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Parenting Beyond Pink & Blue
Parenting Beyond Pink & Blue: How to Raise Your Kids Free of Gender Stereotypes | Christia Spears Brown
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A guide that helps parents focus on their children's unique strengths and inclinations rather than on gendered stereotypes to more effectively bring out the best in their individual children, for parents of infants to middle schoolers. Reliance on Gendered Stereotypes Negatively Impacts Kids Studies on gender and child development show that, on average, parents talk less to baby boys and are less likely to use numbers when speaking to little girls. Without meaning to, we constantly color-code children, segregating them by gender based on their presumed interests. Our social dependence on these norms has far-reaching effects, such as leading girls to dislike math or increasing aggression in boys. In this practical guide, developmental psychologist (and mother of two) Christia Spears Brown uses science-based research to show how over-dependence on gender can limit kids, making it harder for them to develop into unique individuals. With a humorous, fresh, and accessible perspective, Parenting Beyond Pink & Blueaddresses all the issues that contemporary parents should considerfrom gender-segregated birthday parties and schools to sports, sexualization, and emotional intelligence. This guide empowers parents to help kids break out of pink and blue boxes to become their authentic selves.
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eraderneely
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I‘m finding the “how to parent without exacerbating gender stereotypes” parts of this book good, but lots of the rest of it is crap. And it‘s not at all trans-inclusive.
I am very good at math! I love math. And spreadsheets. And engineering.
Let‘s bet Dr Spears Brown. I‘ll take all your money!

Oryx I loved maths in school - the satisfaction of solving a problem and knowing it was right - lovely! Although I've forgotten everything I ever knew about differentiating and cos and sins and tans... 3y
eraderneely @Oryx yes! The knowing that it was right, the lack of ambiguity, is what I love. 3y
TrishB My daughter is very proud to call herself a woman in STEM 😁 or a steminist! 3y
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BookNAround Huh. I don‘t like math but entirely chalking it up to nurture rather than nature is pretty reductive and false, IMO. Also, my daughter (getting a Masters in Architecture) called the other day to tell me she got a 95 on her engineering midterm. So she not only likes math, she‘s damn good at it too. 3y
Caroline2 @TrishB a steminist!!! I love that! 😀 2y
TrishB @Caroline2 she has a badge with it on 😁 2y
rockpools It‘s a good job she doesn‘t know us. Might lose a fair bit of money there! Hello Emily 😊 2y
kaysworld1 @eraderneely Hi hun I was just checking you got your birthday card alright xx 2y
eraderneely @kaysworld1 probably! My husband has been squirreling away all my cards and things and not letting me open anything yet. I‘ll be sure to post once I do though! 2y
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LogiKitty
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I'm already loving this book and feeling a slight affirmation as a queer person. Why do we have such a compulsion to gender the individuals in front of us?

I often find that people assume me to be a "ma'am" or a "she" when sometimes I really just feel like a 'they' ? even this shrugging icon is distinctly 'female'!