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GhostGrrl

GhostGrrl

Joined March 2018

Writer, reader, knitter, walker. Proud puppydragon owner.
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Deathspell | Peter W. Dawes
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Such a fun read! I absolutely love Paolo! Though why he doesn‘t smack Christian upside the head at times is beyond me. I‘m a bit at a loss as to how to classify this series, fantasy comes closest but there is a strong romantic subplot that doesn‘t usually happen in the first book of a fantasy series. It‘s not enough to call it a romance though, just raise an eyebrow over whether it‘s pure fantasy. Love, love, love it anyway! Great read!

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A thought-provoking read, especially now. Some of this is true, some made me uncomfortable and some was a bit of a stretch. Interesting to see why the ERA failed. It does explain at least some of my uneasiness with Feminism although I‘m not convinced the picture it paints is entirely accurate. Definitely worth the read especially if you‘ve been reading other women‘s history books or feminist tomes.

KathyWheeler I haven‘t read this yet, but I noticed Phyllis Schafley is a co-author on this book. I always find it interesting and a tad hypocritical when women make a public career and money out of arguing that a woman‘s place is in the home. I hope this book is more nuanced than that. 6y
GhostGrrl Actually, @KathyWheeler the book says that a woman‘s place is in the home only if she wants it to be. One reason I chose to read this book was because so many people respond to what they think feminism is or isn‘t without exploring either. I‘d love to discuss it with you after you‘ve read it. 6y
KathyWheeler @GhostGrrl I‘m so glad to hear it‘s more thoughtful than that. In the home, out of the home — I‘m fine with whatever women do about that as long as it‘s by choice. I know some women would like to be at home but cannot afford it though.😞 I have done both and found I was just not a good stay at home mom. I‘m now looking forward to reading this. 6y
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GhostGrrl I‘m not saying I agreed with every statement or opinion. But then I didn‘t agree with everything in Too Fat Too Slutty Too Loud which was the book I read prior. They sort of balanced each other out. Too Fat was for a book club and I had opportunities to discuss it. This was just for my personal need to see both sides. Let me know when you pick it up @KathyWheeler I really would love to discuss it! 6y
KathyWheeler @GhostGrrl I like to read both sides too and don‘t need to agree with everything to find it interesting. I thought the author of Too Fat, for instance, stretched some points to fit her narrative, especially in regard to Caitlyn Jenner, but it was a good book and gave me a new perspective on some things. It sounds like this one could too. I‘ll let you know when I read it. 6y
RaimeyGallant I may pick this up someday, but only because I also like to better understand arguments from all sides. Feminism as a movement is flawed, but I'm a capital-F Feminist anyway. 6y
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“Feminism is about power....”

GhostGrrl Except for a brief period in and after college, I‘ve never considered or felt like a #feminist. I adore strong women and grew up with many of them (both in my immediate family and in society). And yet #feminism, while it sounds good (ostensibly, equal rights for women) always felt awkward to me. Maybe because the feminists I know have more in common with annoying, proselytizing evangelicals than with my life or the lives of my role models. 6y
MommyWantsToReadHerBook Ah this book sounds interesting! 6y
GhostGrrl @MommyWantsToReadHerBook It is interesting! I‘m reading it as a follow up to Too Fat Too Slutty Too Loud and it‘s fascinating to compare the two. 6y
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Just started listening to the audiobook on a walk yesterday. Have accomplished more this morning already than I do on many days. Now the question is am I really working on projects I love or have I just elevated procrastination to another level of genius?

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A book that will make you think, not just about the women profiled but about women in general and the labels/roles often assigned to them. I didn‘t know what to expect when I picked this volume up for a book club but I‘m glad I read it. It wasn‘t always a comfortable read but it was interesting, especially when I wasn‘t familiar with the woman being profiled. Highly recommended read, especially for those of us who have been feminists for a while.

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“What she demands, instead, is bravery from others.”

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“[A]bsent recognition by national awards organizations or review sections like The New York Times‘s, there‘s no way for a woman, writing about women‘s lives, to unlike herself from a classification as chick lit, mass culture, less-than, not literature.”

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Following up TOO FAT TOO SLITTY TOO LOUD with this.

asiriusreader Welcome to Litsy! 6y
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“Because when hate and fear become the status quo, the simple act of trying to understand others who don‘t live and act the same you do [...] becomes a profoundly unruly act.”

GhostGrrl Truth. 6y
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“The capacity to listen and contemplate has rendered her a formidable legislator and statesman — yet, crucially, done little to change her aptitude at campaigning.”

