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Jari-chan
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Pickpick

(This is maybe going to be a long post)

This is totally a #blameitonlitsy - it just kept on appearing and appearing and appearing in my feed. So who am I to fight Reading Destiny? And yes, it was a good thing to listen to it. RD knows what I need.

Because I so, so needed that book. It's short and easy to read, and it has to be. It's written for people in very dark places and those often don't have the strength and energy to read big books. ⬇

Jari-chan You can skip and browse as you like and need it.

The way of deconstructing what makes you unhappy about your cho- I mean, care works, is basically the same as the one I did when I was fighting my ED. But it never occurred to me that I needed to this with my relationship with care work as well.

Even though my therapist told me to go easy on it, to think that it‘s okay that not everything‘s done, it only ever worked a little bit. ⬇
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Jari-chan It still stressed me out. A lot. That‘s why I read this book. I never realized how much shame I connected to it. That I have to learn to see my dirty floor as neutral. That it doesn‘t make me a bad person or a failure.

Wow, so much learning. But it‘s already starting to do it‘s wonders. I‘m more relaxed, more accepting. And it feels wonderful.

#BookSpin @TheAromaOfBooks
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AmyG A good book to read. I was the same. Then I began what I called “triage”. What was the most important thing to do first and so on down the line. I also learned that I am my best friend so I talked to myself with kindness and compassion-and I learned to trust myself. It all gets done eventuallly. Your “care works” are not you. 3d
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Jari-chan @AmyG I'm happy to hear that you've learnt so much and are hopefully better now 🫂💖 3d
AmyG Thank you….I am so better. 3d
MaleficentBookDragon I‘m glad this book is helping you. My therapist recommended this book to me after I read Divergent Mind (another she recommended). They both have really helped me with understanding myself and to start letting go of shame. It‘s a work in progress. 3d
AnnCrystal 🫂🙏🏼📚💝. 3d
Jari-chan @MaleficentBookDragon Thank you for sharing 💖 I just put the book on my list. 3d
Jari-chan @AnnCrystal 💖💖🫂 3d
TheAromaofBooks Lovely review!! 3d
Jari-chan @TheAromaofBooks Thank you 💖 2d
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willaful
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A humorous expose of negging techniques that's a reasonably funny short listen, though probably more fun in its original tiktok form. To make for a longer audiobook it has a section of the author and his mom interviewing each other, which was heavy on “you know, like...“ and then an advice section which was pretty entertaining. I'm not a big fan of prank humor, so it wasn't really for me.

#BlameItOnLitsy #MonthlyNonfiction2025

Faranae This comic is hilarious though, I love it. 3d
julieclair I think you get the award for most unique nonfiction book this month! 😆🥴 3d
willaful @Faranae It's so fun when you can find just the right illustration... 😁 3d
CarolynM Love that comic strip! 😆 2d
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BiblioLitten
Fresh Water for Flowers | Valrie Perrin
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Starting off this summer week with a much anticipated read. The first two pages indicate that this is exactly what i need right now. #blameitonlitsy 💙🤍💚

BarbaraBB Enjoy! It‘s lovely! 5d
CatLass007 It is lovely. But it‘s not summer just yet. It‘s not official until June 20th. I personally hate the summer heat. Temperatures in the other three seasons are more preferable. 5d
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booklover3258
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Oh.My.God. What an amazing book! Just the graphics alone are well worth the read but the story included is just perfect! Rene opens up a cafe to serve her yummy food and hires Slewfoot, a quiet goblin as a waiter. The problem now is she doesn't have any customers. Slewfoot finds her an ogre as a customer but his requests are too strange for Rene to make. What will Rene do?? Just a wonderful touching story for any age

tpixie ? 9 year olds? 1w
booklover3258 @tpixie absolutely good for 9 year olds. Its cute and gross and funny. nothing scary or violent in it.. 7d
tpixie @booklover3258 perfect! Thanks! #BlameItOnLitsy 💜👿 💜 7d
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BookmarkTavern
SWORDCROSSED. | FREYA. MARSKE
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To save his family‘s business, Matti is ready to marry a woman he doesn‘t love. Hiring a swordsman to act as his best man for the wedding may create as many problems as it solves.

