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Survivor's Guide to Family Happiness
Survivor's Guide to Family Happiness | Maddie Dawson
25 posts | 17 read | 23 to read
Three women, three lives, and one chance to become a family whether they want to or not.Newly orphaned, recently divorced, and semiadrift, Nina Popkin is on a search for her birth mother. She s spent her life looking into strangers faces, fantasizing they re related to her, and now, at thirty-five, she s ready for answers.Meanwhile, the last thing Lindy McIntyre wants is someone like Nina bursting into her life, announcing that they re sisters and campaigning to track down their mother. She s too busy with her successful salon, three children, beautiful home, and oh yes, some pesky little anxiety attacks.But Nina is determined to reassemble her birth family. Her search turns up Phoebe Mullen, a guarded, hard-talking woman convinced she has nothing to offer. Gradually sharing stories and secrets, the three women make for a messy, unpredictable family that looks nothing like Nina pictured but may be exactly what she needs. Nina s moving, ridiculous, tragic, and transcendent journey becomes a love story proving that real family has nothing to do with DNA."
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SonyaBeatty
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"Funny, how you can have a million happy moments staring you in the face, and still you haven‘t budged from the original problem that had plagued you since you were five. Where is my real family, and why did they give me away?"

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Skittles19
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Easy book, loved the characters, realistic, relatable

rather_be_reading welcome to litsy!! 📚🎃📚 @LitsyWelcomeWagon 6y
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bee2
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Quite liked this book. Easy read, although would have liked to know a bit more about the mums

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anwade88
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Looking for recommendations! :) This seemed like a super do-able and fun challenge.

And would you all say "judge by the cover" is just a book you pick based on the cover?

So far:
On TBR for over a year: A Man Called Ove
NF Food/Drink: My Kitchen Year
Recommended by: Survivors Guide to Family Happiness
Translated from Another Language: The Reader (from German)

anwade88 My non fiction food read that read a lot like a novel with great recipes. Loved it! 7y
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anwade88
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Mehso-so

Hmm... Hard to rate this one...

I actually really enjoyed this novel... several parts I laughed out loud and I enjoyed following the story.

But:

1) The primary character's voice (who is supposedly 35) reads identical to the 15 year old. Annoying.

2) The adoptive parents getting washed over (dad gets one line, mom was boring and died when Nina was 35) might have just been too personal for me at the moment. I really didn't like that aspect.

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anwade88

One of the greatest losses of modern life is that a person can't slam the phone down anymore. Someone needs to invent an app that would approximate the sound of a slammed-down receiver so the person on the other end know they've really pissed you off.

Beckys_Books Amen! I'm never really sure when my 16 year old daughter hangs up on me! 7y
anwade88 Lol! Yes! 😂 7y
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anwade88

I was not going to ever get a baby, it appeared, so I was working on auntdom, for which you need no Lamaze whatsoever. I had discovered that aunts are supposed to always have gum, and they are to take the children's side whenever there is a dispute with the parents. But they are also depended upon to explain the parents point of view in a very diplomatic way.

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anwade88

"Sometimes as I drove around... I argued my points with him in my head, and surprisingly, he thought I had some good points."

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RinaBrahmbhattBarot
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readinginthedark I think people just don't spend enough time together before the marriage to make sure they really want the same things. If a man wants the same thing his wife wants, he won't lose interest by getting those things. Just my opinion. 7y
Smangela @readinginthedark I think it helps to be friends with your spouse too. It may sound sickly sweet but my husband really is my best friend. We have conversations about anything and everything, make each other laugh, have similar interests, and embrace our differences! We were together 4 years before we got married :) I agree with you too (edited) 7y
RinaBrahmbhattBarot @readinginthedark good point!! We all grow and change, but I also believe if you are committed you learn/adapt and make it work. It's very tricky (edited) 7y
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RinaBrahmbhattBarot @Smangela this is the best case scenario where you are best friend with your husband :) 7y
Laalaleighh Agree with both @readinginthedark and @Smangela My bf and I have been together six years and I feel like we are just now to a point where we know we want the same things and that we could get married and never look back and question it. I look back on previous relationships that lasted the amount of time people tend to date before getting engaged (1.5 years where I'm from) and realize that that's nowhere near enough time. 7y
Laalaleighh He's also my best friend and we have 90% of our interests in common so when my friends or siblings date people they have nothing in common with I'm just like-- why. One day you will get over the honeymoon and the friendship and shared interests will be so important. A lot of people have kids to try and manufacture common interests and when it doesn't work they just give up. 7y
Smangela @Laalaleighh agreed! Gotta have more than attraction and romance because the friendship and dedication is what gets you through the hard times! 7y
Smangela @MyBookSwapClub have to agree with you ☺️☺️ 7y
readinginthedark @Smangela @MyBookSwapClub @Laalaleighh Agreed! My husband and I were dating for two years and engaged for two years, and we've been married for eight now! We're very different but have enough in common that it works. And most importantly, we trust each other and always try to work through hardships together! It's the best to always have someone you can lean on! 7y
RinaBrahmbhattBarot @Laalaleighh that's so cool and importance of friendship can never be underestimated. Wether we like it or not, honeymoon period do end :) 7y
RinaBrahmbhattBarot @readinginthedark nothing better than your husband for lean on :) 7y
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Samwise_Gamgee
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Jenshootsweddings Oooooooh Bourbon Thief! 7y
kspenmoll Nice haul! 7y
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RinaBrahmbhattBarot
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Pickpick

