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Ladygodiva7
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I‘ve been on a “reading financial books” kick this past year, they‘re so interesting, I‘m already knowledgeable in most of it but finding out my bank only gives me 0.01 percent in interest for my money when there‘s banks out there giving 1.00 percent APY…I need to shop around for a new bank!!
#catsoflitsy

mcipher Look at local credit unions!! Ours is like 3% on checking, it‘s awesome 8h
KadaGul @Ladygodiva7 I don't understand 🤷‍♀️, and I'm sure there is a reason, but the big banks 🏦 don't have high savings or CD yields. People go to big banks 🏦 because they are on every corner, like Starbucks. 7h
ShelleyBooksie Adorable cat! 7h
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AlaMich Also look into high yield savings accounts. I‘d never heard of them until recently but you can get almost 4% at the moment. 4h
Ladygodiva7 @mcipher my bank is a credit union! I‘m disappointed. You go girl!! @KadaGul @AlaMich got money in CDs, but there‘s no high yield savings account around by me, I‘ve looked. @ShelleyBooksie Thanks!! (edited) 4h
Ruthiella 😻😻😻 3h
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CBee
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Note: I haven‘t read the tagged book but think I need to 😂😬🤪🤦‍♀️
Also note: we need healthy boundaries. I‘m trying. Love you, @TheBookHippie and all the #BBB ladies 💚💚 #mondaymood

Deblovestoread Love this and you! ❤️ 1d
TheBookHippie Love you. ♥️ 1d
Chrissyreadit 😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 1d
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AmyG Love you, Miss CBee. 😘 1d
Amiable 💙🩵💙😍 1d
Amiable I‘m also going to add green hearts because green is my favorite color: 💚💚💚 1d
CBee @Amiable mine too!!! 💚💚💚 1d
Jari-chan Yes!! 1d
AnnCrystal 👏🏼😘💚💚💚. 21h
lil1inblue Love. Love. Love. 💓 💓 💓 13h
CBee @lil1inblue 😘 💚 13h
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JenlovesJT47
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Ok I‘m wary of sharing this because I don‘t really know what I‘m doing yet lol, but did a tarot reading this morning and drew the 10 of wands. This is what I got out of it.

Overburdened, burnt
out — take a step back, ask for
help when you need it.

It‘s so easy to get caught in the trap of thinking we don‘t need to ask for help and can do everything on our own. 🩵

#haikuhive #haikutarotreading #poetry #tarot

lil1inblue 1. Love the haiku. 💓💓💓 It's a reminder I need often! 2. IMHO, there is no wrong way to read the card. It's all about how it shows up in your life at the moment. That's different for everyone and can be different for you each time you pull it depending on what's going on. 1d
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JenlovesJT47 @lil1inblue thank you for this! I did a reading last night as well after I finished reading the book and was honestly blown away by the card I drew and how it was spot on with the question I asked. So I‘m all in! Thanks for introducing me to it, I‘ve had that tarot set for at least 5 years, it‘s about time I put it to use! ♥️ 1d
lil1inblue @JenlovesJT47 I love that! 💓 That's why I love using it with journaling! It really gets the thoguhts flowing! 🩵 1d
Avanders 💙🩵 1d
Chrissyreadit I love this post 💛 1d
GingerAntics Or that we can‘t all and must do everything in our own. There is a real catch 22 for neurodivergent folks. 1d
AnnCrystal Wonderful Haiku 👏🏼🐝👌🏼💫🐝💝.

& @lil1inblue I agree too ☺️👍🏼💝
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AmyG I, too, am not one to ask for help. It‘s not always easy. And I find the tarot so amazing as so many times it‘s spot on. Blows my mind. Wishing you well. 1d
JenlovesJT47 @GingerAntics very true, a real conundrum! 1d
JenlovesJT47 @AmyG thank you! I‘m very excited about it! 🤗♥️♥️♥️ 1d
Jari-chan 🫂🫂🫂💖 1d
julieclair I love this! Asking for help is so hard. We feel like it demonstrates failure, when in fact it demonstrates wisdom. 💝 16h
dabbe The words in this one actually makes you pause when you read it out loud. 🩵💙🩵 9h
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PuddleJumper
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Mehso-so

I love the layout of the book, it made it very easy to read and kept me interested. Unfortunately, the content wasn't as impressive.

