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Maggie; or, A Man and a Woman Walk Into a Bar
Maggie; or, A Man and a Woman Walk Into a Bar | Katie Yee
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A Chinese American woman spins tragedy into comedy when her life falls apart in a taut, wry debut novel that grapples with grief, motherhood, and mythsperfect for fans of Joan Is Okay and Crying in H Mart. A man and a woman walk into a restaurant. The woman expects a lovely night filled with endless plates of samosas. Instead, she finds out her husband is having an affair with a woman named Maggie. A short while after, her chest starts to ache. She walks into an examination room, where she finds out the pain in her breast isnt just heartbreakits cancer. She decides to call the tumor Maggie. Unfolding in fragments over the course of the ensuing months, Maggie; Or, a Man and a Woman Walk Into a Bar follows the narrator as she embarks on a journey of grief, healing, and reclamation. She starts talking to Maggie (the tumor), getting acquainted with her bodys new inhabitant. She overgenerously creates a Guide to My Husband: A Users Manual for Maggie (the other woman), hoping to ease the process of discovering her ex-husbands whims and quirks. She turns her childrens bedtime stories into retellings of Chinese folklore passed down by her own mother, in an attempt to make them fall in love with their shared cultureand to maybe save herself in the process. In the style of Jenny Offill and the tradition of Nora Ephrons hilarious and devastating writing on heartbreak and womanhood, Maggie is a master class in transforming personal tragedy into a form of defiant comedy.
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Megabooks
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Mehso-so

Another book that really underwhelmed me. I swear I still read books I like!! This is written in a similar vein as Jenny Offill or Rachel Cusk. The narrator explores the one-two punch of the end of her marriage and a breast cancer diagnosis. In a book where the MC experiences such terrible things, I would expect to feel sympathy, but she reads so detached from her own feelings and situation, I felt nothing. That was disappointing.

Sparklemn Cool title at least! 4d
Megabooks @Sparklemn yes! Maggie is the name of the woman her husband leaves her for, so she decides to name her breast cancer lump Maggie, too. 😳 4d
Sparklemn I shouldn‘t laugh…but I can‘t help it. 🙂 4d
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Hooked_on_books
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Pickpick

An interesting take on the divorce novel. Here, a woman learns her husband has been having an affair (and is leaving her) immediately before learning she has breast cancer. So, she names her tumor after the other woman, as you do. It‘s threaded with humor and abounding with metaphors. I liked but didn‘t love it.

CBee I felt the same! Liked, not loved. Would‘ve enjoyed more of the Chinese mythology, I loved those parts. 1mo
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marleed
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Mehso-so

This style of writing didn‘t quite work for me. The nameless MC goes through a lot but seemed emotionally detached from the experiences she recounts- blindsided by infidelity, cancer. Thank god for best friends🥰 …My sincere wish for anyone facing divorce is they are no longer in love with their spouse.

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ErikasMindfulShelf
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Pickpick

I read this book in one sitting and absolutely loved it. About a marriage falling apart and a cancer diagnosis. Sounds like too much, but this story is told with tenderness and humor. It will stay with me for a long time.

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CBee
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Pickpick

I‘m not sure if I was in a weird headspace (again) whilst reading this. I liked it, but it‘s very much an “inside the main character‘s head” book and luckily, I liked the main character a lot (we never learn her name). I enjoyed the interspersed stories from Chinese myth and would‘ve liked more of that. I just felt a bit removed from it - again, weird headspace 🤪🤦‍♀️

ChaoticMissAdventures I felt the same. The whole book sets you at a bit of a distance, but I still enjoyed it and would recommend it. I also wish there was more of the Chinese storytelling. It felt at times we were going to sink into more of it then she sort of pivots. 2mo
CBee @ChaoticMissAdventures oh good, maybe it isn‘t just me! I would recommend it too. I did wish for a bit more resolution at the end, did it seem a bit unfinished to you? 2mo
ChaoticMissAdventures @CBee I read the ARC, so I am never sure if it is just my copy or if it just sort of ended. But yeah I felt like she could have expanded it by about 50 pages to add more stories and a cleaner ending. I know some are mad that the MC wasn't mad enough, but I feel like we just never got to her anger phase. 2mo
CBee @ChaoticMissAdventures the finished book just sort of ended too. And I agree, she never got to her anger phase and never even told anyone else about the big C. I just feel like it could‘ve been more fleshed out. I liked being inside her head though. Could relate to her a bit. 2mo
CBee @ChaoticMissAdventures I also loved Darlene and their friendship. Total goals! 2mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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ARC pub date July 22

Our MC is having a rough time. Her husband has been having an affair, and has left her for the mistress a woman named Maggie. And now the MC gets diagnosed with breast cancer, and she decides to name her tumor after her husband's mistress
This is not really humorous (even from a dark humor POV) but it is very human. I really love how the MC starts to reevaluate everything, to start to see herself and her husband in new ways👇

ChaoticMissAdventures My favorite bit is when she starts to tell her children stories she learned from her own parents. And I loved the best friend relationship she has with Darlene, May we all have support people like this ❤️ 2mo
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Megabooks
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My #botm choices! I thought about skipping, but the comparisons to Offill sold me on Maggie. The Compound looks fun, and I thought I‘d give Paradise a shot, too.

ChaoticMissAdventures I just finished Maggie last night and I am so excited to see it is an option, cannot wait to see what others think. I still need to post my review. 2mo
Megabooks @ChaoticMissAdventures It sounded really unique and quite out of the wheelhouse in more recent BOTM choices. Kind of takes me back to when they chose Chemistry and Goodbye Vitamin! 2mo
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ChaoticMissAdventures
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Starting this ARC with a US release date of 22 July

A woman goes to dinner with her husband, and finds out he is having an affair. Soon after she is told she has a tumor. She names the tumor Maggie - her husband's mistress' name.

From GR: "she embarks on a journey of grief, healing, and reclamation."

It is supposed to have a lot of Chinese mythology (told by narrator to the narrators children)

TheKidUpstairs Sounds like it could be really good! Look forward to your review! 3mo
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