What a colourful cover! Really looking forward to read this one! Have you read this?

Alfoster Yes, I loved it!❤ 7y
RinaBrahmbhattBarot @Alfoster Thanks!!! I'm looking forward to reading it :) 7y
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mcipher
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(Gratuitous cat pic but she is sitting here purring like mad!!) I really loved this - the characters were pretty well-crafted and areal and flawed and interesting, and there were so many funny parts. The relationships that evolved were great, too. Definitely going to check out her other books - and the author lives 1/2 hour from me, maybe we can get her to come to book club! #catsoflitsy

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Faibka She's adorable! 😻😻😻💕 7y
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mcipher
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Somebody is living the good life! #catsofLitsy

hwheaties KITTEH! 7y
Tanzy13 🐱 7y
Faibka Cutie! 😻 7y
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mcipher
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Working from home today and we have no 3 prong outlets outside of the kitchen, so I turned my counter into a standing desk! So far so good.... Book is here to remind me to take breaks😊

Alfoster It's a good one😍!!! 7y
mcipher @Alfoster I really like it so far. The main character is SO funny! 7y
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mcipher
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This book is cracking me up already. I don't want to go back to work, I want to sit here and keep reading!!

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Karkar
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I really enjoyed this book. It was not what I was expecting in the end. I wish there would have been more Lindy, she was my favorite.

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Karkar
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On a work road trip, eating at a casino and reading a book. Yep, that's me tonight. 😂😂😂😂

RealLifeReading 👍👍👍 7y
Pamwurtzler A casino?? Did you win anything? 7y
Karkar @Pamwurtzler nope. :(. But the food was great!! 7y
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Novelgossip
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I kept thinking about Emily Giffin‘s books while reading this, it had some very similar qualities to her books. This was such a heartfelt and tender read, but Dawson infused it with so many quirky and fun moments that there were times I was smiling through my tears. All of these women will stay with me for awhile, but Nina especially left a mark on heart. I wholeheartedly recommend this one for anyone who likes writers like Giffin.

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skrishna
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Spent the morning in bed finishing up this breezy novel. A woman goes on a search for a birth mother, but realizes that what she's searching for is a place to belong. It wasn't perfect, but it was a satisfying Sunday morning read.

Reviewsbylola That cover is so pretty. 8y
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Alfoster
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This was an insightful and addictive read about two sisters separated from their birth mother and each other through separate adoptions. Quirky and imperfect characters, lovely humor, and bittersweet moments all align in a story about the life we choose and the healing power of forgiveness and redemption. Highly recommended!

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Karkar
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Excited to start read the ARC I won on Goodreads 📚📚

Alfoster It's good!!! 8y
Karkar @Alfoster I am really enjoying it so far! 8y
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LitHousewife
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I was so busy organizing my *gulp* 110 stamp sets that I forgot to check the mail until now. I got this book in the mail. It's unsolicited, but it pertains to adoption. As an adoptive mom, books that deal honestly with those relationships always appeal to me. Plus, the cover could definitely inspire some pretty bookmarks.

LauraBeth That's a beautiful book cover!! 8y
Reviewsbylola That is gorgeous! 8y
[DELETED] 2232195534 The cover is very nice. I'm an adopted child so these books are of interest to me as well. 8y
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jennifersmeth Be interested to hear your thoughts as a fellow adoptive mama 8y
LitHousewife @kaysreadinglife @jennifersmeth With the recent uneducated remarks about adoption around the Olympics, we need good books about it. I'll let you guys know. 8y
Gleefulreader That cover is simply gorgeous! 8y
jennifersmeth Omg yes! People are idiots! 8y
TomesandTequila I loved this book! 8y
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