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Wifedom: Mrs. Orwell's Invisible Life | Anna Funder
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"A riveting work about the woman who sacrificed her future for one of the most famous writers of the twentieth century and a probing look at what it means to be a wife and a writer in the modern world. Looking for wonder and some reprieve from the everyday, award-winning writer Anna Funder slips into the pages of her hero George Orwell. As she watches him create his writing self, she tries to remember her own. When she uncovers his forgotten wife, it's a revelation. Eileen O'Shaughnessy's literary brilliance shaped Orwell's work and her practical common sense saved his life. But why-and how-was she written out of the story? Using newly discovered letters from Eileen to her best friend, Funder recreates the Orwells' marriage, through the Spanish Civil War and the Second World War in London. As she rolls up the screen concealing Orwell's private life she is led to question what it takes to be a writer-and what it is to be a wife. Genre-bending and utterly original, Wifedom is an ode to the unsung work of women everywhere today, while offering a breathtakingly intimate view of one of the most important literary marriages of the twentieth century. It is a book that speaks to our present moment as much as it illuminates the past"--
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Eva_B
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This book is part biography, part fiction and part memoir of the author. A strange combination and I wasn‘t sure what to make of it at first. I like George Orwell‘s work but this book looks at his wife Eileen and her role and influence on his work. And how she has been ignored by everyone including Orwell. It left me thinking that Orwell was a completely self absorbed a-hole!! The book had me questioning assumptions but rounded them out perfectly

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charl08
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What a line. (Anne Olivier Popham)

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charl08
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‘Listen to this for a thank-you note,‘ she tells Lettice, finding Wells‘s letter. “Why do you attack me in this way? Is it some perverted jealousy or some insane political machinations. Read my early works you shit.”‘ Lettice chuckles.
‘Poor man,‘ she says. ‘Probably thinks you were trying to kill him.‘
‘Yes,‘ Eileen says. ‘Death by plum cake.‘

ChaoticMissAdventures Eileen seems like she was such a witty woman . I think you can tell from this one. 2w
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charl08
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These anxieties of authenticity exist because when words go inside a reader, they make magic. They fizz and pop and conjure. They change minds. Your words may cast a spell on the reader but they cannot be felt to be a con-artist's trick, for then the reader will feel de- frauded. All the reader wants is for the avatar sitting behind the table to match their inner picture.

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charl08
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When she'd turned around George was at the door, hands on hips, waiting for his answer. She saw then that to him she belonged here with the animals and the house and the garden.

'Spain is a good idea,' she'd said, reaching the back step. 'I'm sure we could be useful.'

He'd looked startled. 'But I'll be at the front. There'd be nothing for you to do.'

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mjtwo
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Mehso-so

25-7 Mar 24 (audiobook)
This book is reminiscent of Virginia Woolf‘s A Room Of One‘s Own and it probably suffered as a result.
Funder tries to discover Orwell‘s first wife, Eileen, hidden in Orwell‘s writing - his letters, articles and novels. Orwell is not likeable. And Eileen was without doubt a clever woman who influenced and enabled his work. I object, however, to some of the assumptions Funder makes and her positioning of herself in the text.

CarolynM I had the same problems with it. Couldn‘t finish it. (edited) 3w
TrishB Agree totally with your review. It‘s either fiction or NF and making up assumptions just didn‘t work. 3w
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charl08
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Bit of a deal right now...

#WomensPrizeNF

squirrelbrain Was just about to post about this! 4w
charl08 @squirrelbrain I've snapped it up! 4w
squirrelbrain Definitely worth 99p - I didn‘t want to buy it as I didn‘t think I‘d like it, but I read it on BorrowBox and really enjoyed it. 4w
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kspenmoll Tried to get it but deal gone or not in US 14$ 4w
charl08 @kspenmoll oh that's a shame! 4w
youneverarrived Thanks for sharing, just bought it 👍 4w
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AnneCecilie
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After reading this, I must admit that I‘m glad I‘ve never read any of Orwell‘s book. There‘s no pedestal to push him down from

He hardly mentions his wife in his correspondence and books, even when she‘s there helping him out. Which makes it easier for his previous biographers to not include her either. He‘s also a cheater and on at least two occasions he‘s trying to force himself on women. And still there‘s more red flags surrounding him.

