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Keanu Reeves Is Not In Love With You
Keanu Reeves Is Not In Love With You: The Murky World of Online Romance Fraud | Becky Holmes
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Online romance fraud is a problem across the globe. It causes financial and emotional devastation, yet many people refuse to take it seriously. This is the story of one middle-aged woman in a cardigan determined to understand this growing phenomenon. No other woman has had so many online romances from Keanu Reeves to Brad Pitt to Prince William and Becky Holmes is a favourite among peacekeeping soldiers and oil rig workers who desperately need iTunes vouchers. By winding up scammers and investigating the truth behind their profiles, Becky shines a revealing, revolting and hilarious light on a very shady corner of the internet. Featuring first-hand accounts of victims, examples of scripts used by fraudsters, a look into the psychology of fraud and of course plenty of Beckys hysterical interactions with scammers, this is a must-read for anyone who needs a reminder that Keanu Reeves is NOT in love with them.
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Chelsea.Poole
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I started listening to this book on a whim, unsure if I‘d finish it. It wasn‘t long before I was cackling and completely hooked by the hilarious stories and over the top reverse-catfishing Becky Holmes uses on scammers. The oil rig worker who‘s in love with you in your DMs is desperate, not for your love but for your money. While this is humorous, Holmes gets serious with profiles of women affected by this and also the catfishers themselves.

slategreyskies Wow, this book looks so bizarre that it might actually be really good! 🤣 1w
Chelsea.Poole @slategreyskies I was surprised at how much I ended up getting on with it! Funny but highlights real issues! 1w
BarbaraBB I know an elder lady who thought Keanu Reeves‘s was in love with her… they texted non-stop, she thought, and it was a question of time until they‘d meet. She even sent him money to fly to the Netherlands 🥲 (edited) 1w
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slategreyskies @BarbaraBB When I worked at a store that had a Western Union, I got training on how to decline transactions that looked fraudulent. I had an elderly woman come in once wanting to send a large sum of money to Nigeria, and I told her that I wasn‘t allowed to do it, because it was against the rules. She didn‘t know specifics about the man or anything. She was really disappointed and sad, but her son (who‘d brought her in) was thankful. 😢 1w
BarbaraBB @slategreyskies That is so sad! 1w
Chelsea.Poole @BarbaraBB @slategreyskies both stories are sad! I have many myself from our library. One woman in particular has been sending money to her multiple “husbands” over the years. She refuses to listen to reason. At some point it becomes a denial issue, or I‘ve even known people who are so far in they don‘t even mind it being a scam because they‘re in love. 1w
BarbaraBB These women must be so lonely. 1w
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Online romance fraud has skyrocketed. From impersonating members of the armed forces to Hollywood stars, there's seemingly no stone the fraudsters will leave unturned. The author looks at the psychology behind the frauds, the kind of 'scripts' they use to play on their victims' emotions, & why it seems to be a crime that the victims feel reluctant to report. (continued)

OutsmartYourShelf I knew I had to read this book as soon as I saw the cover. I follow the author on Twitter (sorry, can't get into calling it X) & I find her text conversations with these scammers funny, so I was looking forward to it. It mostly didn't disappoint.

Behind the humour though, there are very unfunny consequences for those taken in. I found it informative, mainly because I've never really had anything like this sent to me
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OutsmartYourShelf (I wonder if it's because my social media is filled with football posts so they think I'm a bloke?!) & I've never really looked into it. It's sad but not surprising that UK anti-fraud law is trailing way behind when it comes to online crime & that actual support for victims is in short supply.

Overall, it may not be everyone's 'cup of tea' but it's definitely different. 4🌟

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OutsmartYourShelf My thanks to #NetGalley & publishers, Unbound, for the opportunity to read an ARC.

Full review: https://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6289859808
Read 1st-2nd April 2024

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DieAReader 🥳Great!! 4w
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