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Vanishing Monuments
Vanishing Monuments | John Elizabeth Stintzi
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Alani Baum, a non-binary photographer and teacher, hasnt seen their mother since they ran away with their girlfriend when they were seventeen -- almost thirty years ago. But when Alani gets a call from a doctor at the assisted living facility where their mother has been for the last five years, they learn that their mothers dementia has worsened and appears to have taken away her ability to speak. As a result, Alani suddenly find themselves running away again -- only this time, theyre running back to their mother. Staying at their mothers empty home, Alani attempts to tie up the loose ends of their mothers life while grappling with the painful memories thatin the face of their mothers disease -- theyre terrified to lose. Meanwhile, the memories inhabiting the house slowly grow animate, and the longer Alani is there, the longer theyre forced to confront the fact that any closure they hope to get from this homecoming will have to be manufactured. This beautiful, tenderly written debut novel by Bronwen Wallace Award for Emerging Writers winner John Elizabeth Stintzi explores what haunts us most, bearing witness to grief over not only what is lost, but also what remains.
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Lindy
Vanishing Monuments | John Elizabeth Stintzi
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Second online literary event of my day: John Elizabeth Stintzi and Marta Orriols at the Toronto International Festival of Authors.

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Look at all my flags in this novel! I took in the gorgeous prose in small sips over the course of 2 months. The non-binary author uses a fragmentary circular style to tell a rewarding story about memory and coming to terms with a difficult parent-child relationship. The central character illuminates their internal experience as a non-binary person, which may partly explain why I felt like this book was altering my brain. #CanadianAuthor #queer

TrishB Lol 😂 there‘s lots in that book! 4y
Lindy @TrishB Yup! Looking forward to discussing this over zoom with my feminist book club on Saturday. 4y
Penny_LiteraryHoarders Yes it's been added it to my list of contenders and I'm trying to get my hands on it! 4y
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Most monuments, eventually, make their memories stuffy. They make you think there is only one version of something you should remember. They make you think the past is clean and over.

(Internet photo)

TobeyTheScavengerMonk Timely for the South reckoning (or choosing not to reckon) with our Confederate past right now. 4y
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The umbrella fwoops open.

squirrelbrain Love this - what a fab word! 4y
Lindy @squirrelbrain vocabulary nerds unite! 🤓 4y
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Beside the phone is the answering machine, which no longer has a tape in it. The phone is no longer plugged into it—a skull that nobody tells stories to anymore.

(Internet photo)

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We both loved our mothers so much, if only because we couldn‘t reach them or do anything to help them. We cared about them and watched them break themselves down.

Centique Painful beautiful quote. I love the flowers! 4y
Lindy @Centique thanks! The entire house smells of lilies. 😊 4y
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Hello folks! Greetings everyone! It has come to my attention that July 14th is International Non-binary Day. I happen to be reading a novel by a non-binary author at the moment (tagged), but that is merely coincidence. 🏳️‍🌈

Megabooks Awesome! That‘s also why I use y‘all so much on here. I didn‘t use it much growing up despite living in the south, but I started using it more in the past few years to be inclusive of NB people. I do like folks or folx, too, though. (edited) 4y
Lindy @Megabooks Y‘all is a fine option. 👍 4y
Butterfinger What about sir/ma'am? I'm genuinely interested and want to do better? Should I ask for a preference? 4y
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wanderinglynn I love using folks and y‘all or “all y‘all” (to be really inclusive 😂) 4y
PurpleTulipGirl “Y‘all” became part of my vocabulary during 15 years in Texas. It‘s so useful. 4y
Lindy @Butterfinger There doesn‘t seem to be an easy alternative for sir/ma‘am used face to face. It depends on how formal the situation too. “Distinguished guest” and “friend” cover opposite ends of the spectrum. I personally avoid it by leaving it off entirely: “thank you” with a smile instead of “thank you, sir.” 4y
Lindy @Megabooks @wanderinglynn @PurpleTulipGirl Lots of love for y‘all 😊 4y
Butterfinger I will start doing that too. 4y
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Me relaxing on my final day of being 59. #gardenlife

batsy What? I don't believe your age!! A beautiful photo of you ❤️ 4y
Tanisha_A What @batsy said! And, a beautiful photo indeed ❤️ 4y
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Backyard reading spot. When I take a break from gardening, baking bread and a cake, and crafting. 😉

Josee.lit.a.lu.et.lira Beautyful❣️ We have the reading, gardening and crafting in common 🙏🏻 4y
TheSpineView Pretty! 💚 4y
Butterfinger Gorgeous!! 4y
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Freespirit That's a beautiful place to rest and read! 4y
erzascarletbookgasm Lovely spot 💗 4y
Cathythoughts Gorgeous! That cloth is stunning ✨ 4y
Lindy @Cathythoughts thanks! The tablecloth holds good memories of the south of France. 😊 4y
Lindy @erzascarletbookgasm thank you. I feel so lucky to have my garden. 4y
Lindy @Freespirit I am feeling fortunate. 😊 4y
Lindy @MEGR @Butterfinger @TheSpineView Thanks for your kind comments. Littens are the best! 4y
Lindy @Josee.a.lu.lit.et.lira 👯😉 4y
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“How long has it been since you visited?” she asks.
“Sometime around Christmas,” I say, because it‘s a shorter sentence than: Never.

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