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Hysterical
Hysterical: A Memoir | Elissa Bassist
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Equal parts medical mystery, cultural criticism, and rallying cry, writer Elissa Bassist shares her journey to reclaim her authentic voice in a culture that doesn't listen to women. Between 2016 and 2018, Elissa Bassist saw over twenty medical professionals for a variety of mysterious ailments. Bassist had what millions of American women had: pain that didnt make sense to doctors, a body that didnt make sense to science, a psyche that didnt make sense to mankind. But then an acupuncturist suggested some of her physical pain could be caged fury finding expression, and that treating her voice would treat the problem. It did. Growing up, Bassist's family, boyfriends, school, work, and television had the same expectation for a womans voice: less is more. She was called dramatic and insane for speaking her mind; she was accused of overreacting and playing victim for having unexplained physical pain; she was ignored or rebuked like women throughout history for using her voice inappropriately by expressing sadness or suffering or anger or joy. Because of this, she said yes when she meant no; she didnt tweet #MeToo; and she never spoke without fear of being "too emotional." So, she felt rage, but like a good woman, repressed it. In Hysterical, Bassist explains how girls and women internalize and perpetuate directives about their voice, making it hard to emote or just speak up and burn down the patriarchy. But her silence hurt more than anything she could ever say. Hysterical is a memoir of a voice lost and found, and a primer on new ways to think about a womans voice, where its being squashed and where it needs amplification. Bassist breaks her own silences and calls on others to do the sameto unmute their voice, listen to it above all others, and use it again without regret.
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youneverarrived
Hysterical: A Memoir | Elissa Bassist
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I thought this was going to be a memoir about how the author had undiagnosed pain & the way women‘s medical issues aren‘t always taken seriously but that was a very small part of the book; she uses that as an opening to call out the way she (and other women) was taught over and over to diminish her voice, be less emotional etc. I didn‘t love the way it was written but it was well informed and researched. #nonfiction2023 (Harper Valley P.T.A)

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Bookalong
Hysterical: A Memoir | Elissa Bassist
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Pickpick

5☆ A fantastic memoir! Sharp, funny, intimate and a universal story. Bassist's writing struck me like punch. It was at once intelligent and compelling. I went into this memoir completely unbiased and was beyond impressed. Although I read this towards the end of 2022 much of this has stuck with me, its that kind of book, urgent and relevant. I can't reccomend it enough. #bookreview

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rachelm
Hysterical: A Memoir | Elissa Bassist
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🍁September Reading Wrap🍁
A good reading month.
Top recommendations:
- Hysterical (memoir)
-The Women Could Fly (fiction)
- The Change (fiction)
-Do You Take this Man (romance)
Books not out yet that should be on your radar:
- Mistakes We‘re Made (romance)
-Phaedra (historical fic)
And the only book I‘ve read in months that I actively cannot recommend: Lessons
I‘m rereading Mantel and into the third novel. So sad to lose such a literary giant.

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Rhondareads
Hysterical: A Memoir | Elissa Bassist
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The author shares with us her pain her medical journey for healing and getting her voice as a woman heard.

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Rhondareads
Hysterical: A Memoir | Elissa Bassist
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Brilliant cover heart wrenching memoir the author desperately seeking an answer to her medical issues.A look at the way women are treated by many doctors,