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Real Queer America
Real Queer America: LGBT Stories from Red States | Samantha Allen
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A transgender reporter's narrative tour through the surprisingly vibrant queer communities sprouting up in red states, offering a vision of a stronger, more humane America. Ten years ago, Samantha Allen was a suit-and-tie-wearing Mormon missionary. Now she's a senior Daily Beast reporter happily married to another woman. A lot in her life has changed, but what hasn't changed is her deep love of Red State America, and of queer people who stay in so-called "flyover country" rather than moving to the liberal coasts. In Real Queer America, Allen takes us on a cross-country road-trip stretching all the way from Provo, Utah to the Rio Grande Valley to the Bible Belt to the Deep South. Her motto for the trip: "Something gay every day." Making pit stops at drag shows, political rallies, and hubs of queer life across the heartland, she introduces us to scores of extraordinary LGBT people working for change, from the first openly transgender mayor in Texas history to the manager of the only queer night club in Bloomington, Indiana, and many more. Capturing profound cultural shifts underway in unexpected places and revealing a national network of chosen family fighting for a better world, Real Queer America is a treasure trove of uplifting stories and a much-needed source of hope and inspiration in these divided times.
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xicanti
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I finished this tiny train engine while I listened to REAL QUEER AMERICA. Next up: the detachable boxcar that goes behind it.

I loved the book. It helped me feel a little more hopeful and a little less scared. Not enough that I‘ll be giving the US my tourist dollars any time soon, but I‘m glad to know the people who live there have strong support systems in troubled times. #audiocrafting

dabbe 🤩🤩🤩 4mo
Texreader Impressive!! 4mo
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IndoorDame
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Bailedbailed

It‘s pretty unusual for me to bail on something I‘m enjoying but this is just #goognotgreat and doesn‘t add much to the genre IMO. If you haven‘t read much #lgbtq lit this is a good intro to the queer scene in red state America circa the trump presidency, the type of activism there, and the flavor of found families these days. It‘s written by a trans ex-Mormon journalist so it focuses a lot on both those communities. ⬇️⬇️⬇️

IndoorDame There‘s some mention of intersectionality and racism in the south, but since that‘s not something the author experiences personally it‘s only just touched on. The various themes, interviews and personal memoir sections don‘t tie together all that well. And the memoir sections especially add very little. ⬇️⬇️⬇️ 7mo
IndoorDame While I do love all the positive/mundane accounts of trans experiences beginning to enter the conversation, for me to want to read a memoir where basically nothing happens it has to be all about a poetic writing style not a journalistic one. 7mo
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Soubhiville
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Samantha Allen and her friend Billy travel across the country to cities and towns not really known for having a LGBTQ scene, to find the little queer pockets and find out how and why people live there. Visits with friends and checking out businesses, all while discussing some of each region‘s political recent history.

There was a part about found/ chosen family that resonated with me- essentially a feeling of fate bringing people into your life.

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WorldsOkayestStepMom
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Finished this one as the sun came up this morning. It is part memoir, part road trip with a ton of footnotes! It was a good read and I learned a lot!

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katrrosee
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2022 Read Harder Challenge
#17: Read a memoir written by someone who is trans or nonbinary

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Hooked_on_books
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For some reason, I thought this was a book of essays from multiple queer contributors. Rather, it‘s trans woman Allen‘s tale of traveling to different red state places that have been important in her life and exploring the queer oases present there. It‘s such a positive, hopeful book. I just loved it.

squirrelbrain Sounds wonderful - stacked! 2y
Megabooks I enjoyed this too! 2y
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TieDyeDude
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I guess Litsy doesn't have Amazon originals in their library? Anywho, this audio short from the author of Real Queer America tells her and her partner's love story. Aspects of it were touched on in Real Queer, but it was nice reading the whole thing. Allen also discusses her trans experience, and the anxiety of transitioning.

Megabooks I just added all the ones from that collection to my library! Thanks!! 3y
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Matilda
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I love library notices

janeycanuck Same! When I added my library‘s number to my contacts, I added an “!” so that it comes up as “Library!” and the amount of joy it brings me is astounding. 3y
Matilda @janeycanuck I love this! 3y
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bluestocking.book.nerd
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Privilege check.

