Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy | 
so-soI guess this book is good for what it is, but it really isn‘t what I was looking for. Then again, what I was looking for—“polyamory, how to do it correctly”—probably doesn‘t exist 😂 But the order of the subtitle is the order of importance in the book, and those aren‘t strong concerns for me. I did get some useful nuggets out of the book, though.
Clare-Dragonfly Now that I think about it more, maybe I‘m looking less for “how to do it correctly” and more for “how to understand what you want out of polyamory and how to go about getting that.” 🤔 1y
dylanisreading I read this book too. For what you're looking for, I'd recommend therapy. 🤣 (But seriously though.) 1y
Clare-Dragonfly @dylanisreading Fair point 😅 but for that to work, I‘ll have to find a therapist who doesn‘t ask things like “what counts as cheating in polyamory?” 1y
