading Christmas Carol every Dec 1 - something I used to do with my grandmother
4. Bunuelos on NYE
5. Talking about our gratitude during Thanksgiving Dinner
6. Reading Jonathan Livingston Seagull on Sept 15 - Daddy's Bday
7. Taking the day off on my Bday - Oct 14 ⬇️

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ElizaMarie I am sure I have a ton more that I don't really consider traditions. Maybe I am thinking of rituals. One I would love to try but haven't - I would like to work more on spiritual traditions revolving around the seasons. I scream out/sing into the moonlight on full moons (not consistently). I would like to have some sort of water tradition too. I love the ocean, I used to crave it at certain parts of the year, sun bathe, lay in water, but ⬇️ 2mo

ElizaMarie Since COVID and moving to VT, I haven't been near the beaches. I would like to work on bringing that into my life.

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julieclair What a lovely list! 2mo

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TheBookHippie Just lovely. 2mo

Chrissyreadit I love this post and your traditions!💛 2mo

lil1inblue What a wonderful list! The traditions for Dia de Los Muertos are so beautiful. ❤ 2mo

dabbe L💜VERLY list! If you love JL Seagull, you'll love THE LITTLE PRINCE. 🧡💜💛 2mo

nanuska_153 Buñuelos 🤤🤤 2mo

ElizaMarie @JulieClair @TheBookHippie @ChrissyReadIt - Thank you! I enjoyed thinking about what traditions we hold dear to us. This exercise has also helped me identify others that, although not as strong, are ones I am cultivating in our home. 2mo

ElizaMarie @Lil1InBlue Dia de Los Muertos is my favorite time of year! I love how much it brings us together across generations and families. (edited) 2mo

TheBookHippie @ElizaMarie ♥️♥️♥️♥️ 2mo

ElizaMarie @Dabbe - I am gonna read it on Libby soon, (just placed the hold) then eventually get my own copy :) 2mo

ElizaMarie @nanuska_153 They are the best!!! 2mo

dabbe @ElizaMarie It's on its way to you and should be there by Sunday. 🧡💜🩶 2mo

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Early morning coffee and a book. #wildwomen #doll #intuition

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Chrissyreadit I love worry dolls. And this picture is so aesthetically pleasing 😘❤️ 2mo

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AnnCrystal 💝💝💝. 2mo

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I used to make up jingles about whatever I was doing and I was always listening to music and singing.At some point in my 20s I was raped and shortly afterwards I ended up in an abusive relationship that lasted many years.I can't really remember anything that happened for some time after the relationship ended, there is a blank space, I remember things that happened to me, but as if someone had told me a story, not as if I had actually lived them⬇️

nanuska_153 Then I remember a time when I was reconstructing myself, trying to act the way I used to be, putting back the pieces together. But during this time there was silence, I wasn't singing or listening to music, not like I usually did as if there was a constant soundtrack to my life. I managed to get back the soundtrack of my life and the singing, but the ability to make jingles I never got back. ⬇️ 2mo

nanuska_153 I miss being the kind of person that can just make a tune about cheese just because it's so tasty. The first time I heard my daughter making up a stupid song while we were playing I got so emotional I had to leave the room so she wouldn't get scared. I love her jingles so much ❤️ This chapter was very interesting to me, because I don't know if I reconstructed myself through singing, but I definitely had to reconstruct myself in order to sing. 2mo

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Chrissyreadit Thank you for sharing that part of you❤️I am so glad you are on this journey with us And i hope one day you and your daughter are making jingles together! 2mo

Suet624 Thank you for sharing this with us. 💕💕 2mo

Bookwomble ❤️‍🩹 2mo

Cuilin I wish you many jingles, and maybe one day both you and your daughter can make sweet jingles together. 2mo

Ruthiella ❤️❤️❤️ 2mo

lil1inblue Thank you for sharing this. I hope you can find that musical magic again! 💓 💖 💓 2mo

nanuska_153 @Chrissyreadit @Suet624 @Bookwomble @Cuilin @Ruthiella @lil1inblue Thank you all so much for your kind words 💕 2mo

