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Charity and Sylvia
Charity and Sylvia: A Same-sex Marriage in Early America | Rachel Hope Cleves
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Explores the lives of Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake, two ordinary middle-class women who serve as a window on historical constructs of marriage, gender, and sexuality in late 18th-century and early 19th-century America. Both were born in Massachusetts, but in different towns, 11 years apart. Charity's attachment to women was so blatant that after she turned 20, her father told her to leave the house. She worked as a schoolteacher, but was forced to leave jobs several times because of hurtful gossip about her relationships with other women. In early 1807, Charity moved to Vermont to stay with a friend, and there she met Sylvia. The two fell in love, set up housekeeping, and considered themselves married. Gradually, their family members and the residents of Weybridge did as well. Charity and Sylvia became integral to the community, attending church, running their tailor shop, and contributing to charitable endeavors. Most of all, Charity and Sylvia remained passionately committed to each other and refused to hide their relationship. An important work of history that resonates with one of today's most public debates.
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effani
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Charity Bryant and Sylvia Drake lived as a married couple in New England in the first half of the 19th century. What makes this book remarkable is how unremarkable they were - they weren't rich or famous, or particularly noteworthy except in this one aspect of their lives. They were pillars of their church and community, and they left behind enough correspondence and other material for the author to piece together their lives.

effani #ReadHarder2021: a book of LGBTQ+ history. This is a good counterbalance to the (still sadly prevalent) idea that the lives of queer people were nothing but pain before about 1970. 3y
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“The history of same-sex sexuality has been overdetermined by the selective evidence available for its study. Reliant on religious doctrines, court records, and psychological theories, the history of same-sex sexuality is often framed around the poles of oppression and resistance. The missing evidence of pleasure must be supplied by the imagination.“

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This was an interesting read, and remarkable in that so many journals and letters survived about this same-sex marriage in the 1800‘s. In so many ways these women were so much more fortunate than other lesbians. And, heartbreakingly, they felt at odds with their Christian faith and lived their lives agonizing over their love for each other versus their faith.

This story of their forty year marriage shows yet again- queers have always been here.

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One might have thought two women would have made #StrangeBedfellows in the early 1800s, but surprisingly, these women were considered wives to each other by most in their community. I‘m excited to listen to this #Audible daily deal soon. #PrideMonth

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tournevis It's third of nine for the final arc. 5y
Megabooks @tournevis Thanks! Made a longer comment under yours! 5y
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Reviewsbylola Stacking that ⬆️ It sounds amazing! 5y
Megabooks @Reviewsbylola I‘m about ⅔ of the way through, and it‘s awesome! 5y
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#silhouettesoncovers This is waiting for the days of mandatory 12 hour overtime to be done. (Please universe, soon) #seasonsreadings2016 @RealLifeReading

RealLifeReading Ok this book looks really interesting! 7y
BookmarkTavern @RealLifeReading I'm hoping so! My TBR pile is one of the only things keeping me going during this season. 7y
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