"Some people pretend for years that they have had gratifying sexual relations. Their lives become so based on pretence that they lose the distinction between what is really gratifying or frustrating and what they are pretending is gratifying or frustrating." -pg 47
"Sharing a common experience may be a token of the most genuine bond between two persons, or a token of the most abject bondage."
"The 'unconscious' is what we do not communicate, to ourselves or to one another. We may convey something to another, without communicating it to ourselves."
Self and Others | 
