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The Rest of Our Lives
The Rest of Our Lives: Longlisted for the Booker Prize 2025 | Benjamin Markovits
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LONGLISTED FOR THE BOOKER PRIZE 2025 'Moving, smart and life-affirming.' OBSERVER 'Why aren't all novels like this?' THE CRITIC 'A triumphant twist on the great American road novel.' GUARDIAN 'So funny, wise and knowing.' CLARE CHAMBERS What's left when your kids grow up and leave home? When Tom Layward's wife had an affair he resolved to leave her as soon as his youngest daughter turned eighteen. Twelve years later, while taking her to Pittsburgh to start university, he remembers his pact, and keeps driving West. An unforgettable road trip novel, The Rest of Our Lives beautifully explores the nuance and complications of a long term marriage. An Observer 'Novel to look out for in 2025' and an FT 'Best Summer Read' What readers are saying about The Rest of Our Lives: 'What a powerful tale; a really unexpected treasure.' ????? 'Highly recommended if you want to read something real and something that will resonate.' ????? 'The best novel I've read this year. Highly recommended.' ????? 'I absolutely loved it - the perfect mix of funny, poignant and thought-provoking.' ?????
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BarbaraBB
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After moving his daughter to college, instead of returning to the now empty nest of him and his wife Amy, Tom continues driving. All across the US, visiting friends and relatives and thinking a lot. He‘s your typical white 50+ male and that makes the book a bit predictable, yet I enjoyed spending time with Tom and his akward relationships.

Thanks for sharing this book with me Helen!

📸 Magome, Japans

Graywacke I recently read Rabbit, Run by John Updike, which is mentioned here. This book is clearly an homage to Updike. I had no idea. Glad you enjoyed! 6d
BarbaraBB I didn‘t know but now that you mention it I totally get it. Updike is a great writer. Although I think Tom is a kinder version of Rabbit (but I read them all and he gets worse by the book 😉). @Graywacke (edited) 6d
Cathythoughts Stacking 😁 6d
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squirrelbrain You‘re welcome! Glad you liked it! 6d
Graywacke @BarbaraBB Rabbit gets worse?! 😳 5d
BarbaraBB @Graywacke Imo he did. The books are good though! 5d
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#FridayHappyReadingHour

On my balcony in the Japanese mountains after a long hike. Starting the weekend with mineral water, Japanese cookies and a new book! Happy weekend friends!

Ruthiella Happy Weekend to you! What a great start to your day! 7d
dabbe Same to you! ♥️🍁🧡 7d
LeahBergen Happy weekend! 7d
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squirrelbrain Have a great weekend! 7d
Cathythoughts Happy weekend Barbara ❤️ 7d
mcctrish Happy weekend ❤️❤️❤️ 6d
Suet624 Enjoy! 💕 6d
Aims42 Happy Weekend!! 😍🥰 6d
Bookwomble I'm so jealous! I'm reading a book set in the Izu Peninsula: how much I'd like to visit! 💖 I'm loving your photos. Have a wonderful holiday 😊 5d
BarbaraBB @Bookwomble thank you 💕I went there last year! What book is it? (edited) 5d
BarbaraBB @Bookwomble Thanks. Sounds very interesting. 5d
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VRM1975
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Leniverse
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White US male has mild midlife crisis and takes a roadtrip whilst re-evaluating his life and thinking a LOT about basketball. Everything is so mundane and unexceptional, it is both realistic and dreary. Very readable and I enjoyed all but the technical basketball talk. This is so American I would expect it to be a Pulitzer candidate (except Greer already won with a funnier version), but I am surprised to see it on the #Booker shortlist. Soft pick.

RaeLovesToRead I'm halfway through and this is heading for so-so territory! Lol 3w
BarbaraBB I am planning to read this soon too, @squirrelbrain gave me her copy in Gladstone‘s. I know now what to expect. (edited) 3w
sarahbarnes Great review. I‘m not super compelled to pick this one up off the shortlist. 3w
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Amor4Libros
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Tom promised that he would divorce his wife as soon as their youngest left for college after finding out about her affair. He drops off Miri at her dorm and just keeps driving.

This was an interesting book because the ending gives you a lot to think about. It takes a while to find the interesting parts, because not a lot of interesting things happen in the story, but at the end I felt that I was following someone's real life.

3.5⭐️

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JillR
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Middle-aged middle-class man takes a midlife-crisis road trip. I‘m being snarky; this is a sweet book with an engaging narrative voice, and sums up well the uncertainties of this time of life from the male perspective. However re the Booker shortlisting, this one doesn‘t quite get there for me - SURELY the midlife-road-trip-crisis novel of the year must be All Fours? I am intrigued and puzzled as to why this would be chosen over that👇

JillR Of course, I fully accept this is an entirely different book to All Fours. But the road trip narrative draws you to make that comparison and when you do, as a work of literary fiction, this doesn‘t stand out to me as All Fours did. (My clunky way of trying to explain myself 😆) 3w
BarbaraBB I get it! All Fours was so good. Still need to read this one though 3w
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12-3 Sep 25 (audiobook)
#Bookerlonglist2025 10
Having dropped his youngest off to college, Tom makes good on his resolution 12 years ago to leave his wife after she had an affair.
I related to many of the questions facing Tom as my oldest nears the end of her schooling, although fortunately not in relation to my marriage.
Not a book I would ordinarily read and I would not expect it to make the shortlist, but I nevertheless enjoyed it.

CarolynM Two reviews of this book next to each other in my feed! You and @Graywacke both liked it, so stacked 😊 2mo
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Graywacke
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My 10th #Booker is an American roadway novel. Tom is dealing with, or not dealing with, male uncertainty. He is confronting his own promise - to leave his wife once his youngest child reaches 18 because she had an affair twelve years prior. (The title is a play on the marriage vows.)

I've kept thinking about this book. Initially I felt it didn't do enough, but slowly I came to realize how well it does what it intended.
#Booker2025

Suet624 Sounds like one I‘d like to find. 2mo
Graywacke @Suet624 I imagine you‘d enjoy it. It‘s not very long. 2mo
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merelybookish Wow! I'm impressed that you've read 10! 2mo
Graywacke @merelybookish I‘ve read two more, just haven‘t gotten them reviewed yet. ☺️ It‘s a terrific year for the Booker longlist (edited) 2mo
CarolynM Your review and @mjtwo ‘s for this book, one after the other in my feed - such a coincidence! Since you both liked it I‘ve stacked it😊 2mo
Graywacke @CarolynM yay! It‘s no Seascaper 🙂 But it‘s terrific. Enjoy. 2mo
squirrelbrain I really enjoyed this one too, just not sure it‘s a Booker book. 2mo
Graywacke @squirrelbrain initially that‘s how I felt. But i appreciate more now because it lingers, and there are reasons for that. 2mo
JenP I didn‘t love it. I didn‘t hate it either but felt rather bored and indifferent. I‘m glad to hear that you had a different reaction and enjoyed it much more. 2mo
Graywacke @JenP i struggled at times. It just zooms along nonstop and we‘re dependent on the author keeping our interest. So, I might get what you mean. (But it payed back on reflection for me.) 2mo
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sisilia
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3⭐️ Wow, finally … a recently released book that I didn‘t bail on 👏 I didn‘t dislike it, but it didn‘t surprise me or leave a lasting impression.

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Starting book ten on the #Booker Prize longlist.
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