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Going Dutch
Going Dutch: A Novel | James Gregor
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A sly and humorous portrait of modern relationships and an urban comedy of manners in the vein of The Love Affairs of Nathaniel P, James Gregor’s Going Dutch finds a struggling gay male graduate student in an unexpected—yet stirring—relationship with his brilliant female classmate. Exhausted by dead-end forays in the gay dating scene, surrounded constantly by friends but deeply lonely in New York City, and drifting into academic abyss, twenty-something graduate student Richard has plenty of sources of anxiety. But at the forefront is his crippling writer’s block, which threatens daily to derail his graduate funding and leave Richard poor, directionless, and desperately single. Enter Anne: his brilliant classmate who offers to “help” Richard write his papers in exchange for his company, despite Richard’s fairly obvious sexual orientation. Still, he needs her help, and it doesn’t hurt that Anne has folded Richard into her abundant lifestyle. What begins as an initially transactional relationship blooms gradually into something more complex. But then a one-swipe-stand with an attractive, successful lawyer named Blake becomes serious, and Richard suddenly finds himself unable to detach from Anne, entangled in her web of privilege, brilliance, and, oddly, her unabashed acceptance of Richard’s flaws. As the two relationships reach points of serious commitment, Richard soon finds himself on a romantic and existential collision course—one that brings about surprising revelations. Going Dutch is an incisive portrait of relationships in an age of digital romantic abundance, but it’s also a heartfelt and humorous exploration of love and sexuality, and a poignant meditation on the things emotionally ravenous people seek from and do to each other. James Gregor announces himself with levity, and a fresh, exciting voice in his debut.
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Lauren.Archer
Going Dutch: A Novel | James Gregor
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Panpan

I hate to write negative reviews, but this book was complete nonsense to me. I am sure there is a place for this book in the world, but not with this 40-something woman.


Thank you NetGalley and Simon & Schuster for an Advanced Reader's Copy of this book for an honest review.

For my full review please visit my blog at: http://obsessedbookaholic.com/2019/08/16/going-dutch-book-review/

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mrozzz
Going Dutch: A Novel | James Gregor
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Pickpick

This is a laser-focused introspective novel full of haltingly cringeworthy situational dialogue. I kept turning pages wondering if Richard's agency would take hold now- or now- or now- or if he would run from his obligations to his squalid apartment, waiting for everything he's worked for to crumble. I enjoyed this awkward look at his overlapping love & professional lives and the many asides to how depressing and difficult dating in the NYC is.