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B.F.F.
B.F.F.: A Memoir of Friendship Lost and Found | Christie Tate
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From the author of Group, a New York Times bestseller and Reeses Book Club Pick, comes a moving, heartwarming, and powerful memoir about Christie Tates lifelong struggle to sustain female friendship, and the friend who helps her find the human connection she seeks. After more than a decade of dead-end dates and dysfunctional relationships, Christie Tate is feeling hopeful after finally finding a loving man who doesnt drink. Her days of agonizing in group therapy over guys who wont commit are over, the grueling emotional work required to attach to another person tucked neatly into the past. Or so she thought. Weeks after giddily sharing stories of her new boyfriend at Saturday morning recovery meetings, Christie receives a gift from a friend. Meredith, twenty years older and always impeccably accessorized, gives Christie a box of holiday-themed scarves as well as a gentle suggestion: maybe now is the perfect time to examine why friendships give her trouble. The work never ends, right? she says with a wink. Christie isnt so sure, but she soon realizes that the feeling of apartness that has plagued her since childhood isnt magically going away now that shes in a healthy romantic relationship. With Meredith by her side, she embarks on a brutally honest exploration of her friendships past and present, sorting through the ways that debilitating shame and jealousy have kept the lasting bonds she craves out of reachand how she can overcome a history of letting go too soon. But when Meredith becomes ill and Christies baggage threatens to muddy their final days, shes forced to face her deepest fears in honor of the woman who finally showed her how to be a friend. Poignant, laugh-out-loud funny, and emotionally satisfying, B.F.F. explores what happens when we finally break the habits that impair our ability to connect with others, and the ways that one lifehowever messy and imperfectcan change another.
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Victoriahoperose
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I loved this book. A little bit sad but very true about female friendships and the trials we go through as women in general. I thought the author was candid and honest and I loved reading her story. I would definitely read more by her!

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actualdisneyprincess
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I loved “Group,” and so far, this is full of the same plain-spoken truths and humor. Christie Tate is such a refreshing alternative to so many of the other voices in similar genres, which all feel cultivated and far too “rah-rah” and chipper to be genuine. Tate just feels authentic and messy and real, truly “like the rest of us.” #bff #christietate

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Nicki_K
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Thanks to #netgalley for the ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review. Christie takes us through several friendships she has experienced in her life and I found this to be a very relatable and engaging read. I loved how she wrote about the difficulties of it, the messiness and the joys of it This is one of those memoirs that stays in you head and your heart, long after the last page.

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Megabooks
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Panpan

Tedious…tedious…tedious.

I didn‘t like her first memoir, Group, but I‘m going through some friend drama right now, so I decided to try Tate‘s second memoir about friendship, particularly one she had with an older woman she met through 12-step programs. Many of the situations Tate was in with friends over the years were relatable, but the detail she went into about petty friend dramas was exhausting! Highly annoying and very frustrating read!

squirrelbrain Ugh, sounds very annoying! 1y
Cinfhen This one also came up on my feed this week as I book I might like but …I actually could not tolerate the author after reading GROUP so I thought I should probably stay away from this one 😉 1y
Cinfhen Sorry you‘re having friend drama 😢hope it‘s not Katie or your college bestie 1y
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Megabooks @squirrelbrain it wasn‘t my favorite for sure! 1y
Megabooks @Cinfhen yeah, I should‘ve known after Group that she wasn‘t for me, but I tried this anyway. 🤷🏻‍♀️ the drama is with some former high school friends that are acting like we‘re still in high school. 🙄 problems with living in your hometown. 👎🏻 1y
Cinfhen Ugh - nothing is worse than 40 year old woman acting like 14 year olds!!!! 1y
Megabooks @Cinfhen truth!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻 1y
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