ElizaMarie Thank you for your bravery and for sharing your story with us. I am so sorry that you lost your safety, voice, and freedom. That carefree spirit to sing at a whim, giggle, and have a great time is so near and dear to me as well. I used to be very “silly“ (what it was labeled as), but men have chastized me for these personality quirks as well. It became unsafe. I am glad your daughter has a momma like you, who finds joy in her fun. ⬇️ 2mo

ElizaMarie I hope you find your jingles again! (Do you watch Bob's Burgers? It's very Linda.) Maybe start small, it could come back. Add a verse or two to your daughter's? I am looking forward to hearing more about your progress and journey towards this. 2mo

JenniferEgnor I‘ve been there too. Happened a long time ago but somehow it doesn‘t feel like it was. I also had abuses in my childhood and adolescence at home…I ended up in two abusive relationships but got out of them. Sending love and hugs. 1mo

nanuska_153 @ElizaMarie Oh I just saw this, thanks for your kind words ❤️ I'm sorry you got that experience, hope you find a safe space where you can be who you are. I haven't watched Bob's Burgers but I heard is very good! 1mo

nanuska_153 @JenniferEgnor I'm sorry to hear, it is a sad club to be a part of. I'm glad you made it out of those awful relationships, must feel scary to have ended up there again. I hope you break the cycle and this doesn't happen to you again. Sending you lots of love 💕 1mo

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Too many traditions so picturing a few:Thanksgiving & watching Macy‘s parade;Christmas table setting & Christmas Eve book stack-my aunt gave each of us 2 books Christmas Eve & continued with the next generation #Jólabókaflóðið;we take pictures every Year when my son‘s magnolia tree blooms(planted when he was 6 mths);annual Cape Cod weekend with my 3 sisters; hiking with my son since he was little;coffee & a book on our porch.#wildwomen

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Cuilin These are all beautiful traditions, 💕 2mo

TheBookHippie Oh the set table!!!!!! Love it all but the table gives me such joy!! 2mo

Chrissyreadit love all of this! 2mo

AnnCrystal 💝💝💝. 2mo

lil1inblue 😍 😍 😍 So lovely! 2mo

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#wildwomen #lalobas

For me, I escape into the trees. I talk to them, hug them, smell their bark, listen to them in the wind ... they are my soul-source. Favorite spot? Going around the aspen loop trail up to Arizona's highest mountain, Mt. Humphreys (12,000+ feet). That is where I find my idea of god.

kspenmoll Such a beautiful photo. I get the trees! 🌳 2mo

Deblovestoread Beautiful! Love the sound of aspens in the wind. 2mo

Amiable Gorgeous and awe-inspiring 😍 2mo

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Suet624 💕💕💕 2mo

dabbe @kspenmoll @Deblovestoread @Amiable @Suet624 💛💛💛 2mo

Cuilin Beautiful 🌲💚💛🧡 2mo

dabbe @Cuilin It really is. My favorite place in AZ. 💛💛💛 2mo

AnnCrystal 🤩 Trees are majestic medicines 🌳💝🌳💝🌳💝. 2mo

peaKnit Nature is my church in this phase of my life. Proof of something bigger. 2mo

lil1inblue I just love trees! My favorite thing is just to sit and listen to the wind in the leaves. 💚 💚 💚 2mo

dabbe @AnnCrystal Indeed. 💛💛💛 2mo

dabbe @peaKnit 💛💛💛 2mo

dabbe @lil1inblue #dittomydear 💛💚💛 2mo

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#wildwomen

My go-to book for poetry, story-telling, wisdom, solace, friendship, love ... is this one, especially the scenes between the fox and the prince. When I was younger, this passage and their eventual parting helped me deal with losing people I loved, whether physically, emotionally, or both. This book makes me sigh in all good ways possible. It helps me heal. 💛💜🧡

