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merelybookish
The Ten Year Affair | Erin Somers
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Cora meets Sam at playgroup & thus launches the "ten year affair" that sometimes lives more in Cora"s imagination than in reality. This is well-trod territory with a millenial spin.I probably would have been more moved by this book at 35 when I too was immersed in the world of raising kids, managing careers & making a marriage work. At 52, I found it kind of exhausting. That said, I was moved in the end. And Somers makes some sly observations ?

merelybookish About book clubs, parenting culture, pandemic life, restaurants, and more. At times they kept me going more than the plot. #tob 9m
sarahbarnes Great review. I‘m on the fence about this one, but good to know it has some redeeming qualities! now
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squirrelbrain
Seduction Theory | Emily Adrian
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This #ToB longlister is very meta and I can‘t figure out how much of it is ironic. ⬆️

There are various POVs (confusing at times), one of which is a supposed submission for a Creative Writing MFA.

There‘s a lot of angsty conversation so, if you don‘t like that, don‘t bother. However, it‘s not like Rooney where there‘s no communication - here, they over-communicate in a very performative, affected way.

Weirdly, I didn‘t hate it, a soft pick.

ChaoticMissAdventures Interesting. Ever& keeps trying to get me to listen to it, but maybe it is better in physical with all the different POVs? 1d
Chelsea.Poole “Weirdly I didn‘t hate it” 😆 I have this on Libby—another shortie to knock out quickly. 1d
merelybookish Interesting! Currently reading tagged book and also wondering what it's doing that is new or necessary 1d
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BarbaraBB Interesting! 1d
Hooked_on_books Good that you liked it! I still don‘t want to read it. 😂 1d
quietlycuriouskate Sounds like something I can imagine being forced to read, should I ever find myself in one of the milder circles of hell. 1d
Suet624 Yeah, nope. 1d
squirrelbrain I don‘t think it would make much difference on audio @ChaoticMissAdventures - there chapters aren‘t clearly labelled in print either. 8h
squirrelbrain I expect the ToB to be full of unusual, quirky books @merelybookish - not your usual run of the mill stuff. 🤷‍♀️ 8h
squirrelbrain @Chelsea.Poole - after all the reviews I expected not to like it all. Go on, Holly, @Hooked_on_books - you might love it! 😜 8h
Hooked_on_books Ha! Nope. Not even if it makes the tournament! 8h
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BkClubCare
The Mbius Book | Catherine Lacey
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I read the fiction part first, and now there is no way to redo and try it anew beginning with NF. I do NOT have advice (other than to say that the print does have note on copyright page in front of NF side…) I honestly had to go review my notes on Biography of X to recall if I liked it or not, maybe ‘respect and being intrigued by‘ is positive enough. As to 💭 on this one, I found it fascinating. #Nov2025 Book 108 #ToBLL26 #ToB #Library

BkClubCare 📸 Snowy road, Nebraska 1d
BkClubCare I will allow CL to have her wild weird trippy experiences and allow her to tell me but I wouldn‘t want to be there. And I will probably choose to not read another Jesse Ball novel. 1d
BarbaraBB That is a very snowy road! 1d
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merelybookish
The Mind Reels | Fredrik deBoer
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Ugh, this short novel from the #TOB long list is BLEAK. It follows a young woman's descent into serious mental illness. (Schizophrenia is suggested.) Eventually she must choose between life on heavy meds or psychotic episodes. As a reader, we experience both. As well as the hospitalizations in between. The book is well written but it is rough going. Worth reading maybe if you want to understand that diagnosis? Otherwise, I would say skip.

merelybookish There also appears to be some online controversy about the author. (In regards to treatment of reviewers.) I didn't dig into it too much but another possible reason why this might be a good one from the longlist to skip. 2d
sarahbarnes Good to see your review of this one. It was on the list of ones I was interested in, but I may reconsider. 2d
BarbaraBB I may reconsider too! 2d
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CSeydel Oh, I used to read his blog. He‘s a very interesting guy with some interesting ideas, but he can get a bit much sometimes. He tends to take online comments about him very personally, and get very intense in his replies, which is fine when you have a few hundred followers but comes off as a bit needy and neurotic when you have millions. 2d
CSeydel Here he is talking about media personalities dissing his book on BlueSky: https://freddiedeboer.substack.com/p/why-i-need-your-help-with-my-novel 2d
LeahBergen Ooph. That DOES sound bleak. 2d
squirrelbrain Yes, I was interested too initially but I saw a comment about his behaviour on GR, so moved it down my list. Your review only reinforces that. 2d
merelybookish @sarahbarnes Maybe wait and see if it makes the long list. It is a compelling piece of writing but also so depressing. 1d
merelybookish @BarbaraBB It is short, so there is that. 1d
merelybookish @CSeydel Thanks for the link! Yeah, I can't get a good read on whether he deserves the negative reviews or not. He is obnoxious and I can't quite see that the criticisms of the novel are accurate. 1d
merelybookish @LeahBergen Author says he wants to de-romanticize mental illness and I think he does a good job of that. 😬 1d
merelybookish @squirrelbrain I wouldn't make it a priority. 1d
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BkClubCare
The Mbius Book | Catherine Lacey
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Is this the front cover or the back? I am so conflicted about which end to start 😆 #ToBLongList26 or is it 25? Ack #ToB #MemoirVSFiction #Both!