I can imagine the awkwardness and detachment that would come with big changes in how you identify - I threw a lot of things and relationships out when I was open about polyamory. But having the physical transition makes the dissociation so much harder. So happy with this read for #GroupL #LMPBC

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bluestocking.book.nerd
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This little girl is keeping me from my usual reading habits! I complained to a customer that it's taken me 5 days to read 3 chapters and she laughed at me. "But... That's how we normal people read", she says.

I now happily claim "reading freak of nature" to my otherness and will continue to be frustrated when it takes me multiple days to finish books.

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brandierickson
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A transgender journalists memoir about a road trip through red states and the queer communities that are there. A very informational but primarily happy and hopeful read!

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britt_brooke
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Humans are humans are humans. Why are people so afraid of those who are not exactly like them? This is where personal essays really shine, eliciting empathy and understanding. This collection is a good mix of personal stories and relevant commentary. Samantha Allen, an award-winning journalist, who happens to be transgender, takes us on a journey through LGBT communities in conservative states. Insightful read!

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HeatherBookNerd
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A mix of good journalism, moving memoir, and insightful commentary about thriving queer communities in conservative, typically red states. A transgender reporter travels the country, seeking out stories of LGBT folks building vibrant queer communities in small towns. Allen also discusses the unifying themes underlying their success: tenacious activism, inclusive safe spaces, and the unshakable bonds of queer friendships and chosen families.

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HeatherBookNerd
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Really loving this book.

#LGBT #Queerbooks

britt_brooke I‘m listening to this audio right now. Good so far! 4y
HeatherBookNerd Just finished it. Loved it! 4y
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Librariana
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To my Litsy pals residing in the USA, Happy Turkey Day! 🦃 If you celebrate the holiday (and not its abundantly problematic roots!) may you be happy to give it a new definition and enjoy some delicious food & pie in the company of friends and loved ones 😁 To all of you gorgeous souls elsewhere, happy Thursday! May your day be beautimous and productive!

Here is a little #progressreport of where I'm at with the #weeklyforecast 😊

@Cinfhen

Cinfhen Love the #ProgressReport ♥️♥️♥️and happy beautiful, bountiful Thursday to you 😘 4y
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Librariana
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#BookReport one day late 😁

🎧 I made some decent progress with the tagged audiobook and hope to have it finished soon 😊

📚 Read a bit more of Grimoire Noir (graphic novel) and hope to finish it tonight!

📚 Made slight progress in the Hungry Hearts anthology and hope to dive into the next story later today.

📚 Book club pick has had a slow start 😕

Hubby and I are about to start our outdoor project - hanging up Christmas lights!

@Cinfhen

Cinfhen Christmas lights are always the first sign that the holidays are coming 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟your tagged book keeps peaking my interest 4y
Librariana @Cinfhen - Indeed! We didn't finish hanging up all the lights (plans had to be reevaluated due to a steep roof... daylight got away from us... and I was starting to get hangry!) But! We did make some good progress! (Much like my reading this week 😁 Whole lotta progress and not much result) 4y
Librariana @Cinfhen - as to the tagged book, the tone is very conversational and introspective with the author recalling some of her own experiences growing up in the Mormon church. She's taking a road trip through red states, stopping in cities that were either part of her journey as she transitioned or interviewing individuals who've made a significant contribution to the local LGBTQ community, some of whom played a pivotal role in her own life. 4y
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BookmarkTavern
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I return triumphant from the Monster Used Book Sale! I had no idea there were Rivers of London graphic novels! I‘m so excited!

#bookhaul #booksale

DrexEdit Very nice haul! 😊 4y
Scochrane26 Bad feminist & between the world and me are amazing. 4y
Reagan Bad Feminist and The Lorax ❤️ 4y
BookmarkTavern @DrexEdit Thank you! @Scochrane26 I‘m sure they are! I‘ve read other things by Coates and Gay before, just not these two books! 4y
BookmarkTavern @Reagan-reads Bad Feminist for me, The Lorax to read to my nibling! 4y
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Well-ReadNeck
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#7covers7days #covercrush

7 book covers. 7 days. No explanations. Day 5.

Cathythoughts Excellent cover ✨ 5y
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Well-ReadNeck
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Whoo-hoo! Going to kick off the Decatur Book Festival tomorrow night with this award night!!! Can‘t wait to see some of you around the festival this weekend!!! #DBF2019

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mrozzz
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Pickpick

So enjoyed this perspective on the very conservative parts of the country which many liberals are always quick to discredit as dangerous for the LGBT+ populations there. The author made a great point about how even though some towns/states are vehemently working against them it is still their home & they want to stay and flourish regardless. I also liked how she described & aligned her transition with her travels across the country for this book.