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TheBookHippie My son loves this too! 2mo

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Cuilin Love this!!! 2mo

dabbe @Cuilin 💛💜🧡 2mo

AnnCrystal 💝💝💝. 2mo

nanuska_153 I feel the same about this book, but for me is the part where the Little Prince doesn't stop asking questions about why the flowers grow thorns if the lambs are going to eat them anyway and gets upset when he is told it is not important and goes into a rant about it. That speech of "Its the warfare between the sheep and the flowers not important?" always resonated so much with me. That's why if you go to my page you can see it in my bio ❤️ 2mo

lil1inblue This is just beautiful! 💓 😍 💓 2mo

dabbe @AnnCrystal 🖤🤍🖤 2mo

dabbe @nanuska_153 How poignant! He feels everything so deeply. I see it as your bio ... so heartfelt. 🖤🤍🖤 2mo

dabbe @lil1inblue TY. I wish I'd written it! 🖤🤍🖤 2mo

ElizaMarie I have never read this book. I keep seeing people talk about it and how instrumental it was for their lives, with their parents, children, etc. Yet, never once did I pick it up. I think I need to remedy this. (the quote is beautiful). 2mo

dabbe @ElizaMarie Check your mailbox this Sunday.🧡💜💛 2mo

ElizaMarie @dabbe, you are too sweet! I am excited, now I will cancel my #LibbyLoan hold :) 2mo

dabbe @ElizaMarie 😂😍😍 2mo

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#LaLobas

If there is water to be found I will find it. Ocean, river, waterfall, stream or creek. And if possible my feet will be in it at the very least. I was very fortunate to live right on the Pacific Ocean the year before and during my parent‘s separation and divorce. The ocean and I spent hours together. The ocean held all my tears, all my screams. Water is where I go to process, to heal and for solace.

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TheBookHippie Oh how I love water. 💙💙💙💙 2mo

Cuilin One of my favorite quotes that you may like is “The cure for anything is saltwater: sweat, tears, or the sea," Isak Dinesen. I also love being near water. ? 2mo

Deblovestoread @Cuilin Thank you! It is so true 💙 2mo

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lil1inblue Love this! Water is so healing. 💙 💙 💙 2mo

dabbe This is why I must take at least a shower every day. I have to feel water on my body. Have to. Water on the inside and outside; it is necessary to our very essence. I can smell the saltwater from here, Deb! 💙🩵💙 2mo

BiblioLitten 💙 2mo

Lesliereadsalot Just looking at your pictures, I can hear the sound of water. 2mo

TheBookHippie @Cuilin one of my favorite quotes! 2mo

AnnCrystal Water is the most sacred & beautiful of medicines 🌊💫💦💝💝💝. (edited) 2mo

ElizaMarie Water!!! 💧 I am right there with you, water is EVERYTHING! (except I don't drink enough of it - ha). 2mo

kspenmoll Water is so healing, centering, been attracted to it all my life- oceans & rivers & lakes. 💕 2mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

Photos of where my Dad's side of the family has found solace for 3 generations. I love this place and the people that belong. This is where I feel my wild the most, where I feel free and alive. This is where I go to heal. 💓

#badwolfbitches #wildwomen #badasswildwomen

Deblovestoread All the lovely water and the peace it brings. 2mo

TheBookHippie So so lovely. 2mo

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Cuilin Looks so peaceful ☺️ 2mo

dabbe And I can see why it's so healing! W💙W. 💙🩵💙 2mo

lil1inblue @deblovestoread @thebookhippie @cuilin @dabbe 💙 💙 💙 2mo

AnnCrystal
🤩💝💝💝. 2mo

ElizaMarie These pictures are beautiful. The place looks so peaceful and wonderful! Thank you for sharing! 2mo

lil1inblue @ElizaMarie Aww. Thank you! 💓 😍 💓 2mo

lil1inblue @AnnCrystal 💓 💓 💓 2mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

I'm 100% Finnish-American, so saunas have always had a cultural significance in my family. For me sauna is a cleansing, healing ritual. I have many memories of taking sauna with generations of women.

