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Awake: A Memoir
Awake: A Memoir | Jen Hatmaker
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From Jen Hatmaker--beloved New York Times bestselling author and host of the For the Love podcast--a brutally honest, funny, and revealing memoir about the traumatic end of her twenty-six-year-long marriage, and the beginning of a different kind of love story. At 2:30 a.m. on July 11th, 2020, Jen Hatmaker woke up to her husband of twenty-six years whispering in his phone to another woman from their bed. It was the end of life as she knew it. In the months that followed, she went from being a shiny, funny, popular leader, to a divorced wreck on antidepressants and anti-anxiety meds parenting five kids alone with no clue about her own bank accounts. Having led millions of women for over a decade--urging them to embrace authenticity, find radical agency, and create healthy relationships--this seemed nothing less than total failure. In Awake, Jen shares for the first time what happened when she found herself completely lost at sea--and how she made it to shore. In candid, surprisingly funny vignettes spanning forty years of girlhood, marriage, and parenting, Jen lays bare the disorienting upheaval of midlife--the implosion of a marriage, the unraveling of religious and cultural systems, and the grief that accompanies change you didn't ask for. And, drawing on all her resources--from without and from within--Jen dares to question the systems beneath the whole house of cards, and to reckon with the myths, half-truths, and lies that brought her to this point. More than one woman's story, Awake is a critical analysis of the story given to all of us: the story of gender limitations, religious subservience, body shame, self-erasure. With refreshing candor, Jen explores a Midlife Renaissance--grieving what's lost, cherishing possibility, and entering the second half of life wide awake.
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Deblovestoread
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I hope to finish the tagged book today. I expected to hate it and I don‘t, so that‘s good. The Simpson mystery isn‘t grabbing me like her others but will give it a few more pages. A little progress on JAB.

Last Christmas my brother and I challenged each other to finish one book of the other‘s choice by this Christmas. The Lynch is that book which I tried to read a while ago. What misery! And I‘m only thru part 1. I will finish⬇️

Deblovestoread ⬆️ my choice for him is by far the better book 7d
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Floresj
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I hadn‘t read any of Hatmaker‘s previous books. I found this to be a good memoir of a woman going through a sad divorce, reestablishing her independence and exploring her codependency tendencies. Her best work is her most vulnerable; her worst is when she flippantly brushes over her luxurious vacations given to her by her friends. It‘s a good book, lots to like, mild annoyance (or jealousy) for me.

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Amor4Libros
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LOVED!!

Cvfrailing Adding tbr! 2w
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Amor4Libros
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Current audiobook…I have never heard of this woman before I saw this memoir making the rounds, so of course I was curious.

Going into this blind was probably the best choice for me, because WOW

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BarbaraJean
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I admit I read this motivated in no small part by pure nosiness. I wanted to know “what happened.” I‘ve followed Jen on social media long enough to have seen some of her faith deconstruction process in real time, long enough to witness the backlash she suffered for her honesty about that process and her changing beliefs. Long enough to remember when her marriage fell apart and be curious about her divorce. This offers some of the details I was ⤵️

BarbaraJean (Cont‘d)…curious about, but her framing of it was refreshing. This isn‘t a petty, revenge-driven divorce memoir full of blame & self-justification. It‘s clear she‘s done the work, and so much of this is relatable as a “coming home to yourself” story. It‘s funny, engaging, and vulnerable. However, I struggled with her level of unacknowledged privilege—something I also see in her social media. Wouldn‘t it be nice if everyone, in the aftermath of ⤵️ 1mo
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d)…betrayal, trauma, loss (and cancellation by self-righteous social-media crusaders) could go on a month-long “Me Camp” to an idyllic small town in Maine? Or afford extensive home makeovers & renovations? Or have such a deep, robust network of support from family & friends? I‘m sincerely glad Jen had access to the resources she did, and this is her story—not anyone else‘s. She wrote the book she needed to write & I applaud that. ⤵️ 1mo
BarbaraJean (Cont‘d) But. Few people going through trauma have the resources she did, and a little caveat would have mitigated some of my “wouldn‘t it be nice” eye-rolls throughout. That said, I found a deep affirmation for myself in so much of the work she‘s done: being honest about the lies you‘ve believed and the influences that shaped you—without bitterness or blame, taking responsibility for your own heart & life & choices, and learning to dream again. 1mo
TheBookHippie 💯💯💯💯💯💯 1mo
CSeydel A thoughtful review! 1mo
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Jen Hatmaker takes the rude awakening that ended her 26-year pastoral marriage and turns it into a reflective and bold enlightenment, shining a light on the dark roots of shame, misogyny, and hypocrisy in the evangelical church and freeing herself and her readers along the way. I laughed, I cried, I cheered, I bookmarked, and I‘ve already given multiple copies away to family and friends. Fans of Brené Brown and Glennon Doyle, AWAKE is a must read!

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NovelNancyM
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Loved the vulnerability of the author as she reflects on the painful deceit of her husband, her divorce and her new beginning as she processed the “before“ and “after“ of her life. Great audiobook read by the author with a few extras.

Amor4Libros This sounds good, stacking! 2mo
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HeatherBookNerd
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The book is about the disintegration of the Hatmaker marriage and the rebuilding of her life. But it is no salacious tell all. Instead, Jen examines the troubled foundations under that relationship and her own part in its demise. With honesty and candor, she talks about digging through the rubble to understand the faulty building blocks and then how she began to start anew, with a stronger sense of self and healthier relational habits. Fantastic.

ferskner LOL I was thinking "wow did review really makes me want to read it!" and then went "oh it's from Heather, of course." ? 2mo
HeatherBookNerd @ferskner it‘s really great! 2mo
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