AnneCecilie And in the best possible way, the book reads more like a fiction than a nonfiction in that it pulls you into the story and you just have to keep on reading (edited) 1mo
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AnneCecilie
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#WeeklyForecast

I‘m currently reading three books; the poetry collection Physical which I hope to finish, Wifedom that I want to continue reading and Marklund‘s latest crime novel. The only thing with the Marklund is that is thought it was translated into Norwegian and it‘s the Swedish edition and I wasn‘t quite present for that.

I also want to read the latest crime novel from Bolt and start The Silent Death

AnneCecilie This will also be my tbr for the #MarvellousMarch readathon @Andrew65 1mo
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AnneCecilie
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I‘ll just leave that there

Aimeesue Yep. 😒 1mo
Lindy 💰💰💰 1mo
Jari-chan 😮‍💨 1mo
kassandrik Sadly so true! Recently I noticed the tendency for big companies to sell their “almost equal“ working environments - “almost 50%“ of women in staff, “almost 30%“ - in leadership, “at least one VP“, etc.
Resistance of this change is so remarkably huge. :(
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squirrelbrain
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I actually really liked this, which surprised me as there had been some mixed reviews on Litsy, so I had considered waiting until the #womensprize shortlist came out before reading it.

I particularly liked where the author pointed out all of the omissions in Orwell‘s work, where he‘d left out Eileen to suit his own narrative.

I didn‘t like the author infrequently inserting her own life into the book - either go all in or not at all!

Hooked_on_books I really liked this, too, and fully expected not to! 1mo
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AnneCecilie
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So instead of going home I pulled In around the corner at a second-hand bookshop, Sappho.
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Sappho is the opposite of a mall: no one is trying to sell you anything. In fact, the tattooed woman at the till sighs ruefully when you buy one of their books, as if money couldn‘t, possibly, make up the loss. This place is entirely soul.

(Picture found online when searching Sappho bookstore, not sure it‘s the right one, but gave the right feeling)

Tamra 😌 1mo
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Hooked_on_books
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This fascinating book is a look at the life of George Orwell‘s wife Eileen as well as a critique and full-throated denunciation of patriarchy. I was fully engrossed and engaged the entire time despite half expecting to bail early. Also, the audiobook is really well done. I‘m so glad the women‘s prize put this one on my radar, as I never would have read it otherwise and I would‘ve missed out!

squirrelbrain I was waiting to see if this made the shortlist as I know I few people didn‘t like it…now, after your review, I‘m not so sure. 🤔 I have a (digital) print copy though, not the audio. 2mo
Hooked_on_books @squirrelbrain I say give it a try. I was pulled in immediately, so if you try a chapter or two and aren‘t grabbed by it, you can set it aside for another time. Or of course you can always wait for the shortlist, as it won‘t be too long! 2mo
TrishB I just didn‘t gel with this one. I didn‘t like the made up bits and or feel she actually had enough info for the ‘facts‘ she was putting out there. I really like some of the authors other books though. 2mo
Hooked_on_books @TrishB I completely understand that. For me it worked just because I felt she was trying to flesh out Eileen‘s humanity, and I take it all with a grain of salt. But there are definitely books that do that and it really bothers me. 2mo
Librarybelle I have this out from the library right now! Hope to get to it soon! 2mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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Mehso-so

2/16 Women's Prize long list Nonfiction

3.5⭐

While I found this readable, it was a bit long. Towards the end I started dreading picking it up as I spent a lot of time trying to piece out what was fact and what was Funders embellishments. I enjoyed her research and her criticism. The parts where she is able to walk us through their lives, but I wish her own scene setting work has been left out.

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ChaoticMissAdventures
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I recommend picking up the physical book if you are able, there are many photos throughout the text.

jlhammar Good to know. Thanks! 2mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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"How did she get here?"
"How did I get here?"

"I did find her [Eileen], but in scraps of facts, ripped up like a chew toy - a blue eye, the corner of a shoulder blade under a suit jacket.........Eileen was a whisp of a human but inhumanly strong; her nickname, for reasons no one remembers, was Pig."

