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Fairyland: A Memoir of My Father
Fairyland: A Memoir of My Father | Alysia Abbott
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A beautiful, vibrant memoir about growing up motherless in 1970s and 80s San Francisco with an openly gay father. After his wife dies in a car accident, bisexual writer and activist Steve Abbott moves with his two-year-old daughter to San Francisco. There they discover a city in the midst of revolution, bustling with gay men in search of liberationfew of whom are raising a child. Steve throws himself into San Franciscos vibrant cultural scene. He takes Alysia to raucous parties, pushes her in front of the microphone at poetry readings, and introduces her to a world of artists, thinkers, and writers. But the pair live like nomads, moving from apartment to apartment, with a revolving cast of roommates and little structure. As a child Alysia views her father as a loving playmate who can transform the ordinary into magic, but as she gets older Alysia wants more than anything to fit in. The world, she learns, is hostile to difference. In Alysias teens, Steves friendsseveral of whom she has befriendedfall ill as AIDS starts its rampage through their community. While Alysia is studying in New York and then in France, her father tells her its time to come home; hes sick with AIDS. Alysia must choose whether to take on the responsibility of caring for her father or continue the independent life she has worked so hard to create. Reconstructing their life together from a remarkable cache of her fathers journals, letters, and writings, Alysia Abbott gives us an unforgettable portrait of a tumultuous, historic time in San Francisco as well as an exquisitely moving account of a fathers legacy and a daughters love.
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^^ P316 outsider/insider “Though I am straight and haven‘t had a living gay parent for almost twenty years, I still feel a part of this queer community. […] This queer history is our queer history.”

Straightforward descriptions of the devastation of community before treatment and AZT, the fear, pain, the defiance.

Abbott is honest about how they sometimes failed each other as parent/child, while also feeding tremendous loving bonds.

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Raised by her gay father in San Francisco in the ‘70s-80s after her mother dies when she is 3. Beautiful reversal of roles, he sacrificing & accommodating for her as a single dad, she returning to SF to care for him when he faces “full-blown AIDS.” Personal diaries, drawings, photos. SF literary scene, Haight Ashbury. Honest details. She vacuums not to clean, but because “the sound of his mother vacuuming always made him feel safe & loved.” 2012

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Today's book haul from the Boothbay Harbor used bookstore

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SFPL's July/August 2015 On the Same Page selection.

librarymail So good, so heartbreaking 8y
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