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I am lucky that my parents are into their 70s and in very good health. But now, my Dad is going through the process to be diagnosed with dementia. My sister & I are doing what we do best - turning to books. These are some of the recs I‘ve received. She has picked up The 36 Hour Day, the Care Giver‘s Guide to Dementia and Dementia With Dignity.
If there are glaring gaps that would help us navigate the coming years, I‘d be grateful to hear them.

What a downer. I don't think I want to ever see a memory care unit nor be faced with the possibility of placing a loved one or being placed in one ever. Don't read for a good time, but to induce thought provoking tears over the loss of a pool/lifestyle, and mind.

#SummerSouls #Pool
@Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @Eggs

I loved the first part about the pool. But then it kind of hit a bit too close to home for me to enjoy it properly. Which probably also shows that it‘s quite good.

#SummerSpecial @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @Eggs
#SummerSport

Somehow I missed this review. I read this for library book discussion with my mom. Im not sure I liked the writing style. It felt a bit disjointed. But I did appreciate the emotions it evoked, particularly the latter half of the book.

Read for a library book discussion. My mom didn‘t care for it but I do. Though it took some time to get the writing style, it is a poignant look into dementia for the afflicted and their family.

#firstlinefridays

This was good, but not the sort of book you enjoy. Just one you experience and ponder. I think the second half of the book was the realest account of memory loss illnesses I‘ve ever read.

Beach time! 🏖️

I believe i am the only one who ever read this entirely.

I really don't know how I feel about this novel. I get the comparison between the pool crack and Alice's dementia, but it just felt so cold; lacking emotion. Maybe it's just the writing style that didn't work for me. I will be interested to read the reviews of others.

I really liked the writing style of this, but can't figure out what else to say...

Confession: I thought this book was going to be about a group of swimmers. The title and the first chapter kept that up, but then the book focuses in on one of the swimmers, an elderly woman with dementia. In the subsequent chapters, she is seen through the eyes of her care givers, daughter and husband.

1st book finished for #FabulousFebruary
@Andrew65

#BookReport

I finished The Art of Cruelty and have started Braiding Sweetgrass

I finished Lessons in Chemistry and read both Acting Class and The Swimmers.

One of us comes a half hour before closing and by the time she changes into her suit and gets into the water it‘s time to get out.

(This sounds like my kind of training 🤪. Also I think the picture is from Forbes)

A heartbreaking, meditative look at memory, a daughter‘s relationship to her mother, and what makes up a life and a human being. The structure of this novel (novella?) is unique, and while some reviewers seem not to like it, I found it the perfect way to explain dementia and its effect on the person and their family. Also, I think the author may pull from her own experiences, which makes me recommend it that much more.

A unique writing style, juxtaposing the calming sameness of routine and the jarring panic of the unexpected and unexplained in different settings. I'll be thinking about this one, and feeling its grip on my heart, for a while.

This is more like 2 connected short stories rather than 1 novel.
I can see how this might be divisive, it is not your traditional novel form, there is a lot of theorizing, often one after another on many topics (mostly the pool and it's crack, and then about Alice's memory) but overall it is about aging, and memory loss. It is a sad but not heavy read. Uniquely told and gives much to ponder. This is not a book for people who need lots of plot.

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This slim novel begins in the cool, blue tranquility of an underground pool. Silence is the way of this subterranean world, & each busy swimmer is quietly grateful for it. By the time we reach the end, however, the silence has been relocated & transformed. It becomes infused with such a desperate (but commonplace) sadness. In between, there‘s a spot of anxiety & utter absurdity. And isn‘t that life? A masterful piece of writing…but heartbreaking.

The writing style was enjoyable in the beginning when focused on the group of swimmers. However when the spotlight moved to Alice and her dementia it kept me feeling as if I were being kept at arm‘s length so this book ultimately did not have the emotional impact that was I anticipating. It was a quick audiobook and I liked it but was left feeling as if something was lacking.

So well written and so heartfelt. I have a big lump in my throat.

Otsuka is such an elegant writer. I‘ve loved her other books and am loving this one so far too.

I just wasn‘t feeling this, I think the writing style was just putting me off. There is some beautiful writing and some brilliant insights, but overall just didn‘t satisfy me.

Reading this excellent book with my new specs
#specs #readingglasses #booknerd #otsuka

#DoubleSpin This is more of a novella than a book and the collective we worked well for the first 30 pages but once it split into Alice‘s story I found the format less successful. I almost wished more of the book was about the “swimmers” and less about Alice and her decline into dementia. A creative way to tell an otherwise less than original story.