JSW I really enjoyed this book and it left me hopeful. 5y
mrozzz @JSW yesss me too!! 5y
Smrloomis Nice! Hopeful sounds good! 5y
mrozzz @Smrloomis it‘s what we need now! 4y
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LizzieLou
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Already really digging this book.

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BlameJennyJane
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Mehso-so

This one is a strong so-so for me. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I, perhaps problematically, like my non-fiction to read like fiction. I still want to connect with the narrator and felt a bit detached here as much as I appreciate the important work the author has done with this.

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KatyAliceReads
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I‘m so excited to start reading this one!

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BlameJennyJane
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Here‘s #bookhaul number two of the day from the library. My hold (tagged) came in and I was delighted my little library is open Sundays, even in the summer. I couldn‘t help but pick up a couple more titles I‘ve wanted to read. #BlameItOnLitsy

AutumnRLS Excited about all three of these! Especially the Plums. :) 5y
BlameJennyJane @AutumnRLS awesome! These are all books I heard about on Litsy and probably wouldn‘t have thought to pick up otherwise! 5y
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saguarosally
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I love this discussion of home because I‘m the exact opposite. I spent nearly my entire life in Arizona. There are roots. But the first time I experienced Northeastern brusqueness, it was a matter of weeks before I knew this was my place.

What is home anyway?

KathyWheeler Louisiana is like that for me. I was in my 30s when we moved there and was still in my 30s when we left, yet it‘s the only place I‘ve ever gotten that “I‘m home where I belong” feeling. 5y
saguarosally @KathyWheeler It‘s interesting to explore home. I don‘t fit at home, but it‘s home. I fit here, but it‘s not home. Either way I like Louisiana! 5y
KathyWheeler @saguarosally the idea of home is indeed interesting. Feeling that sense of belonging was weird as I was a military kid so I had never experienced that before; it was especially odd to feel it in a place I‘d never been. 5y
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KatyAliceReads
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Happy Pride y‘all!

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saguarosally
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@ReadosaurusText might have reminded me about #succulentsaturday while I was reading this book. 😁🌵

ReadosaurusText Perfection! 5y
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saguarosally
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I don‘t know. I‘d love to see this from the perspective of a transgender Texan or a lesbian from Utah, not a person with the perspective of a city dweller looking in. I know too many LGBT people from rural and conservative areas maybe.

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TieDyeDude
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I believe this is the first time an author has liked my post about their work. Very cool! 😍

Weaponxgirl That‘s so cool! 5y
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TieDyeDude
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Pickpick

An excellent account of a road trip through the deep South to explore the LGBTQ culture in areas most Americans assume it can't survive. But people are standing strong against prejudice and choosing to stay where they call home instead of taking the perceived easy road and heading north. It also serves as a story of the author's life as she returns to places that shaped her. Excellent writing! Highly recommended

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TieDyeDude
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JSW
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Pickpick

Fantastic read. Clear, researched, and focused yet with personal stories and lots of heart. I found this really hopeful after a depressing week. #queerbooks #readwomen

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JSW
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And if we could literally count every queer person in America — if we could wake up one day and see everyone whose lives or desires cut across the heteronormative mainstream, whether they are currently in a same-sex relationship or not—we would never look at our country the same way again.

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Well-ReadNeck
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Yes! A hopeful book about living in a red state world. I especially enjoyed the sections that highlighted communities I have lived in: Atlanta and Johnson City. Also, noteworthy how many places she visits are college towns.

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sophierayton
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Well done Samantha and all the brave and honest people who contributed their stories to this book and also all those who support them. This book is very well written and hits all the right notes of funny, heartwarming and sincere. Samantha is a smart, thoughtful woman who is flying the flag large for all her LGBTQ comrades. Bravo!

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sophierayton
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“The newly out boy, Amber says, went back to school on Monday with new pronouns and a new name and a new bathroom and he lost zero friends because kids don‘t give a fuck.”

Amber - Max‘s Mum

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Liberty
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Amazing package from @LittleBrownBooks ! Sooooooo many good things to read!!! P.S. The Gorey bio is out tomorrow and I happen to know someone who talked about it on an upcoming podcast. 😉📚❤️

LauraP15 I want the Gorey book. I had the good luck to meet him years ago. He was a very interesting person. 5y
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