GhostGrrl This chapter was fascinating! I never looked too hard at my attitude towards HRC until now. I‘m ashamed that I hear an echo of the issues this chapter raised, particularly regarding charisma, in them. In focusing on what she did not achieve we are forgetting the many amazing things that she did accomplish including almost becoming POTUS. 6y
tammysue Great review! 👍🏼 6y
KathyWheeler Welcome to Litsy! After reading your comments about it, I cannot wait to read this book. 6y
GhostGrrl Thanks! @whatshesreadingnow and @KathyWheeler I “found” it through @bookriot #feministbookclub It‘s been an interesting read thus far. Still have a few more chapters to go! 6y
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Camp NaNoWriMo started April 1 and as part of my more productive writing practice I‘m taking the 7-day Challenge. This is my writing #journal (has been since my birthday so it‘s about half full). Starting today it‘s going to get a very focused workout! Hoping my fellow readers will help hold me to it! #campnano #writingjournal

tammysue Beautiful journal! Welcome to Litsy! 👋🏻🌸 6y
the.bookish.valkyrie Welcome to Litsy! And good luck with camp! I‘m participating too! What‘s your goal? 6y
RaimeyGallant Welcome! 6y
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StillLookingForCarmenSanDiego Welcome to Litsy 📚💕 6y
GhostGrrl Thank you! I really like those journals. Best of all they are refillable! @ValkyrieAndHerBooks my goal is a 40,000 word collection of short stories and flash fiction. How about you? 6y
the.bookish.valkyrie Mine is a 25,000 word count in a novel. 10,000 more than I managed in November, but really, in my optimistic heart, I‘m aiming to beat that goal by at least 5,000. Right now, I‘m at just over 1,000 per day. How‘s it going for you? 6y
GhostGrrl Sunday wasn‘t great but I made up some ground yesterday. The tough part for me is just writing and not editing/rewriting until May. But that‘s also one of the reasons I chose to do #campnanowrimo I need to up my productivity game. Hopefully this will do that! 6y
Major_Houlihan Beautiful journal! I am a journal addict and love finding unique journals. I‘ve participated with nanowrimo in the past and need to look back into it. 6y
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“She may not own the label of feminist...but that doesn‘t mean her work to make the labor of femininity visible or reduce the stigma around the ‘non-beautiful‘ pregnancy isn‘t, at heart, a feminist project.”

GhostGrrl This chapter on Kim Kardashian and “too pregnant” has been problematic for me. I‘m not a Kardashian fan, for a variety of reasons. Some of them were touched on in this chapter (can you say trashy?). Some weren‘t (the image they present of wealthy women is not, in my experience, accurate). Further, I‘m not a mother so I don‘t really have a right to an opinion. I do like her a bit better after reading this. A bit. Not that much. 6y
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“[H]er [Madonna‘s] attempts to fight age may have been working — but they were also consuming all that was interesting about her.”

GhostGrrl Truthfully, I‘d rather be interesting. Ageless has advantages but I‘m not sure they outweigh the benefits of being able to think for oneself and hold up your side of a conversation. Older women have always been more interesting to me. That I am becoming one is a source of great pride for me. It‘s unfortunate Madonna (and so many others) reject being interesting in favor of looking/acting an age that wasn‘t that great to begin with. 6y
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“The crafting of the face is a billion-dollar industry because there‘s actually only one truly acceptable face to create: that of “the girl.”” Sadly, I believe that. Even though I don‘t wear much makeup, I do use a variety of skin care products. I also take pride in not looking or acting my age. Does that mean in a decade or so I will be Madonna?

Jess7 I enjoyed this book!! 6y
Jess7 Which chapter was your favorite? I found the Serena Williams one very interesting. It was one of favorite ones! 6y
GhostGrrl I‘m enjoying the book, @Jess7 but I haven‘t finished it yet so I can‘t pick a favorite yet. I get the feeling I‘m a bit older than many of the #bookriotfeministbookclub so it‘s been intriguing hearing all the different points of view. One thing I‘ve noticed is that I find myself thinking “this behavior isn‘t new” though the names associated with it are. (edited) 6y
GhostGrrl One of the things that motivated me to join Litsy was my need for a place/space to record my reactions to and how I feel about what I‘m reading. That‘s especially true for books like this. I find good books make my think. I try to put what I read into the context of my experience. I just needed a place to record my explorations. Not sure I expected anyone to join me on the journey 😇 6y
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“[S]he‘s not the passive participant in someone else‘s story of who she is. She bursts through the glossy veneer of the celebrity industrial complex, wrests control of the narrative, calls bullshit on the rhetoric and mechanisms that would frame her as unruly, acting out, overly aggressive.” Wow. Just wow. What a terrifying statement. Not just because it‘s something I aspire to but because putting it out there even just in words feels dangerous.

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Recently I joined BookRiot‘s Feminist Bookclub & this is the first title we‘re reading. I have to admit, I was skeptical but the subtitle (The Rise and Reign of The Unruly Woman) sold me. Now that I‘m several chapters in, I have to admit I‘ve found more substance than expected. I‘ve also discovered more resonances between the millennial feminist icons being profiled & those feminist icons of the 60‘s, 70‘s & 80‘s I grew up on. Really enjoying it!

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“I stand for girls wanting to be sexy and dance, but also having a strong sense of themselves. If you got a big ol‘ butt? Who cares? That doesn‘t mean you shouldn‘t be graduating from college.” Nikki Minaj #feministbookclub #persist

rather_be_reading welcome to litsy!! 📚🎉📚 6y
LitsyWelcomeWagon Welcome to to the #LitsyFamily! We‘re so glad you‘re here! Checkout these #Litsytips: http://bit.ly/litsytips and #LitsyHowTo videos: http://bit.ly/litsyvideos There‘s so many fun things to do: book exchanges, buddy reads, photo challenges and more! Check out #LitsyHappenings for details. 6y
Jess7 Welcome!! So glad you‘re here! 6y
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