Achingly lovely, this one ultimately broke my heart. Dementia is a cruel, cruel mistress and I grieve for those who are caught in its clutches as well as those left behind.

A story of a pool, a bunch of strangers, and a woman who has memory loss. I didn't care for Otsuka's writing style at all or maybe it didn't translate well to audio. The asides were distracting, the repetitive questions were frustrating. This is absolutely a book club type book, just not my book club. Lol

You may at times—dusk, Sunday evening, the middle of winter—find yourself suddenly overwhelmed by an intense physical desire to go home. All you want to do, you tell yourself, is sit down in front of the TV with your husband on the ugly brown couch and eat cold lo mein noodles one last time. And that would be enough. Just one ordinary day 🛋📺🍜

God is going to strike me down but... this is all I can think about with these repetitive questions in this book....

I waited about 3 months for this to come in and I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be getting out of this... 🤨

So far, I‘ve had a pretty decent summer for reading but it has also been full of disappointments. This was definitely one of them. To me, this felt like an outline to a really great novel, not a great read. It‘s short, choppy, and I didn‘t like the third person point of view. There were some very poignant sentences, a few laughs, and some gut punches. I can‘t “pan” it but I didn‘t love it as I was expecting. #unpopularopinions

This is such a beautiful, heartfelt novella. I wasn't sure where the story was headed, but I didn't expect the second half to break my heart the way it did.

There is some truly gorgeous writing in this book about how we interact with others, the things we notice, and the relationships between mothers and daughters.

The book begins with a story about a Swim Club. Swimming has played a big part in my life. Limited experience for me as an actual swimmer, but a massive amount as a “swim mom”. I could easily relate. What I was not prepared for was the turn away from the Club and the new focus on one of the swimmers. A Japanese woman who is losing memory. Deeply emotional. Spare, beautiful writing. A big thank you to my IRL Book Club for choosing this book. 5 ⭐️‘s

Starting next IRL Book Club choice. Meeting next week!

A short novel that will have a long lasting impact on me. Otsuka has a unique writing style especially her point of view & her beautiful sentences & spare words. Alice is a long-time swimmer at a lap pool where there is camaraderie among the regulars. Then a crack appears in the pool. Meanwhile, Alice's memory is diminishing & her daughter to whom she is not particularly close begins to deal with her mom's condition. A stunningly beautiful novel!

The swimmers is a devastating account of the decline of Alice, a dementia sufferer. We learn how Alice will experience her care home from the perspective of the commercial provider and how her family deal with her slow disappearance. The story‘s heart and humour lies in the opening of the book when the pool used by swimmers including Alice closes because of an inexplicable crack. That crack frames Alice‘s demise in a moving and powerful way.

August begins like a slow shattering dream. Heat rises up from the dusty sidewalks. Lawns bake. Trees droop. The flowers have all lost their smell. A lone Good Humour truck, illegally double parked near the entrance to the school playground, drones it‘s slow maniacal song. But down below, at the pool, we throw ourselves into the cool, clear blue water and we carry on.

Morning visit to the Library to pick up my reserves for various book groups. Very happy that none are chunksters! 🥳

I loved the narrative style of this book, which made me smile quite a bit in the first part of the story. I went in without really reading the blurb and so it definitely took a turn I wasn‘t expecting, although I liked it despite ending in a darker place than it began. Pictured here with the lavender that is one of the only things still alive in the drought-stricken yard at the moment. ☀️ Thanks for putting this one on my radar @Megabooks !

#SwimmingPoolDay 🏊‍♀️ 🏊‍♂️ 🏊🏻 💦 #JulyJam 🪷🌱🌹

#BookNerd 🤓📚💙

This line made me cry, too. This whole beautiful story is making my heart hurt.

This line made me cry. 😭

This book is becoming so sad. 😢

#BookReport 25/22

On audio I finished a #ReadingAfruca2022 book. In print, I read those three. All were good, but this week‘s favorite is Greengates!

This book is starting out weirdly with the whole population occasionally swimming underground in a large pool. What?! I have no idea what to expect of this story. 😮 Ever onward...!

This was not what I was expecting, but the meditative writing was just what I needed. What begins as a story about members of an underground swimming pool quickly became a collection of short stories about a woman with dementia. It felt deeply personal and raw. Otsuka‘s unique writing style draws attention to the small details that make up or every day lives. There‘s a link in the comments to a fascinating interview with the author.