Home Feed
Home
Search
Search
Add Review, Blurb, Quote
Add
Activity
Activity
Profile
Profile
What We Kept to Ourselves
What We Kept to Ourselves | Nancy Jooyoun Kim
4 posts | 7 read | 3 to read
The New York Times bestselling author of the "timely, important" (PopSugar) The Last Story of Mina Lee returns with a propulsive and suspenseful new novel about a family that unravels when a stranger--who may hold the key to their missing mother--is found dead in their backyard. 1999: The Kim family is struggling to move on with their lives after their mother, Sunny, vanished a year ago. Sixty-one-year-old John Kim feels more isolated from his grown children, Anastasia and Ronald, than ever before. But one evening, their fragile lives are further upended when John discovers the body of a dead stranger in the backyard. The tragedy seems random until it's revealed that the dead man was carrying a letter to Sunny, sparking a desperate investigation into the stranger's history and possible connections to Sunny--only to discover that someone has been watching them. 1977: Sunny is pregnant and has just moved to Los Angeles from Korea with her work-obsessed husband. America is not turning out the way she had dreamed it to be, and the loneliness and isolation is broken only by a fateful encounter at a bus stop. The unexpected connection spans the decades and echoes into the family's lives in the present as they uncover devastating secrets that put not only everything they thought they knew about their mother at risk, but their very lives as well. Both a riveting page-turner and moving family story, What We Kept to Ourselves masterfully explores the consequences of secrets between parents and children, husbands and wives, the search for home when all seems lost, and what it means to dream in America.
Amazon Indiebound Barnes and Noble WorldCat Goodreads LibraryThing
review
Hooked_on_books
What We Kept to Ourselves | Nancy Jooyoun Kim
post image
Mehso-so

A year after Sunny disappeared, her family finds a man dead in their yard, and he seems to be connected to her. This sets off an exploration of this immigrant/first gen American family. A lot of the exploration of the family I really enjoyed, but it‘s slow to get started and the ending is overly dramatic in a way that didn‘t work for me. I feel like with reworking, this book could be really good, but it doesn‘t quite get there.

review
Megabooks
What We Kept to Ourselves | Nancy Jooyoun Kim
post image
Mehso-so

I just don‘t think Kim is for me. I gave her debut a so-so as well. I appreciate the themes she explores: war trauma, immigration, generational differences, secrets, but I prefer to be shown through actions rather than told with florid (overwritten) language. 🤷🏻‍♀️

A mother has disappeared and a man who has her name and address written on a note is found dead in her backyard. Her husband and children plus his child must find their connection.

review
Mpcacher
What We Kept to Ourselves | Nancy Jooyoun Kim
post image
Pickpick

We meet Sunny and John, Korean immigrants in LA in 1977 and follow Sunny's boredom with life and the drudgery of housekeeping & mothering. We also learn that by 1999 she has been missing for a year and John has found the body of a man in the backyard. This is not a fast paced book, even with the mystery, but rather a slow read that does a great job of capturing Sunny's lost dreams and John's drive to obtain security in their new country. 3.5/5

review
REPollock
What We Kept to Ourselves | Nancy Jooyoun Kim
post image
Pickpick

So compelling and engrossing! Kim's first novel was a favorite & this one is even better. Heartbreaking, inspiring, complex, compassionate, a multigenerational story, mystery, & awakening.

Disclaimer, I once attended a writing workshop with this author. We would recognize one another in a random encounter but we are not in close communication.

I received an ARC from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.