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America the Anxious
America the Anxious: How Our Pursuit of Happiness Is Creating a Nation of Nervous Wrecks | Ruth Whippman
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Are you happy? Right now? Happy enough? As happy as everyone else? Could you be happier if you tried harder? After she packed up her British worldview (that most things were basically rubbish) and moved to America, journalist and documentary filmmaker Ruth Whippman found herself increasingly perplexed by the American obsession with one topic above all others: happiness. The subject came up everywhere: at the playground swings, at the meat counter in the supermarket, and evenlegs in stirrupsat the gynecologist. The omnipresence of these happiness conversations (trading tips, humble-bragging successes, offering unsolicited advice) wouldnt let her go, and so Ruth did some digging. What she found was a paradox: despite the fact that Americans spend more time and money in search of happiness than any other nation on earth, research shows that the United States is one of the least contented, most anxious countries in the developed world. Stoked by a multi-billion dollar happiness industrial complex intent on selling the promise of bliss, America appeared to be driving itself crazy in pursuit of contentment. So Ruth set out on to get to the bottom of this contradiction, embarking on an uproarious pilgrimage to investigate how this national obsession infiltrates all areas of life, from religion to parenting, the workplace to academia. She attends a controversial self-help course that promises total transformation, where she learns all her problems are all her own fault; visits a happiness city in the Nevada desert and explores why it has one of the highest suicide rates in America; delves into the darker truths behind the influential academic positive psychology movement; and ventures to Utah to spend time with the Mormons, officially Americas happiest people. What she finds, ultimately, is a rigorously researched yet universal answer, and one that comes absolutely free of charge.
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Readergrrl

So I‘m a bit worried... my international #cupidgoespostal package has been sitting in customs for nearly 4 solid days in its destination country. I‘m not sure how to proceed. Do you think that an email query with the tracking number to the customs office will help? Should I contact the recipient?

Captivatedbybooks I would let your match know as a heads up that the post is being difficult 6y
StillLookingForCarmenSanDiego I think you have to wait it out, not much to be done when customs is involved. ☝️ Like she said just let your match know. 6y
drokka Most countries have only one international postal customs centre, so four days is probably not a long time. I would say more than a week might be getting nervous, but if they got a lot of traffic in that week, it might just be slow. I've had stuff coming to me from the US sit at O'Hare for 3 weeks before they let it go through to Canada (and that parcel was from Texas), it just happened to land on a week they checked every single package. 6y
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Readergrrl Thank you for all the advice and words of encouragement. I‘ve done what I can and now I‘ll just keep my fingers crossed. I just hate having to spoil the surprise! Ah, well... that‘s the way it goes. 6y
CouronneDhiver Probably not... as I understand it, not much can be done to speed customs up. 6y
ofbooksandme And I think we all know how annoying customs can be and no one will get mad. Don't beat yourself up! 💟 6y
Readergrrl 👍🏻 6y
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MrBook
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#TBRtemptation post! Well, this should be an interesting read for anyone who borrows this. I enjoy the sociological studying and assessing books that attempt to make sense of the world around us. If only we could find the patterns and relationships that can break the chaos and give us some concrete explanations, right? Always enjoyable reading to learn things from 😊. #blameLitsy #blameMrBook 😎

RiaWritten Who is Erica and why is she so anxious? #tooliteral #labelplacement 7y
Dorianna I borrowed that book. From what little I skimmed for now it seems to be about how doggedly pursuing happiness can actually cause anxiety and as a result less happiness. 7y
minkyb At first glance I saw Erotica! 🤣 7y
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Mtroiano The Paradox of Choice is another one in this category I've been wanting to read. 7y
MyNamesParadise That's on my list but since it's straight up nonfiction and not a self help book I returned it to the library. 7y
Lightreader @SewItGoes I thought the same thing 🤔😂🇺🇸 7y
MrBook @SewItGoes @Lightreader 😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙌🏻! @Dorianna Looking forward to the merits of the case 😊👍🏻! @minkyb Oh my, my, myyyy 😂😂😂👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻! @Mtroiano Added, thank you 😎👍🏻!! @MyNamesParadise 😊👍🏻👌🏻!! 7y
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shutupsmalls
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I loved this book! I've always had reservations about "mindfulness" and searching for happiness and positive psychology, but couldn't quite put my finger on why — I thought maybe I was just kind of a dick. Well! Maybe I am, but I have science & numbers & Ruth Whippman on my side! It was a fascinating, funny, and engaging read. Definitely recommend it.

Centique This sounds fascinating! Ive had concerns about some of the more insular "self help" teaching myself. With you there! 8y
shutupsmalls @Centique it was great! And it was compulsively readable, never boring, which was 👍🏻👌🏻👏🏻 8y
kspenmoll Thx all! On my TBR as of now! 7y
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Rhondareads

Ruth a Brit moves to Silicon Valley due to her husband's career.She is the mother of a young toddler while adjusting to life here&seeking friends she noticed that Americans in search of happiness are always in a state of anxiety.In her desire to find out why we are like this he attends est type seminars observes the attachment child rearing movement .Visits a Mormon family whose life seems glowingly Happy but underneath real issues.

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I was hoping this book would, at best, be a humorous comparison of British negativity and American overblown positivity. I liked bits of the prologue. Then discovered that was basically copied from a NYT op-Ed piece from 2012. The rest of the book is basically one of a million happiness books out there only with a cynical take on every process and study mentioned. Not sure what the audience for this book is.

Well-ReadNeck ARC from #netgalley in exchange for an honest review. 8y
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