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CarolynM
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I‘m all for recognising the contributions made by people (usually women) around “geniuses” & I‘m happy to acknowledge that many “geniuses” are flawed human beings, but I can‘t get on with this book. I‘m irritated by the author stating her interpretations as fact, by her acceptance of some sources at face value while criticising other biographers for it & also by the way she imposes herself into the narrative. I‘m just irritated by it generally.

Jeg Sorry you didn‘t enjoy this book. It was my best read for last year. Goes to show we are all very different . What a wonderful world. Hope all is well in your world. ❤️. 3mo
Ruthiella I‘ve heard that criticism from others as well. 3mo
LeeRHarry That‘s disappointing - hopefully the next book you pick up is a better fit. 😊 3mo
Freespirit Funny how something so popular can irritate you. I had the same problem with Tom Lake by Anne Patchett which is incredibly popular…I found it so slow and boring! 2mo
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abmaltly
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Such a well researched and well written book. The minimization of women‘s lives not only by society in the 1930/40s but also subsequently by successive biographers is obvious and fury invoking.

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“I am part proud and part heartbroken, which may be the defining emotional condition of parenting young adults.”

Currently reading and this quote hit home for me as the mother of a 14-year-old.

“We watch as those who were our children come to see the world — from which we have spent over a decade and a half vainly sheltering them — for what it is. Including, of course, us.”

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TrishB
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A real love/hate relationship with this. The first half is a mish- mash of stuff I just couldn‘t get into. I disliked the fictional bits, didn‘t think they added anything.
I did like the modern commentary and analysis of patriarchy and the Orwell‘s marriage. I wanted to hug Eileen and offer her support.
I think Orwell did some genius writing, but falls short of any respect as a man. Sadly, not uncommon with great writers.

LeahBergen The fictional bits would bother me, too. I prefer one or the other: fiction or biography. 🤷🏻‍♀️ 6mo
Tamra Too bad, I was slightly intrigued but not anymore. 6mo
TrishB @LeahBergen yes, that‘s why I didn‘t really enjoy the first half- then I decided to ignore those bits 🤷‍♀️ 6mo
TrishB @Tamra I‘d probably only recommend if Orwell obsessive! 6mo
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JMPemberton
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There are so many sentences and paragraphs in this book that i want to remember forever that I‘ve given up jotting them down, instead I‘m ordering a copy of the book for myself. This is a wonderful feminist tale about the life of George Orwell‘s ‘invisible‘ wife and her huge influence on his work and about the invisibility of women, the erasure of women from history and of the lives of wives in this very patriarchal world. #biography #feminist

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Thank you for all your lovely wishes, cards and gifts, for those already received (and read!) too.
Litsy friends know you so well 😘

quietlycuriouskate Happy birthday, Trish! 🎂📚 6mo
julesG A wonderful stack! 6mo
kspenmoll Happy birthday! Wonderful gifts! 📚📚 6mo
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Caroline2 Happy birthday Trish. My presents are on their way…! 😁 🪽 📦 6mo
batsy Happy birthday, Trish! 🎂💙🎉 Some lovely reading material you have in store 😍 6mo
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TrishB @quietlycuriouskate thanks Kate and for the very interesting looking book 😘 6mo
TrishB @julesG it certainly is! 6mo
TrishB @kspenmoll thank you 😘 6mo
TrishB @Caroline2 thank you 😘 no worries! 6mo
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BarbaraBB Such a great stack! Enjoy! I hope you‘ll like the book 🩷 6mo
TrishB @BarbaraBB I nearly brought your one last week, but C said I couldn‘t as loads of people brought me books for my birthday and I should wait! She‘s very wise ❤️ can‘t wait to read it! 6mo
Deblovestoread Happy birthday! Looks like great reading ahead. Enjoy! 🎈📚🎂🎈 6mo
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LeahBergen What a stack! 👏👏 6mo
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Abailliekaras
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Excellent. A biography of George Orwell‘s wife Eileen that challenges our view of his treatment of her, the role of wives (or artists) in history and the form a biography can take. I love Funder‘s clean prose and her clarity of thought. She includes fictional vignettes that are imagined based on Eileen‘s letters & source documents. She explicitly brings it into the modern day with reflections on her own experience. Great for book clubs.