#badwolfbitches #wildwomen #badasswildwomen

lil1inblue @caropi @cuilin @thebookhippie @deblovestoread @zezeki @bookwormAHN @PathfinderNicole @GingerAntics @ravenlee @dabbe @ElizaMarie @ImperfectCJ @nanuska_153 @ncsufoxes 2mo

Cuilin How fantastic!!! Love it!! 2mo

dabbe 💜💛🧡 2mo

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lil1inblue @cuilin @dabbe 💓 💓 💓 2mo

kspenmoll Wonderful! 2mo

AnnCrystal Epic 👏🏼☺️👌🏼 saunas are truly medicine 💝💝💝. 2mo

lil1inblue @kspenmoll @anncrystal ❤ 💖 ❤ 2mo

ElizaMarie I love this! This looks like such a lovely, wonderful hearing place. 2mo

lil1inblue @ElizaMarie It's such a lovely ritual. 💓 2mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

This album got me through high school. Silent All These Years has specifically spoken to me ever since I first heard it. Finding my voice again was everything.

https://youtu.be/HSYr0etDzRM?si=vW1UK80rXr3m0aUr

And also:
White Flag by Joseph: https://youtu.be/x3kXDMPwfMc?si=EGwLK1qyoBD5mhEi
The Bullpen by Dessa: https://youtu.be/vvi3UDQdl7k?si=HgcjtdvE1vVmEEDT

#badwolfbitches #wildwomen

lil1inblue @caropi @cuilin @thebookhippie @deblovestoread @zezeki @bookwormAHN @PathfinderNicole @GingerAntics @ravenlee @dabbe @ElizaMarie @ImperfectCJ @nanuska_153 @ncsufoxes 2mo

TheBookHippie Oh I agree this is so good! 2mo

CBee Ohhhh I absolutely LOVE Tori and this album also got me through some tough times. Awesome post 💚💚 2mo

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Chrissyreadit oh!!! Yes! this song always made me cry- and Tori Amos is amazing. ❤️ 2mo

lil1inblue @thebookhippie @cbee @chrissyreadit This album is everything to me. I don't fan girl much because I'm such a mood listener/reader/watcher, but I do fan girl for Tori. 😍 2mo

dabbe L 💜VE this! 💜💛🧡 2mo

CBee @lil1inblue same 😍😍 2mo

lil1inblue @dabbe ❤ 💛 ❤ 2mo

InkedBookworm13 I listened to Tori so much in high school. She's so amazing ❤️ 2mo

ElizaMarie Thank you for sharing the video! I hadn't heard this song before! It's beautiful! Her voice is amazing! 2mo

lil1inblue @InkedBookworm13 I love her so much. She was also my first concert! 😍 2mo

lil1inblue @ElizaMarie She is such an amazing artist. Highly recommend any of her albums! ❤ 2mo

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Cuilin

Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Estes

#WildWomen #WomenWhoRunWithTheWolves

Chapter 1
So many emotions, “Regrets are the natural property of grey hairs” says a character in another current read. I don‘t see regrets as much as methods of survival. I marked many passages, “bad wolf” stood out to me. The decal is on my car. Most whovians will recognize this. Rose stared into the heart of the TARDIS and absorbed the power of the time vortex, she becomes God like, omnipotent, she saves 🔽

Cuilin The Doctor and the universe. Bad Wolf is her assumed identity. The power lies in the heart, and I‘m questioning my methods of survival. 2mo

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Chrissyreadit This post and thought is giving me all the feels. I love Rose. Survival is what we are wired for- and so hard. I feel like finding our way into living is the next step- but also… hard. Thank you for this post! It really resonated. 2mo

