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dariazeoli
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I didn‘t expect the news of Heather Armstrong‘s death to hit me as hard as it has, but I keep thinking about those early years of blogging, how the internet was different back then, how fucking funny Dooce was with her writing.

It‘s hard to reconcile some of the last posts she made with that person. They were harmful to a group including her child. They were alarming to anyone familiar with the mental illness struggles she wrote about. 👇🏻

dariazeoli I don‘t know if Heather‘s suicide is surprising, but it was a gut punch. She fought to live for her kIds, for her family, for a long time. I hope she is at peace. I hope her kids get the support they‘ll need. I hope that next time we watch someone‘s journey like it‘s a trainwreck, we try to remember compassion, to not comment if it‘s not helpful. I‘ll be re-reading her books to remember that woman who impacted a lot of us bloggers. (edited) 12mo
BarbaraJean This news hit me hard, too. She was so influential; in the blogosphere and personally. I have such gratitude for her voice back then—her writing helped one of my best friends dig out of post partum depression, normalizing and validating that struggle. I hadn‘t been following her for a while and was unaware of her recent battles with alcoholism. My heart breaks for her daughters, and I echo your hopes. 12mo
KathyWheeler I have some online friends that I made because of her. I was really sad to hear about her death. 12mo
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janeycanuck
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I really enjoyed Rimmer's The Things We Cannot Say and this had equally good writing but had so many flaws. I should have DNF‘ed this and likely would have if it wasn‘t a background audio.

First, in 1996, we had stopped using the phrase "manic depression" - a professional certainly would have been using bipolar by then given that the official name changed in the 1980s and I'm kinda grossed out that Rimmer put the term in a book in 2020.

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janeycanuck Second, I was uncomfortable with how Rimmer dwelled on Beth's struggle with post-partum depression. Did she think her reader wasn't picking up what she was putting down? It became tedious and boring, very quickly. Also, Beth seemed to overcome her postpartum depression with just a couple of sleeping pills? Hmmmm.... 2y
janeycanuck Third, Patrick's "redemption" was unbelievable. I don't buy how quickly he turned things around. I understand grief does strange things but there would have been withdrawal, at the very least, to deal with. 2y
janeycanuck Fourth, what the hell was with Beth repeatedly referring to her mother as Grace? That was just weird. She was a child, she would have known her as her mother and for her to have memories of her mother but refer to her as Grace and not as her mother in her 30s was off-putting. 2y
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Hooked_on_books On the upside, great puzzle! 2y
janeycanuck @Hooked_on_books It really was!! 2y
BkClubCare Puzzle! I have the notecard set. FYI the book second from the bottom is on sale on Amazon. 2y
janeycanuck @BkClubCare it was a fun one to do. Sadly, that book isn‘t on sale on .ca. 2y
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Kappadeemom
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I‘ve read two books back to back about mothers and their motives and now I‘m getting them confused. #booknerdproblems

LeslieO I hate when I do that! 🤪 3y
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VRM1975
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MandaManda
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Came home from my after work walk and realized our lilacs are blooming. It's a beautiful day.

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Chelsea.Poole
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Mehso-so

Not so good. Pretty much wishing I would have skipped this one. The action was so long and drawn out without much payoff. A decent enough example of the pressures of motherhood in spots but just a silly conclusion. Really doubt I‘ll remember anything about this book in a few months.

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Victoriahoperose
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Panpan

This was just really slow for me. Too many characters and things going on for me to keep track of and I just lost interest early on because it was too much. I think it just needed to be a little more clear and a stronger story.

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Mesica25
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Pickpick

3.5

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vlwelser
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Pickpick

I like books that I don't have all figured out before the author reveals everything at the end. This is a great mystery novel.

Jess turns up at the ER with her baby who has a skull fracture and her story doesn't add up. Liz is her bestie and happens to be on duty. And it escalates from there. It was hard to put down.

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TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 4y
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