This is an introduction to ADHD and should be treated as such. There's a lot of useful information, it's a bit skewed towards ADHD is a super power which I don't like, and some of it is a bit patronising.

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PuddleJumper This is not a toolkit or however it describes itself. The 10 step is basically get routines while ignoring that executive dysfunction exists and people with ADHD often can't form habits.
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Chrissyreadit Did you read ADHD 2.0? 3d
Jari-chan I don't like the ADHD superpower idea either 🙄 3d
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PuddleJumper @Chrissyreadit No, I'll have a look. Thanks! 3d
PuddleJumper @Jari-chan It's very toxic positivity. You can discuss the good aspects of ADHD without making it seem like you're a special lizard that figured out how to fly. It also makes me feel bad because I'm struggling to brush my teeth and apparently I'm supposed to be some crazy creative person 3d
AmyG Not good spin. Not everything needs to be that. Just be honest. 3d
Jari-chan @PuddleJumper Exactly! It totally ignores the fact that this world is not built for neurodivergent people. It makes it easy for others to think "Oh wow, then you're all set", while we're actually struggling with basic tasks. And as soon as we admit that we can't keep up, we just have to "try a bit harder" ? Like, I've tried for basically all my life. 3d
Cuilin @PuddleJumper I also hate the super power bullshit when basic self care is a challenge. 3d
PuddleJumper @AmyG Exactly. There are good and bad aspects, you don't need to sugarcoat it especially for adults 3d
IriDas I hate the “it‘s a super power narrative.” It‘s just an excuse not to give people the help they need. And “habits” what?!?!?!? As someone with ADHD who has been trying that my whole life—what a friggin joke!!!! 3d
Chrissyreadit @PuddleJumper I struggle with so many things i was made to feel bad about and did not realize are part of having ADHD because i was never dx- I think our culture creates a world that is much harder for people with ADHD…. 2d
PuddleJumper @IriDas The amount of habit trackers I have or attempted because I kept being told to just do it for 30 days and it'll stick! Make those healthy habits blah blah. It was a relief finding out that my brain worked differently and I wasn't lazy 1d
PuddleJumper @Chrissyreadit It's hostile to people who aren't neurotypical. There's expectations that certain things are easy for everyone and if you can't do it then you're lazy and it's a moral failing. Absolutely messes you up. I've only just been diagnosed with ADHD and I'm having to undo so much negative speak, I've always considered myself lazy or blamed myself for struggling when other people didn't 1d
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Eggbeater
The Power of Concentration | Theron Q. Dumont
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So I got my new Kindle colorsoft yesterday, and I am so excited because my old one was on its last legs. But I am too distressed over current events to be able to concentrate well enough to read. I am very frustrated. Do any of you have this problem if you get anxious, and do you have suggestions for how to calm down and concentrate on your books?

lil1inblue Sometimes, playing instrumental music in the background helps me focus. I also switch up what I'm reading, or I find more lighthearted and funny books. 2w
Aims42 I do some 4-7-8 breathes (in thru your nose for 4, hold for 7, exhale thru your mouth for 8). I second @lil1inblue suggestion of playing instrumental music, there are some great long play YouTube videos 👍 I‘ve been enjoying this one https://youtu.be/YTDqU4R07Zc 2w
Bookwormjillk For me it‘s usually finding a spot without distractions and forcing myself to read for 20 minutes without stopping. That‘s usually enough to remind my brain that I really do like reading more than doom scrolling. I‘ve definitely been struggling to focus this year. 2w
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AnnCrystal 🫂 I watch fantasy movies, which somehow inspires me to read 📚💝. 2w
Amiable Like @Aims42 , deep breathing. And meditation. 2w
Jari-chan I started reading cozy books or romances, that take away the fears and the stress of reality at least for a short amount of time. Also, avoiding social media 🙁 2w
dabbe I listen to soothing rain or ocean sounds. You can find 10+ hour ones on youtube or any music app you're using. I also love the website https://asoftmurmur.com/, where you can create your own ambient mix. Then, if I'm really in a rut, reading my PEANUTS/MUTTS comics or any comics helps me unwind while still reading. https://www.gocomics.com/ is also a great comics website. 🩵💙🩵 2w
Eggbeater @lil1inblue @Aims42 @Bookwormjillk @AnnCrystal @Amiable @dabbe Thank you all so much for the suggestions. I really appreciate the support. It means a lot. 💕 1w
Eggbeater @Aims42 Thanks for the link! I've been enjoying the coffee shop bookstore music. Very comforting. 1w
Eggbeater @dabbe thanks for the links! Comic books never occurred to me! Rain sounds sound lovely. 1w
Aims42 @Eggbeater There has been a lot going on, reading these comments have given me ideas too!! 😊☺️ 1w
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geodynamical_nonfiction
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Pickpick

