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Jari-chan
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Pickpick

(This is maybe going to be a long post)

This is totally a #blameitonlitsy - it just kept on appearing and appearing and appearing in my feed. So who am I to fight Reading Destiny? And yes, it was a good thing to listen to it. RD knows what I need.

Because I so, so needed that book. It's short and easy to read, and it has to be. It's written for people in very dark places and those often don't have the strength and energy to read big books. ⬇

Jari-chan You can skip and browse as you like and need it.

The way of deconstructing what makes you unhappy about your cho- I mean, care works, is basically the same as the one I did when I was fighting my ED. But it never occurred to me that I needed to this with my relationship with care work as well.

Even though my therapist told me to go easy on it, to think that it‘s okay that not everything‘s done, it only ever worked a little bit. ⬇
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Jari-chan It still stressed me out. A lot. That‘s why I read this book. I never realized how much shame I connected to it. That I have to learn to see my dirty floor as neutral. That it doesn‘t make me a bad person or a failure.

Wow, so much learning. But it‘s already starting to do it‘s wonders. I‘m more relaxed, more accepting. And it feels wonderful.

#BookSpin @TheAromaOfBooks
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AmyG A good book to read. I was the same. Then I began what I called “triage”. What was the most important thing to do first and so on down the line. I also learned that I am my best friend so I talked to myself with kindness and compassion-and I learned to trust myself. It all gets done eventuallly. Your “care works” are not you. 4d
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Jari-chan @AmyG I'm happy to hear that you've learnt so much and are hopefully better now 🫂💖 4d
AmyG Thank you….I am so better. 4d
MaleficentBookDragon I‘m glad this book is helping you. My therapist recommended this book to me after I read Divergent Mind (another she recommended). They both have really helped me with understanding myself and to start letting go of shame. It‘s a work in progress. 3d
AnnCrystal 🫂🙏🏼📚💝. 3d
Jari-chan @MaleficentBookDragon Thank you for sharing 💖 I just put the book on my list. 3d
Jari-chan @AnnCrystal 💖💖🫂 3d
TheAromaofBooks Lovely review!! 3d
Jari-chan @TheAromaofBooks Thank you 💖 2d
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Jari-chan
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Wow. Yeah. That's me. Still.

AnnCrystal 🫂🙏💝. 6d
Jari-chan @AnnCrystal 💖💖💖 6d
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Jari-chan
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My #BookSpin is a #blameitonlitsy - you all just kept on talking about it. Is that FOMO - Bookish edition?
Volume 4 of the Lady Astronaut series is my #DoubleSpin 💖

@TheAromaOfBooks

TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! Looks fantastic!! 1w
Jari-chan @TheAromaofBooks Thank you!💖 1w
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monalyisha
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My husband & I are getting pedicures. The women at the salon love him because he always chooses outrageous colors. Today, he joked the lime green hue he‘d chosen was called, “S‘not nice.” This made me research if there‘s a line of nail polish with punk rock names. While I didn‘t answer my original question, I did learn about a color named after dial-up Internet called “eeeeeee urrrrrrrrrr deedle deedle screeeelllllllll ee ee ee blurrrrrrblurblur.”

AlaMich 😂 3w
AmyG Ha! 3w
AnnCrystal 🤩💅💝. 3w
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ChaoticMissAdventures 😂😂😂 3w
Bookzombie 😂😂 3w
dabbe Your hubby rocks! 🤩 3w
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Blerdgal_Fenix
Untitled | Unknown
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hello Littens. It has been a while since I have posted. I am catching up on my litsy mail. This month I am enjoying self-care. More reading, more adventures, and more ice cream!!

#icecream #benandjerrys #selfcare

AmyG 😘 1mo
TheBookHippie ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ 1mo
TieDyeDude 🍦 1mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks 💛💛💛 1mo
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Texreader
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This book strives to reset our mindsets. Society teaches us that to be a “good” person/parent/spouse we should have a neat, clean house. The author suggests that a neat, clean house is not an issue of goodness or badness; it‘s a functional issue. We aren‘t meant to be the servant to house. It is supposed to serve us. With that change in mindset, the goal is no longer perfection but function. On days when parenting, chronic pain, work, etc keeps ⬇️

Texreader us from completing a chore list or just picking or cleaning up, then do just what you need to do to make your house function for you. If you are up to doing more, great! But let go of the moral self-talk that you are not a good person if the stove isn‘t wiped down, or you skip a load of laundry. The author provides numerous suggestions on how to tackle tasks. This is a good book that anyone who keeps home should read for their own wellbeing. 2mo
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peanutnine
Pride and Prejudice | Jane Austen
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My evening activities consisted of the last episode of BBC Pride & Prejudice and a bubble bath 🛁 #selfcare

#JaneAustenThenAndNow @Crinoline_Laphroaig

Crinoline_Laphroaig I watched yesterday! 2mo
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monalyisha
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Another treasure discovered via Katherine May‘s newsletter. Musicians have submitted a petition to have Los Cedros Cloud Forest (which already has legally established personhood) recognized as a co-creator of their song. It features “frogs, birds, the slowed down echolocating frequencies of bats & vibrations from the mycorrhizal networks of a newly discovered fungus.”

https://open.spotify.com/track/3H182DGezvqGcpcUwIALNW?si=-exWOuJtS9-EUGZf55o_Ng

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arlenefinnigan
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Bailedbailed

Bit woo-woo, just wasn't holding my interest.

annahenke I loved this. But I‘m definitely pretty “woo” on the scale. Haha - I thought the writing was lovely! 2mo
arlenefinnigan @annahenke yeah, it's beautifully written, it just wasn't for me, I found myself drifting off. 2mo
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Texreader
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I really like the last one. Good enough is perfect.

Sparklemn I love this! Thanks for sharing. 2mo
Deblovestoread I love “resetting”. I reset a few kitchen cupboards yesterday. 😀 2mo
AmyG This is great. 2mo
lil1inblue This book is so simple, yet it was a lifesaver when I was dealing with an illness for several years. I cannot recommend it often enough! 2mo
GingerAntics I‘m loving “good enough is perfect.” 2mo
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