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Real Self-Care
Real Self-Care: How to Embrace True Wellbeing in a World Overrun by Wellness | Pooja Lakshmin
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Feeling down? Burnt out? Like it's impossible to balance your personal and professional life? Why not indulge in some easy self-care, like a juice cleanse or a gratitude journal? In the past decade, self-care has become a staple in women's lives. We are sold breezy fixes in pastel-coloured packages, and then made to feel at fault when they don't work. But if we set aside those activities that don't serve us, we can all do the personal work of strengthening our relationships with ourselves. In Empowered, clinical psychiatrist and women's health expert Pooja Lakshmin will give you the tools you need to engage in real self-care practices, ones that connect you with yourself and empower you as an agent of change in your own life. This book will show you that- Real self-care requires setting boundaries and moving past guilt. Real self-care means treating yourself with compassion. Real self-care brings you closer to yourself. Real self-care is an assertion of power. Because real self-care is not a noun - it's a verb. And while it may not be as easy as buying that amethyst crystal-infused water bottle, the rewards are infinite.
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willaful

“search Instagram and you'll find more than sixty million posts tagged with #SelfCare. They run the gamut from beachside yoga to triumphant mommy blogs to 'curative' smoothie recipes. If we use social media as our guide, self-care appears to be... anything that looks good in a photo?“

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ImperfectCJ
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This is one of the most helpful and reasonable self-help books I've read in a long time. The basic premise is that burnout especially among women (the inclusive definition) is the result of systemic pressure that leads women to feel overwhelmed, alone, and so conditioned to ignore their own needs they have trouble even recognizing them. ⬇️

ImperfectCJ Lakshmin asserts that setting boundaries and living consistently with our values challenges the status quo and moves us towards systemic change. This echoes a lot of work I've been doing in my own life, and it's cool to see it outlined here. There are the requisite quizzes and checklists, but I don't find them overly silly. I might recommend the print book---the audiobook is read by the author and it took me a while to get used to her vocal fry. 3mo
ImperfectCJ If this isn't something that bothers you, then the audiobook is great, but you still might want the print book for the exercises. 3mo
merelybookish I just listened to a podcast with this author. Made me think I'd like her book. 3mo
ImperfectCJ @merelybookish I think I heard about her book on a podcast, but I retained nothing about it so I was pleasantly surprised. I kind of wish I'd heard this message when I was younger. I think I was already leaning in this f 3mo
ImperfectCJ Ugh, accidentally hit send...this direction, but when I was younger it would have helped me to hear/read someone else describing what I was trying to do. 3mo
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ImperfectCJ
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I walked to (and from) work (6.4 miles round trip), I listened to the beginning of the tagged book, my students gave "reading" as an example of "an adventure," AND I saw two mini horses! Days don't get much better!

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Mitch
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This was really honest, thought provoking and full of good advice. Really loved the chapters on boundaries and changing perspectives and the themes running throughout which gives praise to being kind to yourself, managing expectations and finding a longer lasting, sustainable happy. One small niggle - so many of the examples and case studies were about motherhood and being a parent. Thought she should maybe have cast the net a little wider.

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Mitch
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I‘m a little late to the party with this one - but January seems to be a good month to bump it up the TBR! I‘m going in …..

Chrissyreadit 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 4mo
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Cupcake12
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#ThinkpositiveBepositive
Hope everyone has had a good day. 💕

dabbe It makes me want to add “Coffee heals everything.“ 🤩😍🤗 4mo
Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks @dabbe I wish I liked coffee! ☕️ 4mo
dabbe @Alwaysbeenaloverofbooks Hot cocoa or tea works, too! 🤣🤩😍 4mo
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ElizaMarie
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Just what I needed to read, @Chrissyreadit (thanks again for always steering me in the right direction on these ♥️♥️. #BookSpin @TheAromaofBooks

I‘m gonna work on these self-care/help books and journaling when my hand heals.

My cuddle bugs :)

Chrissyreadit ❤️❤️❤️❤️ 6mo
dabbe Lordy, lordy ... cuddle-bug overload! 🖤🐾🐾🖤 6mo
TheAromaofBooks Woohoo!! 6mo
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ElizaMarie
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ElizaMarie
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@Chrissyreadit I‘m really jumping into this. With my small fracture on my wrist(wearing a mitten so I don‘t try to use it) I‘m struggling with journaling so, I‘m just gonna read and highlight- get a baseline for the real work soon :) 🩷💜🩷

Chrissyreadit 💗💗💗 i‘m so glad- that is my goal- to go back and highlight parts! I‘m sorry about your wrist! that stinks- and glad you‘re using the mitten to remind you to be careful. I love this book so much- i hope you get as much out of it as i did. 6mo
ElizaMarie I really am! And yes. I plan on going back to this one and the Alter Within and spend time journaling and meditating - thinking of rereading I am Diosa (because I ended up getting it in print) 6mo
dabbe Ouchie for your wrist! Hope it heals quickly! 🧡🖤💜 6mo
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I heard an interview with this author on a podcast I listen to, and I was intrigued by her story and her wisdom. This book is everything I hoped it would be, and exceptionally helpful for reframing the concept of self care.

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