Simona I‘m starting book club in the January and the youngest participant is 16 years old … do you think that this book is enough interesting for young wandering brains? 7mo
Abailliekaras @Simona that‘s a great question. Yes in the sense that Funder‘s style is infuse so it‘s not dense. You will get more out of it if you‘ve read Orwell‘s work and/or have some experience of marriage (not as a wife but even seeing friends subsumed etc) but actually it would be great to have a 16 yr old perspective. Funder raises the issues with her own daughter with interesting results. 7mo
Abailliekaras Unfussy not infuse! 🙄 7mo
Simona She is familiar with his work, and she is also child of recently divorced parents … thank you, I think that will be our first pick. 7mo
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Rissreads
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George Orwell the man, is a shit!
Eileen O‘Shaughnessy his wife has been erased from his history, as is so often the case.
I‘m filled with rage and sadness for her.
What a tremendous book. Anna Funder is a phenomenal writer! I also loved Stasiland and will search out everything else she has written.

Jeg This is my favourite book so far this year. What an eye opener. I love all her books. I was amazed at the research that went into this book. She is amazing. Have heard or seen her speak about this book? (edited) 8mo
Rissreads @Jeg no I haven‘t but I would love too! Maybe she will come to Perth for one of our festivals 🤞🏼 8mo
MrsMalaprop @Jeg She did a launch here at the UWA Club, but it sold out quickly. I heard her speak about it on Radio National. Thought I had a copy of All That I Am to loan @Rissreads but I can‘t seem to find it 🤔 8mo
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Monica5
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Not a popular opinion, but I didn't care for this book. Seemed like a mish-mash of information to me🤷

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MrsMalaprop
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Yes! What a unique book. An exploration of the life of Orwell‘s wife Eileen O‘Shaughnessy who was instrumental in his work, but all but erased from it. A fascinating feminist biography. Moving, affecting and gripping.
I feel like I need to start a movement,
“Eileen O‘Shaughnessy: know her name!”
🔥💪🙏

TrishB This sounds fab- just pre-ordered, not out until next month here. 9mo
Cathythoughts Great review, stacked. 9mo
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Jeg
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Just finished in the early hours of the morning. Wow. So much research , so much insight. I got to know Anna as well as Eileen and George Orwell. The best book I‘ve read this year.
Stasiland prompted a visit to Berlin. This has me thinking of so many things.
I highly recommend this book. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 10/10.

LeeRHarry Immediately putting it on hold at my library ….sounds excellent! 😊 10mo
MrsMalaprop I am loving it too Joy & @LeeRHarry ♥️ 10mo
Jeg @MrsMalaprop I was just looking at the notes. So much research. I‘m going to have a close look at them. 10mo
Tamra Sounds great! 10mo
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MrsMalaprop
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Holy moly. One chapter in & I‘m hooked @Jeg #currentlyreading

Ruthiella I liked Stasiland by her a lot . 👍 10mo
MrsMalaprop @Ruthiella I haven‘t read Stasiland, although I have it on my shelf because my husband read and loved it. All That I Am is 👌too. 10mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Nice setup 🌳 10mo
MrsMalaprop @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks we are holidaying in Margaret River in south Western Australia. Very green & wet & beautiful 🌳🌧️😍 10mo
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Jeg
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There is so much in this book that " speaks" to me. I could be putting quotes on here every few minutes. This bit about double think shouts at me.

MrsMalaprop Almost bought this at the bookshop in Margaret River today. Will have to get it. 10mo
Jeg @MrsMalaprop I thought you might buy it when I saw you had been in the book shop. I'm finding it an excellent read. I'm making myself read it slowly so as to savour her great writing. 10mo
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Jeg
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I am loving this book. I think I will be reading it all day.

MrsMalaprop Wow 😮. Might have to get hold of this one. 10mo
Jeg @MrsMalaprop I was just going to message you. I read this and thought of you. 10mo
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Jeg
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Arrived today. Can‘t wait to read it.

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