A really lovely historical romantasy. Matti‘s dedication to his family broke my heart, & I loved the development both in him & in the love story. It is very slow, & I think The Last Binding series is stronger narratively, but the tension is good & paced well.🌕🌕🌕🌕🌑

Jari-chan Why is this book constantly showing up in my feet?! Reading destiny wants to tell me something 🤣 7d
BookmarkTavern @Jari-chan Do it! 😁 6d
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tpixie
Eleanore of Avignon: A Novel | Elizabeth DeLozier
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Here‘s my hopeful #14booksin14weeks ! Starting with Eleanore and Gabriële

Liz_M Nice stack! Persepolis is one of free graphic books that worked for me. 1w
tpixie @Liz_M yes, I don‘t necessarily enjoy reading graphic novels either. I have the first one of Persepolis & enjoyed it a few years ago #blameitonlitsy , so during #indiebookstoreday when I saw the complete set I decided to buy it! 1w
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Jari-chan
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My #BookSpin is a #blameitonlitsy - you all just kept on talking about it. Is that FOMO - Bookish edition?
Volume 4 of the Lady Astronaut series is my #DoubleSpin 💖

@TheAromaOfBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! Looks fantastic!! 1w
Jari-chan @TheAromaofBooks Thank you!💖 1w
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TheBookgeekFrau
Mexican Gothic | Silvia Moreno-Garcia
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Another worthy #BlameItOnLitsy read! Thanks all 😊

The story really pulled me in from word one. I had a few eye roll moments, but over all I found it hard to put down.

38/80

#BookSpinBingo @TheAromaofBooks

#ReadingMyTBR #Reading2025 @DieAReader

DieAReader 🎉🎉🎉 2w
TieDyeDude Agreed. I read it pretty soon after reading Rebecca, and it was fun to compare the two. 2w
TheBookgeekFrau @TieDyeDude That had to be a fun comparison! There were some definite Rebecca vibes; a little Shirley Jackson, Stephen King, and even some VC Andrews vibes, too 2w
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 2w
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Ruthiella
The Black Prince | Iris Murdoch
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Murdoch is for me an acquired taste and only to be enjoyed in measure. She‘s impossible to read quickly.

This is farce set in late sixties London, Bradley Pearson is a retired civil servant and unsuccessful novelist. Told from his POV, which is questionable, it‘s what happens when instead of writing his magnum opus, his life falls apart, with no little help from his own ineptitude, jealousy, and solipsism. Wickedly funny at times and quite dark.

BarbaraBB I loved this one!! 3w
Ruthiella @BarbaraBB It was a #blameitonLitsy read because of you! 3w
CarolynM My favourite of the Murdochs I‘ve read. I love those alternative perspectives at the end😊 3w
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Ruthiella @CarolynM The letters at the end are interesting (if contradictory! 😂). My favorite Murdoch (so far) is 3w
sarahbarnes I already have this one stacked! I haven‘t read anything by her yet. 3w
Ruthiella @sarahbarnes She‘s a great writer, but definitely I can only read her a little at a time. Next I want to read 3w
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TheBookgeekFrau
Mexican Gothic | Silvia Moreno-Garcia
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It's a dreary day--perfect for reading!!! Another #BlameItOnLitsy read

bookandbedandtea So dreary! I'm refusing to complain about the rain since we get so little of it but I'm hoping we'll see the sun again tomorrow... I'm not used to going without it for 3 days. 🙃 Enjoy the perfect reading weather! 3w
TheBookgeekFrau @bookandbedandtea It's NY weather 😝 However, it does lend itself to good reading and bookshelf rearranging time. But, yeah, I want the sun back!! 3w
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