Even though she is “so LA”, she makes a good point.

To be in a healthy relationship with the not-so-perfect universe, you have to be willing to SERVE the universe in some way, whether that‘s through environmentalism, bringing positivity into a space, or donating a warm meal.

People returning from Burning Man (or Rainbow Gatherings) are changed because of the “helper‘s high” experienced in such a gifting economy. It‘s the power of community.

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geodynamical_nonfiction
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“Listen. We‘re all meeting each other at different parts of our journey, and it‘s not efficient or effective to categorize people as right or wrong. What‘s right to you may feel wrong to someone else based on their specific circumstances and vice versa. … And no matter how much you disagree with someone, it‘s in your best interest to empathize with where they are on their journey.”

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geodynamical_nonfiction
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“Who wants to hear from a person who has it all figured out? Not me. I hate when I‘m venting about something, and someone replies with. ‘Oh really? I don‘t have those issues at all!‘ What the f, Raj, I‘m not here confessing my negative feelings so that you can tell me you have positive ones all the time, okay? I‘d rather spill those feelings to Pria, who is also a hot mess, so we can try to work on ourselves TOGETHER.”

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JenlovesJT47
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All in good fun…😉🍑😎

When I look at your
rump, it makes my heart thump — it‘s
so pleasingly plump.

#haikuhive #haikuaday #poetry

🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑

TheBookHippie I like big butts and I cannot lie…. 🙃👀 3w
AnnCrystal 👏🏼🐝👌🏼🤩😂🤭😉🐝💝. 3w
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DebinHawaii Hah! 🍑😍 Love it! 💛🐝🖤 3w
dabbe L😍VE! 🖤🐝🖤 3w
CBee Haha this is awesome Jen 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 3w
jdiehr 🍑🍑 2w
kspenmoll 😂😂🍑 2w
lil1inblue @TheBookHippie This. 😂🤩😂 2w
JenlovesJT47 @TheBookHippie @AnnCrystal @DebinHawaii @dabbe @CBee @jdiehr @kspenmoll @lil1inblue 😬😇😆😅😏 thank you all for indulging me. I have been a butt aficionado since I was 11 years old and discovered Atlanta Braves baseball, Chipper Jones and those glorious baseball uniforms 😍😍😆😇🍑🍑🍑🍑🍑 2w
AnnCrystal 🤩 LOVE those glorious baseball uniforms...I don't even follow the sport 😂🤗⚾💝. 2w
JenlovesJT47 @AnnCrystal ⚾️🤤🤤🤤 I proudly embraced my love of butts at age 11 and couldn‘t care less when my friends made fun of me for it 😅 2w
CBee @JenlovesJT47 butts in baseball uniforms are quite lovely 🤩 2w
AnnCrystal @JenlovesJT47 👏🏼☺️👍🏼 they were probably just too embarrassed to admit 🤗. No one even knows why I like watching the sport report of the News 🤭😂😉⚾💝. 2w
lil1inblue @JenlovesJT47 Love that! 😅 Baseball butts are fabulous! 🤩🤤 2w
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5feet.of.fury
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1.I took my baby to the ocean for the first time & we had just the best little day
2.I‘ve been obsessed with the “buy nothing” group in my town, I‘ve unloaded unneeded stuff & scored a bouncer and a booster seat this week. Glad to save money & save stuff from landfills
3.Prowrestling.
4.I went back to work this week & while that‘s not joyful in itself, my coworkers have been so welcoming &
5.Fridays have meaning again. Happy Friyay! #5joysfriday

MartinaLove Where are you watching AEW? 3w
5feet.of.fury @MartinaLove HBO for the weekly stuff! 3w
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