This book isn't for everyone. I mean the very first line is "FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!" ? But that is exactly why I like this book- because the author is just so normal. She's not trying to put on airs or act superior in her grief. She's not trying to write a "by the book" book or self help her readers into a boredom coma. It's a book written by someone who knows what it's like to live in the throws of grief and loss. It's relatable. ?