

This memoir manages to feel both personal & somehow oddly emotionally detached at the same time, as the author shares her life story, focusing mainly on the relationship with her first husband, Gil. Significantly older, & too young to recognize warning signs, she marries him quite young after meeting him after fresh trauma of her own. Over decades, he only adds to that from a variety of abuses, alcoholism & drug use. Heartbreaking but fast paced.