ChaoticMissAdventures Interesting!! I listened to it on audio and she says at the beginning the physical can be read either way and I didn't really understand what that meant 3d
BkClubCare @ChaoticMissAdventures - Nothing I can find says which is the fiction or not… 😒 3d
ChaoticMissAdventures Ohh crazy the audio says for each section what is nonfiction and what is fiction. It felt like the middle was the most nonfiction. I really struggled with this, the narrator was very monotone so I had trouble paying attention 3d
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BarbaraBB Intriguing 3d
sarahbarnes I started with the fiction side, but I think either way you approach it, it still works. 3d
BkClubCare @sarahbarnes - I decided strategically (LOL!) to start with fiction first. The book does have one tiny note on the nonfiction side… 3d
sarahbarnes I‘ll be interested in your take on it! 3d
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ChaoticMissAdventures
Blob: A Love Story | Maggie Su
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I am still trying to decide if I liked this because I liked it or if the bad reviews just gave me super low expectations.
Vi is a super unlikable MC. She is listless, unambitious, rude. Floating around with no direction for no reason (her parents seem great) then she molds a man out of a blob. I got Awada Bunny vibes from this but hesitant to say that, it is not as weird and the writing is not as strong (GR commenters are mad at the comparison)👇

squirrelbrain Ha, I hope I like it too as the reviews aren‘t great! 5d
sarahbarnes I‘m sort of tempted to try this one! 5d
BarbaraBB I am kind of intrigued now! 5d
ChaoticMissAdventures @squirrelbrain @sarahbarnes @BarbaraBB I cannot guarantee it is good! The MC is insufferable, But I did keep thinking I don't know what all the hate is about I didn't hate listening to it. 5d
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ChaoticMissAdventures
The Mbius Book | Catherine Lacey
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#TOB
Well. That is a book.
I do not believe this is a book to tackle on audio. There is a monotone to the narrator, mixed with a stream of consciousness that makes it hard to digest. This is going to be a book I have no memory reading even though this very short read took me three days - I turned it off each time my mind started to wonder
Not for me

@squirrelbrain @BarbaraBB @Deblovestoread @Bookwormjillk @Chelsea.Poole @sarahbarnes

sarahbarnes I‘m reading it right now in hard copy and I do love it, but I love all of her books and can see why it might not be for everyone. 1w
Chelsea.Poole I agree. 1w
Bookwormjillk Good to know about the audio 1w
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ChaoticMissAdventures @sarahbarnes I think I would have enjoyed it more in physical form. I like her at the sentence level and there have been moments that I wanted to think about more but the audio (I think she reads it) just took something away for me. 1w
sarahbarnes I can definitely see how this one would be really not great in audio form. 1w
Deblovestoread Thanks for the audio tip. 1w
BarbaraBB Thanks for tagging! I won‘t be in a hurry to read this! 6d
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Chelsea.Poole
Help Wanted | Adelle Waldman
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Help Wanted landed on last years‘ (this year?? 2025) #ToB long list. I read it earlier this year and I was not impressed. Follows a group of employees at a big box store teaming up and forming alliances to help corporate decide who should get promoted to manager. The characters were interchangeable, all just there to make a point about low-wage jobs and how employees are set up to fail.
Anyhoo, I‘m excited to get started on the new 2026 list.

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ChaoticMissAdventures
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#10BeforeTheEnd Week 5

How is everyone doing??

I am glad I put enough nonfiction on here to get me through Nonfiction November! All the NF is ticked off (finishing Peepshow today) I now have some chunksters while I also look at #ToB

Anyone else feel like they are running out of steam??

Ruthiella I‘m on track at 50%. 👍 And at least two of the remaining will double up for other challenges. Dunno if I will manage all ten but at least eight. 1w
willaful Pretty much on track - DNFing one book helped. 😂 1w
sarahbarnes I‘m reading my fourth…I‘m now getting distracted by library holds and the TOB longlist! 📚 📚 📚 1w
Dilara I'm on track: I've finished 7 of the books on my list because some were unexpectedly short and/or quick reads, but also running out of steam in that my motivation has waned for 2 of the books still to be read 😚 1w
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ChaoticMissAdventures
Cursed Daughters | Oyinkan Braithwaite
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The 4 #ToB books I have already on my shelves to be read.

I have read 11 off the list. 70 is far too many for me to think on so I am going to read the ones already on my TBR and read through the list and see if anything catches my fancy. Many of them have very low reader ratings and I just don't want to waste my time.

BarbaraBB I am interested in all four of these. I am looking forward to all reviews the coming months! 1w
squirrelbrain I loved the Desai but bailed on Katabasis. I have the other two on my shelves (well, 1 on my shelf, 1 on my Kindle!) 1w
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