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ChaoticMissAdventures I loved Rose and 10!! Top tear years of The Doctor. 2mo

lil1inblue I'm so glad I wasn't the only one to think about Bad Wolf & Doctor Who. Love this post. “I'm questioning my methods of survival“ hits hard. ❤ 2mo

dabbe I have never read/seen anything regarding Bad Wolf (except the Big Bad One in fairy tales) or Doctor Who. Way out of the look here. But what you wrote still moved me. I just hope the book TEACHES me how to find the wolf inside of me. I need tools to unearth her. 💜💛🧡 2mo

Cuilin @Chrissyreadit thank you, it is hard but worth it!! 2mo

Cuilin @ChaoticMissAdventures Agreed!!! I ❤️❤️ 10 (edited) 2mo

Cuilin @lil1inblue Right??? 2mo

Cuilin @dabbe Same, I need all the tools!!!! ⚒️ 2mo

dabbe @Cuilin 💛💜🧡 2mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

I can picture myself lost in the woods, and just meeting an ancient looking librarian who invites me to stay for a while. All the rest, all the thoughts, all the quiet and all the conversations. Cafe with miraculous coffee… and the clearly adopted Motto “Not all who wander are lost”

dabbe Beyond love. 🧡💜💛 2mo

AnnCrystal 🤩📚💝💝💝. 2mo

lil1inblue 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 2mo

Deblovestoread Lovely 2mo

kspenmoll Sounds wonderful! 2mo

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PathfinderNicole

Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

Watching It‘s The Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown when my kid gets home from trick or treating with hot chocolates and cozy pjs. I also always have a solo wrapping party sometime in December while the husband and child are out doing their shopping so I can watch Miracle on 34th Street in peace 😂.

I‘ve always wanted to take a solo vacation for a long weekend but have been afraid of being judged for it.
#wildwomenreading #womenwhorunwiththewolves

AmyG Come HERE. We will all cheer you on. You deserve a good weekend. And Miracle on 34th Street (old one) is my favorite holiday movie. (edited) 2mo

TheBookHippie Oh my word GOOOOOO!!! It‘s so amazing! I do it yearly!! 2mo

kspenmoll Please take a solo weekend! I‘ve done it & it is so soul-nourishing! 2mo

dabbe 🧡💜💛 2mo

Bookperson96 🥰👍🏻Alone time is important. 🙂 I‘d say go for it at some point and let those thoughts/people who don‘t get you regarding this wherever they are. Find out if it‘s for you and if, try to implement it into longterm your year/life. Sometimes you have to take a leap. 1mo

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PathfinderNicole

Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

Definitely Shadow of the Day by Linkin Park. We played it during my younger brother‘s funeral when he passed in 2008. The Last Goodbye from Billy Boyd also makes me feel ALL the feelings along with Leaving Earth from Mass Effect 3. The final two are from series that deeply impacted me (like I have plans for both a LOTR tattoo and a ME one). #wildwomenreading #womenwhorunwiththewolves

TheBookHippie ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ 2mo

dabbe 🧡💜💛 2mo

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Women Who Run with the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype | Clarissa Pinkola Est�s Phd

#wildwomenreading I loved how this chapter brings our awareness to the parts of us that we have buried. Some are better gone, and some we may mourn. Are there any parts of yourself that you mourn and perhaps can be revitalized?

Chrissyreadit I wish i had the optimism of my youth. I believed that we had so much power and so much care. I believed we would want the best for future generations. I really could use some of that optimism now. 2mo

ElizaMarie @Chrissyreadit I hear you! WE need this so much right now. I also think we really need Mr. Rodgers. I need him to remind everyone to be kind to each other and take care of one another. 2mo

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Women who Run with the Wolves: Contacting the Power of the Wild Woman | Clarissa Pinkola Est's

This nightmare occurred again & again.I would usually seek my 5 1/2 yr old brother & his bed for solace & security.
I do remember some neighborhood boys would follow me-I would climb up a tree & they would chant “I declare I declare I see Kathy‘s underwear!”If my brother was nearby he would chase them away.Also around the same time a man in a car offered candy to kids in our neighborhood-told my mom who called the police & we were interviewed.