Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, and Feeling Guilty... . and Start Speaking Up, Saying No, and Unapologetically Being Yourself | 
Rules that tell us conflicting things, such as “Stand up for yourself and speak your mind” and “Never ever hurt anyone‘s feelings.” This caused anxiety. I thought I was afraid of others. Actually, I was afraid of my own inner critic, who would ruthlessly attack me if I broke a rule. This caused a perpetual feeling of never measuring up.
pickIn this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.
